Is there really something called as Lady Dom?

[dominateme_77]

Me in Dallas, if you feel u fit the bill contact me..

Is there actually something called a dominant lady? I have been trying to find one for long but no luck. providers always remain in providing mode and hence its not possible to find some.
I understand that most girls would like their man to be strong to satisfy them but is it really impossible to find the other way round where a tough,tall lady wants her man to be fragile and dependent totally on her..

I have always been a sub fantacizing abt a strong female who will thrust herself upon me,humiliate, treat as door mat.. She cant be a provider who comes in tries to show domination and leaves after an hour... It developes over time. She need to know me first talk to me as a girlfriend and then treat me as a lover who doesnt know how to satify her when she wants it... after that it needs to be an ongoing relation atleast for sometime.. money comes for sure..
But all providers want is money first else they wont even talk!!
I am yet to see someone who would like to invest some time and then take it from there.. may be i expect too much.

[Mojojo]

In the hobby I doubt you'll find that. The ladies here charge hourly for their services so that will put a damper on taking time do develop this.....unless your willing to compensate them each time.

[Guest032514-1]

What Mojo said. If you're looking for a Domme, try a Domme site. Looking for a quote Domme unquote on an escort site is like looking for a Range Rover at a Subaru dealership.

Any Domme date here will still have an escort basis.

[Krunkman]

What it sounds you are looking for is a relationship with a dominant lady, not a domme or escort for hire.

If you are looking for a relationship, looking here is a waste of time. You need to get involved with the local lifestyle groups here and start looking for your dominant lady. There are two fem domme-oriented groups here in Dallas area - WICK'D and ClubFEM. They both are femdomme / malesub groups, and its a lifestyle choice, not a commercial activity. Which also means you need to be polite and likable if you expect anyone to spend time with you.

And if you are expecting sex (as in "oh please Mistress! Let this slave lick your clit!") you won't find it with most femdommes unless a) you are in a real relationship with her, or b) she's a provider domme. Most of the commercial dommes I know won't engage in sex with you, even when you are paying for it (well, their time... we all know you never pay for sex!).

Join Fetlife, get out to the Sanctuary in Dallas and find groups and people that you are comfortable with, and then start networking and learning. There just might be someone out there for you.

[Ms. Athena]

Here is another site to try as well as FetLife.com http://domboss.com. I am able to mix my Dominant side and as well as my sensual sexual as a Mistress. I do find ways to bring this into the hobby, yes their needs to be some form of bond there that your not going to get in a hour, but you can meet some of the physical and emotional needs that a sub craves. I am not a Domme, so I am not so much into the BDSM side of thing, but into the control, role playing and pleasure side.

[AlisedeSade]

Originally Posted by babee

Any Domme date here will still have an escort basis.

Not really. I'm just not one to pretend I am not in the sex industry, I'm just in a different branch of it. I learn alot from the ladies here and respect them.

No ProDomme I have heard of is going to invest that kind of time in someone and not get get paid for it. It seems like you are looking for a D/s Lifestyle relationship and not a Pay4Play. Anyone who has an hourly fee may work something out with you but you would still need to pay them for their time. There are some Pro's who are social with their clients and offer packages for this. Pro's whether Domme or Escort have overhead expenses.

[dominateme_77]

Thanks a lot krunkman, you understood well what i meant.. thanks.. where do i find more abt wick'd and clubfem.. I dont mind spending money or even have some monthly arrangement done...

[Ms. Athena]

Fetlife.com is a good starting point