Three Sides To Every Story...Latest Review! snowmanintexas

[JackBlack]

One of the primary reasons I hobby is to avoid DRAMA!

LOL

[RickO'shayRabbitt]

I don't quite get it. Unless some information has been edited out of the review I don't see information that would identify you to anyone other than the CIA.

As for the other stuff, he said he just didn't have a great time, you weren't his cup of tea but you really tried and for that, he gave a "yes" recommendation.

And you are upset to the point that you respond to his review, respond here? I don't know either of the parties involved, and no one owes little old me an explanation. But what am I missing?

[Likinikki]

I'm confused, Khloe...are you saying that the entire review was bogus? If so, I would contact the mods to have it reviewed.

I'm very sorry you're feeling hurt...no one enjoys reading bad things written about themselves. Don't get me wrong, I'm sure you are upset that he mentioned your personal business in the ROS...he had NO right to do so; however, at the end of the day...who's really to blame?

You're a seasoned provider...you know not to trust your private/personal business with someone you don't know. Jeffrey Dahmer charmed himself into having his friends for dinner! (lol)

You see what I mean...you cannot trust your *security* in the hands of someone YOU DO NOT KNOW!! And, sometimes, even with someone you think you know!

Shake this off...pick yourself up...and learn to grow thicker skin. If you don't...you're gonna allow the multitude of jerks out there to screw up everything you've hard to accomplish!

You're a beautiful woman...don't allow anyone to steal your joy...and certainly, don't let them see you sweat girl!!!

[Budman]

Originally Posted by Khloe Jay

While moving today, my phone was blowing up with text messages from many other ladies in t his area, wow, apparently other ladies in this area had the same issues with this gentleman as I had... He was late, he was rude, and they had to ask him to shower! After meeting with this gentleman, I did not run straight to info share to warn ladies that he was late rude and not showered as these are things that we sometimes run into..just part of our occupation and not really a big alert! However I hope this thread is read by every single lady in this area...not only was he late, rude, and not showered for me as well as some other ladies in this area, he has diarrhea of the mouth. I would hate for any other lady to see him and risk getting bashed by this gentleman! Ladies take a pass on this money, it's totally not worth the risk!

Khloe,
I agree with Barney that there was nothing in the review to identify you in real life. Your above post looks like someone trying to cover their ass. It is easy to make the claim that many others have contacted you saying they had the same issues but I don't see them posting here. What I do see is other hobbyist confirming the OP experience. I have no idea if others have had the same experience with this hobbyist but you saying they have doesn't make it so. Your best course of action would have been to ignore the review.

[Khloe Jay]

I do believe in picking and choosing one battles and this is just the battle that I am choosing! You know maybe 5 percent of my business comes from eccie, so to say that I am covering my ass, Okay, whatever, your entitled to your opinion! I have been around for a while and yes I have had bad reviews in the past.. just was no chemistry and neither party had fun at all.. but, I have never not ever, posted anything in reply to a review..there's another fact for you! Here are the issues... the guy was late, rude, dirty and he placed activities in the open ((activities that we all can see)) that did not happen and if that is Okay with you, happy reading! In regards to my text messages today, well, I unlike some do not have diarrhea of the mouth and will not post names of the ladies that have said hey had the same experience with this guy. My God, if we all made daily post of a guy being late, rude, and stinky, the threads in info share would be hundreds a day. Late rude stinky not so much of an alert but a guy that makes a review of activities that did not happen, a response needs to be made and it needs to be made in open. One other thing that I would like to point out, just because a guy lists activities in a review, doesn't make what he says so .. does not mean that those activities took place! I am just so over this, so if I do not reply to future posts, not trying to be rude. I have stated what I feel needed to be stated and I did not state anything to start up crap! I really do not have time for meaningless crap! If you want to set up a visit with this guy and he wants to review you, I would actually find that rather entertaining..you let me know how much you enjoyed your time with him Maybe in the future this gentleman will be on time for visits, polite and on his best behavior, showered and give an accurate account of what really happened in his visit!

Originally Posted by Budman

Khloe,
I agree with Barney that there was nothing in the review to identify you in real life. Your above post looks like someone trying to cover their ass. It is easy to make the claim that many others have contacted you saying they had the same issues but I don't see them posting here. What I do see is other hobbyist confirming the OP experience. I have no idea if others have had the same experience with this hobbyist but you saying they have doesn't make it so. Your best course of action would have been to ignore the review.

[Naughty_Jezabelle]

I have to agree with budman. Sometimes the best course of action is to leave it alone. It shows class when you don't sweat the small stuff. Believe me I know

[Khloe Jay]

Go to a moderator? What is the moderator going to do in this situation?none of them were present for the visit. There are things that moderators can do but to decide what activities happened or did not happen..above the call of duty. The conversation happened ((after he initiated the conversation)) but the activities listed did not happen...that's exactly what I am saying! I am on this board and have been for a while, so, I have no reason to deny any activities in any review, unless, the activities listed did not take place! What reason would I have to deny activities? I am not saying that I did not see him and that I did not provide services for him, I am saying that what he has listed did not take place!

Originally Posted by Likinikki

I'm confused, Khloe...are you saying that the entire review was bogus? If so, I would contact the mods to have it reviewed.

I'm very sorry you're feeling hurt...no one enjoys reading bad things written about themselves. Don't get me wrong, I'm sure you are upset that he mentioned your personal business in the ROS...he had NO right to do so; however, at the end of the day...who's really to blame?

You're a seasoned provider...you know not to trust your private/personal business with someone you don't know. Jeffrey Dahmer charmed himself into having his friends for dinner! (lol)

You see what I mean...you cannot trust your *security* in the hands of someone YOU DO NOT KNOW!! And, sometimes, even with someone you think you know!

Shake this off...pick yourself up...and learn to grow thicker skin. If you don't...you're gonna allow the multitude of jerks out there to screw up everything you've hard to accomplish!

You're a beautiful woman...don't allow anyone to steal your joy...and certainly, don't let them see you sweat girl!!!

[latinalover]

[Marcus78]

I think Mods can look-over reviews listed as fake. I don't know how the process works exactly, but I know a few ladies had some issues with fake reviews and got them removed or closed so they wouldn't pop up. Don't hold me to this, but I think VIP Latin Barbie had an issue about a year ago with a fake review from a hobbyist which was removed.

In that case though, I don't think the guy even saw/met up with her. It was just some weirdo writing a fake review for the hell of it if I remember correctly. Like I said, it was a while ago so I may have the provider, or circumstances surrounding the review, wrong! LOL

If your review was fake though, I don't know how you would prove it. It would be a case of he said, she said at it's finest! Send a mod a PM and see what they can do for you.

[Mokoa]

Originally Posted by Drtry2

Is it just me or do you think the Providers are getting way to uncomfortable with us sharing private information?

This is the second rant in the last few weeks about what is or isn't written in the private area.

She is not referring to the ROS. She is referring to the Activities section which is viewable by everyone.

Originally Posted by Marcus78

I think Mods can look-over reviews listed as fake. I don't know how the process works exactly, but I know a few ladies had some issues with fake reviews and got them removed or closed so they wouldn't pop up. Don't hold me to this, but I think VIP Latin Barbie had an issue about a year ago with a fake review from a hobbyist which was removed.

In that case though, I don't think the guy even saw/met up with her. It was just some weirdo writing a fake review for the hell of it if I remember correctly. Like I said, it was a while ago so I may have the provider, or circumstances surrounding the review, wrong! LOL

Yes, that review was initially removed by me because of the inconsistencies present in the way that provider was described. Unfortunately, I was overruled by the owners and the review was restored but it was closed. Anyway, the obvious inconsistencies that were present were enough for most of the members to realize that the review was not genuine. As I have stated before in another thread, the burden of proof established by the owners here is quite high.

Both parties have stated their case. Glean from it what you will.

Both threads will be closed.

We are done here.