TRAITS OF A UPSCALE,HIGH CLASS PROVIDER

[Guest072712]

That was an excellent post and I completely agree.

[MrGiz]

- Very pleasant sensual/flirty board presence , communication skills , long history of fine reviews , well traveled , evidence of a good education , conversational skills across a broad range , sweet-positive demeanor , public sophistication , quality screening / reference friendly , eXXXcellent sexual skills....

Good looks and a nice body doesn't hurt....

- Zero history of bi-polar-schizophrenia , online-threatening-outing , cat-fighting , trash-talking , obvious lying-story-telling , self-righteous bragging , bullshitting of personal achievements , belittling of peers , history of banning , fake photos , multiple-handles/personas , false-victim crying , bat shit crazy behavior...

Is that asking too much?

[John Bull]

Originally Posted by ninasastri

<snip> That brings me back to advanced degrees: If HDHs don`t play games why does someone who has a BA have to pretend she has more than one degree and they are "advanced"?

A lot of that goes on in this Forum, wouldn't you say?

[Shayla]

We need an actual HDH to post in here to find out.

[charlestudor2005]

I'll be issuing HDH Certificates during this year. I'll post the Application online in the "services for providers" forum. The Application Fee will only be $5,000 (cheap considering you'll make it back in the first week, plus profit). There is, of course, an in-person performance test to evaluate your skills.

Once you've received your HDH Certificate, there will be no question.

[WTF]

Originally Posted by SillyGirl

I don't think it is about judgement. Let's say you are dropping over 1k for a dinner date. Do you want to sit in a nice restaurant searching for common ground until you land on a topic with which she is familiar or do you want to talk about stuff that interests you? I wouldn't pay to see Larry the cable guy, why should a client pay to talk about Jersey Shore?

Well now if I only talked about things that interested me, I would miss out on a whole new world.

My point was to go with the experience. Especially once you are in the midst of it. Have your heart and mind open to new things and new things just may surprise you.

Plus if you are spending amounts of money that matters to you, whether that be 200 dollars or 10k, you might want to rethink spending it on carnal pleasure. If I am just worried about getting my monies worth than I am probably not going to be the best of clients and not really helping her to help me in the best way she knows how.

Maybe I am a tad different but I am not seeking some spiritual connection here. If I can not find some mutual common ground, then I happily send them on their way with their going rate. No harm no foul.

A closed mind on either side of the equation is the worst thing in a person IMHO. But hey that worst thing only cost me what I can easily afford and involves a naked woman. That is like a bad day at Pebble Beach!

[Iaintliein]

Treating everyone with graceful respect is the ultimate sign of being "upscale" and "high class". It has nothing whatsoever to do with rates.

[skudd]

Well.. I have dated higher end providers. 400-700 an hour in range. The criteria FOR ME is first and foremost an undeniable physical attraction. You need to have a face and body that will command that kind of money. If you have the looks you already know it. If you dont..stop dreaming.

Next... love what you do. Gfe to the max session. Be able to transcend the money aspect of it and create a vibe and atmosphere that will seduce, and compel ( me) to believe that we are more than client and provider ( many times this friendship will happen over time but the initial meeting is paramount to further encounters)

Finally.. have a personality. Have something interesting to say above and beyond the sexual act. Be yourself. Win my mind as well as my penis and i will be back for more. ( but mostly win my penis)

There are providers.. and then there are world class courtesans. Some of these ladies require 3rd party introductions. Price range can be 1000 and up. These ladies dont do by the hour. Unfortunately i cant find the required time needed to play properly, but i know where to go if this should ever change.

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by John Bull

A lot of that goes on in this Forum, wouldn't you say?

Maybe, I don`t know... but I know for sure some.....but they are not on this forum

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

I'll be issuing HDH Certificates during this year. I'll post the Application online in the "services for providers" forum. The Application Fee will only be $5,000 (cheap considering you'll make it back in the first week, plus profit). There is, of course, an in-person performance test to evaluate your skills.

Once you've received your HDH Certificate, there will be no question.

You mean a "tramp stamp" ;-) ?

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

You completely misunderstood my post.

Did I? You said, they don`t play games .... I said, yes they do. Where and what did I misunderstand?

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by ninasastri

You mean a "tramp stamp" ;-) ?

I print my ink on paper, not bodies.

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

I print my ink on paper, not bodies.

ok - i was just thinking of it as a metaphor

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by MrGiz

- Zero history of bi-polar-schizophrenia , online-threatening-outing , cat-fighting , trash-talking , obvious lying-story-telling , self-righteous bragging , bullshitting of personal achievements , belittling of peers , history of banning , fake photos , multiple-handles/personas , false-victim crying , bat shit crazy behavior...

You`re too picky. With these claims you can cross out almost all HDHs and any other provider as well, we`re all bat shit crazy ..... (lol) ( , - just joking... )

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by ninasastri

You`re too picky. With these claims you can cross out almost all HDHs and any other provider as well, we`re all bat shit crazy ..... (lol) ( , - just joking... )