Why no discussion of BBFS?

[Reya Sunshine]

I realize that you are calling HIM the liar not me but for any slow learners that may have been confused I'm sure Gina can confirm I reported it if that's necessary and the report I made on Provider Buzz is listed under New Orleans not Austin because that's where I was at the time the session took place and it shows the date I made it as well.

I'm sure he thinks *ALL* providers are stupid by definition so he can just choose randomly and do whatever the fuck he wants.

Originally Posted by austin_voy

Lie 1?



If you're going to lie, why not go for the gusto?

If you're "just a hooker" then that makes him "just a john". And a sleazy one at that. Hopefully he's stuck with walkers and naive or stupid providers.

[Rand Al'Thor]

I do enjoy BBFS, I engage in it when I have been with someone for extended period of time. I would not engage in such with a provider, it's just not a practical risk. For those that have decided the risk is worth it, more power to you. As long as both parties agree to participate, enjoy yourselves.

The situation Reya brings up has a couple of interpretations depending on if it really was an accident or not. If it was an accident, then it was an accident. We could try to put more on it, but in the end, it has happened to many of us...without malicious intent.

If it was not an accident, then it was a sexual contact without consent. This is rape. Remember that the next time you think about slipping the hat off.

[Reya Sunshine]

I don't want to turn this into a "was it or wasn't it rape" discussion...I definitely felt completely violated and any person who does that to someone else has serious issues but I don't know if I would compare it to a brutal rape with a beating/gun to my head or something and I don't feel comfortable in the role of victim so I'd rather just not go there.

As far as "was it or was it not an accident" I was there and experienced it, and in retrospect have found enough circumstantial evidence that I firmly don't believe it was an accident. It was like he tried the "oopsy, accident" line and it didn't work and then he moved onto intimidation and getting physically threatening and when that didn't work he left.

Knowing that posting an Alert on him on Eccie would open myself up to a he said/she said with him going to back to playing Mr. Innocent since it would be online and he couldn't tense his muscles up and get in anyone's face online. Plus you're right it is *possible* in some situations for a condom to come off or malfunction in some way and maybe some people on Eccie have experienced that and would think I was giving the guy a hard time over an honest accident. THAT'S EXACTLY WHY I DIDN'T POST AN ALERT ON ECCIE, I DIDN'T WANT TO BE THOUGHT OF AS A "DRAMA QUEEN" FOR IT.


I assume almost everyone engages in BBFS with people they are in a sexually monogamous relationship(long term dating/married) - since I don't hobby if I have a boyfriend that doesn't really apply to me at the moment.

Originally Posted by Rand Al'Thor

I do enjoy BBFS, I engage in it when I have been with someone for extended period of time. I would not engage in such with a provider, it's just not a practical risk. For those that have decided the risk is worth it, more power to you. As long as both parties agree to participate, enjoy yourselves. I TOTALLY AGREE!

The situation Reya brings up has a couple of interpretations depending on if it really was an accident or not. If it was an accident, then it was an accident. We could try to put more on it, but in the end, it has happened to many of us...without malicious intent.

If it was not an accident, then it was a sexual contact without consent. This is rape. Remember that the next time you think about slipping the hat off.

[Rand Al'Thor]

Originally Posted by Reya Sunshine

I don't want to turn this into a "was it or wasn't it rape" discussion...I definitely felt completely violated and any person who does that to someone else has serious issues but I don't know if I would compare it to a brutal rape with a beating/gun to my head or something and I don't feel comfortable in the role of victim so I'd rather just not go there.

As far as "was it or was it not an accident" I was there and experienced it, and in retrospect have found enough circumstantial evidence that I firmly don't believe it was an accident. It was like he tried the "oopsy, accident" line and it didn't work and then he moved onto intimidation and getting physically threatening and when that didn't work he left.

Knowing that posting an Alert on him on Eccie would open myself up to a he said/she said with him going to back to playing Mr. Innocent since it would be online and he couldn't tense his muscles up and get in anyone's face online. Plus you're right it is *possible* in some situations for a condom to come off or malfunction in some way and maybe some people on Eccie have experienced that and would think I was giving the guy a hard time over an honest accident. THAT'S EXACTLY WHY I DIDN'T POST AN ALERT ON ECCIE, I DIDN'T WANT TO BE THOUGHT OF AS A "DRAMA QUEEN" FOR IT.


I assume almost everyone engages in BBFS with people they are in a sexually monogamous relationship(long term dating/married) - since I don't hobby if I have a boyfriend that doesn't really apply to me at the moment.

Indeed, that is not the can of worm I was looking to open. My post was directed at the men who might see this as something to pull over a provider, like a practical joke or something funny. It was for those men to consider the moral consequences of their action.

[Reya Sunshine]

Well, thank you for your public support, it's really nice to see a guy step up and say that it's not right to do that to someone. I'm sure some guys snickered or laughed when they read how it affected me but I'm totally over it now and jerks are always gonna be jerks. I only mentioned it to explain why I think BBFS is worth discussing- even if it was started by an obvious troll. LOL

You are a sweetheart.

Originally Posted by Rand Al'Thor

Indeed, that is not the can of worm I was looking to open. My post was directed at the men who might see this as something to pull over a provider, like a practical joke or something funny. It was for those men to consider the moral consequences of their action.

[hicks36]

Sorry to hear that happened to you Reya. Definitely uncool. Hard to see how creampie could be an "accident".

I never discuss BBFS/creampie via e-mail. So many guys just send out emails for kicks or to "out" a provider for something they don't approve of. I always discuss BBFS/creampie BCD. Once we get to know each other we can discuss what we are interested in and comfortable with - both of us. Then we can have our fun together. Several providers I have seen said they did not want to do BBFS or wanted to do BBFS but were not comfortable with creampie. That was cool with me. We talked about it and decided before we started our session and had a great time. Sometimes on follow up visits there was interest in trying something new but it was mutual interest.

Some providers like greek some do not. Some providers like BBFS some do not. Having a list of those that are interested helps hook up people with similar interests.

[hicks36]

Too much to manage individually given the level of interest. Someone who has more time that myself should create a yahoo/google group or something for everyone who loves BBFS/Creampie to share recommendations and reviews.

I've received several great reviews from members that have had recent sessions from the list.

[Rand Al'Thor]

Originally Posted by hicks36

Hard to see how creampie could be an "accident".

It can happen. I've had condoms break during mish or CG while we were body to body and kissing, you can't look down to see if the hat is on, and you don't feel it break, even easier if you're having rough sex or sport sex.

[randal69]

I would rather not gamble on BBFS.All negatives that result from it far outweigh any positives that one may think they'll get out of that.I would never put a lady in an uncomfortable situation like that or myself for that matter

[hicks36]

To each his own. I never put a lady in an uncomfortable situation. All the ladies that I spend time with in Austin enjoy our time together. Several I see regularly. Another board member recently saw one of my all time favorites for the first time and had an amazing experience. There are a lot of options in Austin.

[Guest122811-2]

Why can't the list be posted for those interested? I've got some to add.

hicks - PM has been sent.

[buffaloemanuel]

Here it is . . .


The names I have received - ordered by popularity. Most keep this UTR service and will only discuss BCD not via e-mail.
*
Desiree txycat
Coleen
Bella Banxx (dallas)
Super Sasha
sweetbabyjazz
Debbie Does Austin
Darien
yourangel, Laura (p411)
Rosiedaie
Scarlett (Coleen twin)
Bella Bee
Romy
Jamieyoung
sweetsonya
Aubrey Taylor (MamiATX on ECCIE) *
Tiffany
Jaylin
Lady Sophia (dallas)
JennaInAustin
Darcie*
NaughtyGurlz (any)
Pamela
Super Sasha
Natalie (formerly AustinEscorts)
Miss Tiffy
Nina Sparxx
crystal kitty
sexycarmela
Stacy Lovelane
Wendy
wicked heather
Peach Quiver
Destiny
Sammie

[Vyt]

A presumably disposable account, as their only post, left a list here of women that they claim offer BBFS.

I've pulled the post for now pending ruling on whether it breaks the forum guidelines. In the meantime, I'd caution everyone who saw it that, like anything else posted here, this is UNVERIFIABLE RUMOR, and possibly intended to damage the business of the women in question.

Further attempts to post such a list will result in sanctioning until a ruling is received.

[Vyt]

OK, just got word from admin that this is *not* appropriate public discussion for this site and will remain pulled. In addition, I'm closing this thread.

Stay safe, everyone.