HOW TO ADDRESS....LOWBALLING?????

[MsPrittiKitti]

Originally Posted by Likinikki

That would be a BNG...and, lots of girls do offer BNG donations.

ahhh yes. bng. i just saw 10min and lol
sorry....you all can continue

[Precious_b]

I don't haggle. Look at listed price and make judgement from that.

But Radio made me want to post a comment.
I usually like a 1.5hr session but alot of Ladies don't post for this.
So, I have to ask.

I've always thought (maybe incorrectly) that the extra half hour should be at a price that is less than a regular half hour session. Reasoning being is that she doesn't have to waste time on getting ready for someone else that would schedule the same length 1/2hr session.

[Marcus78]

ahhh yes. bng. i just saw 10min and l

To be honest Ms. Pritti Kitti, I think getting that mouth open wide is supposed to happen in a BNG session, so you weren't too far off the mark. LOL

[Radio]

I've always thought (maybe incorrectly) that the extra half hour should be at a price that is less than a regular half hour session. Reasoning being is that she doesn't have to waste time on getting ready for someone else that would schedule the same length 1/2hr session.

Same here... which is why I may ask sometimes. Also, the hobbyist gets diminishing returns on each extra hour with the provider at one time due to that darn refractory period. If the second hour is not discounted and I really love spending time with a provider, I'd rather just see them back to back days for an hour.

[Doglegg]

Personally I believe there is a divergence between lowballing and haggling.

Lowballing is coming in at a ridiculous price offer - arbitrailliy (sp?) 1/3 of an already discounted price.

I agree with LExxxI that she should feel insulted by the offer she stated.

That is definitely lowballing, although if I could get a doubles at that rate (and knowing the pair) I would jump on that wagon.

Haggling reminds me of an old joke that I will mistell - a guy walks up to a woman in a very nice business suit and says 'Hi, I'm a little strapped for time and rather than go through the old song and dance, how about if I just pay you to sleep with me?

The woman looks at him and remarks - 'Not even for a million dollars.'

The guy looks at her and says 'what if I really offered you a million?'

She looks him up and down and says 'well if you really had a million, I would probably say yes.'

He then says 'ok, how about $100?'

The woman, now very indignant, says 'what do you think I am? Some kind of prostitute that will fxxx for money?!'

The man calmly looks at her and says, 'we've already established what you are, now we're just haggling over the price.'

This is an old routine. I'm not a one size fits all type of guy. If I get something off the rack at penny's, a men's wearhouse, etc., it has to be tailored to fit, and I take that into consideration at time of purchase.

When considering a timeshare opportunity, one day doesn't work for me. Maybe I need two or three to really enjoy my visit, I will work with the manager to get the best price, view, and service for my money. For if only hours could seem like days and days could be enjoyed in hours.

This will ruffle feathers to be sure - it has taken me some 30+ years to reach my status as the lowest rung on a ladder, if I've done very well at working to retain a low position in the soul-sucking work process in the corporate world.

At times it hardly seems fair, because lets face it, I sleep with myself for free yet I have to pay someone else to do the same thing.

As high as my pay is, it still takes me anywhere from 3 - 8 hours to afford one hour of our lovely ladies' time.

So yes, I will haggle because I don't believe the level of output is the same.

Now in fairness I once described this as easy money, and a dear provider corrected me, saying this isn't EASY money, it's fast money, but it sure as hell isn't easy.'

Considering the physical/hygienic condition of some of my fellow hobbyist, I can see her (and other providers) point.

There is a psychological downside that we as hobbyist do not see, that is part of the 'compensation' costs, so yes that does help equate why the provider makes more per hour, but I will still 'haggle' for a vacation plan that fits my wallet and off the shelf needs.

Does that rule out some providers? Judging previous posts, yes. Will other providers see the reasoning of why I, if not also some of my fellow vacationer hobbyist haggle to get a personalized vacation timeshare package? I certainly hope so.

I agree lowballing is not or should not be acceptable, but 'personalizing' a vacation package should always remain a sound business practice.

Dogg

[Secret Encounters]

I appreciate all the feedback but wht do I say to them without sound like a biatch ...lol. I do offer discounts to those who I see frequently .. or gve them a 45 min session for hhr $$.. I am a great provider and a sweetheart but its time for some tough love .. I got the whip who has the cuffs ?????

[davester]

I kind of like candle wax stuff...

But you just have to say my rates are posted and that's what we're going to use unless I'm running a special. For me, all the ladies I've seen, I've had the most fun with you, and I'm very particular. I'm sure other guys will feel the same, so you just have to weed out the ones that aren't happy.

[Doglegg]

Davester = best advice.

[Pepper_Springfield]

Sometimes I give discounts, if Im in a good mood, or I have already paid my bills and dont mind it, but its normally just like 25 off the hr or 45 session. I dont like it when someone asks for something way off my price, it's just rude to me. If you want to spend less, go elsewhere! That's what I say

[Laz]

Being offended is a waste of time and just creates negativity. Just say NO and what your price is. They can take it or leave it. If you let someone else's disrespect bother you it just compounds something you should not spend any time thinking about.

[Likinikki]

Laz, with all due respect to you...when was the last time you were in her shoes? When you get out here and provide your time and services to these hobbyists (lol) for let's say...three years...then, you can post that *negativity* bullcrap! (lol)

Seriously, I'm making light of it; however, in all seriousness, when a provider HAS to tell someone that she was a little offended...can't we simply give her some respect? Especially, when she said she doesn't mean to be rude and has been very courteous?

[BuxomBrown]

I "liked" the above post...just so no one thought she liked her own post.... it's always suspicious when there is only one "like".

[Laz]

I was not trying to be disrespectful, I was just saying not to let someone else's bad behavior take away from your life. Sorry if I phrased it badly.

Yes I know that is not easy when it happens a lot.

[Likinikki]

Haha, are you *like* stalking me Buxom? (lol) Laz, I was just kidding you...I understand what you are saying. I think most of us try to maintain a healthy sense of humor and reality, in this crazy world we all enjoy...but, sometimes, there are things that are just too *hard to swallow!* YES, I said it!!! (lol)

[SA_Mike Hancho]

I have found the boxer briefs to be a great fit for low balls. Thight like briefs but not restricting.

That's 4am humor, and I hadn't been under LikiNikki in way to long!!! Hi sweety!!

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