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Secret Encounters · 11-28-2011, 02:29 PM

I just find it offensive when they just saw someone for 250 and wanna haggle me dwn to 60... come on now .. or try to get doubles for 140..

I always give my regulars specials and usually txt when I offer insane specials .. but I don't feel like I should go lower whn I already offer special donation at my bar.. 75-175 .. lol. Aye ya yaaay!! Lol

Doglegg · 11-28-2011, 02:32 PM

Hi again, don't know if you noticed but your CAPS LOCK KEY SEEMS TO BE STUCK.

I ONLY MENTION THIS AS IT MAY BE DIFFICULT TO LOG ON TO A SITE UNLESS YOUR PASSWORD IS IN ALL CAPS.

I wouldn't want you to lock yourself out, I would feel bad if we couldnt continue pleasant discussions.

DOGG

Ps oops never mind you found it after all.

Secret Encounters · 11-28-2011, 02:34 PM

JsmIth ... THANKS AND. MARCUS.. LMAO TOO FUNNY AND TO MY SWEETEST FRIEND J6.. THANKS HUNNY!!

Secret Encounters · 11-28-2011, 02:39 PM

DOGLEGG IM GONNA SPANK U WHEN I SEE U! !! UR JUST BEING NAUGHTY.. IMVERY MUCH AWARE OF MY CAPS LOCKS .. IM ON MY PHONE AND ITS HOW I USUALLY TXT OR POST ADS. I DONT PUT CAPS LOCK ON BC IM YELLING BC I DONT LIKE TO YELL UNLESS IN BED .. LOOK AT MY ADS U WILL SEE THAT I DO THAT IN MOST OF MY CONVOS .. DOGLEGG HVE A GREAT DAY..

MUAH
SWEET LEXXXI DDS

Doglegg · 11-28-2011, 02:59 PM

To be or not to be.

Spanked is the question.

BTW spanking would make them tighten up, so low balling would be out of the equation.

Dogg

Likinikki · 11-28-2011, 03:34 PM

Unless a provider has made it *known* that she is *ok* with haggling her donations...it is VERY offensive! That same hobbyist would probably never even think about asking a HDH or someone they've paid 250-300, to lower their donation. Yet, somehow, they feel it's acceptable to haggle with other providers!

Lexi, I would put *MY DONATIONS ARE NOT NEGOTIABLE,* in my ads and signature line.

Please remember that providers are not allowed to post rates in ads anymore. We are limited to our showcases and websites. At the very least...please read our showcases for our current donations and *specials.* If you don't like what you see...then, do your research and find someone who fits your budget, just that simple.

Recently, a provider from Austin, posted a comment that the men of SA...are CHEAP! I was insulted by that comment and posted my reply...as I know many SA hobbyists are not...and should not be lumped into that category!

A little respect and compassion goes a long way!

davester · 11-28-2011, 04:22 PM

That is a pretty low rate. I guess if I was in your shoes, I'd wouldn't like to be offered such a low rate, although I'm sure people would make me pay them for my services. Wait, that's what I'm having to do already....

Either way, I think for me, the only reason I'd offer a low rate is if you maybe only had hour or hh rates and I needed a 10 minute thing because of time constraints. Maybe guys aren't looking for a GFE anymore and more of a quickie? Maybe I need to hobby more to get some more insight.

MsPrittiKitti · 11-28-2011, 04:32 PM

10 minutes?

Likinikki · 11-28-2011, 04:58 PM

That would be a BNG...and, lots of girls do offer BNG donations.

Secret Encounters · 11-28-2011, 05:17 PM

Davester u hve been good to me so no complaints here .. @ Likkinikki. I wastoo offended that someone would say that. I have been providing for years and know I'm worth every penny and then some.. I am considetate and try to work with some ppl especially if they are regulars but not 60.. I'm sorry. However I hve offered very few a special .. but I txt to let them know its a one time offet n take advantage of it .. but overall I don't wanna seem ungrateful or unappreciative bc I've enjoyed many of yalls company .. so cheers to those who have been good to me within my 3yrs of providing ..!!

davester · 11-28-2011, 07:54 PM

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Originally Posted by MsPrittiKitti

10 minutes?

Hey, I need time to get dressed and straighten everything up afterwards...

BuxomBrown · 11-28-2011, 08:01 PM

If you ever get a $60 PM or email, it's more than likely that you aren't the only one recieving that message.
I guess there are certain guys that like to name their own price, and it works for them, that's why they keep doing it.
It is kind of ego-maniacal for anyone to go through photos and reviews and then assess a different price tag on a provider.
But I feel you Lexi and you know how I feel about the other issue, we had that drunk talk at the bar about....

Fyi gentlemen, if a provider has seen you and will not answer, return a call, or reply to a message, then you've done something wrong, and you probably know what it is.

canyonman · 11-28-2011, 09:03 PM

Sometimes guys post the ladies normal rates in their reviews on a gal even though they get a discounted rate for whatever reason... whether it be a grandfathered rate, regular or even a agreed reduced rate.

Personally, I don't even consider haggling are asking for a reduced rate... if posted rates are to high I just move on.

Likinikki · 11-28-2011, 11:40 PM

Lexi, I wasn't directing the *respect and compassion* comment toward you...I hope you didn't get that impression hon. I was directing that to the hobbyists that think it's ok to haggle with a provider...it's not respectful at all!

If you think about it...what if we were to ask a hobbyist to pay more for some random reason? We would be labeled as a provider who *upsells* wouldn't we? So, why would anyone think it's acceptable to haggle?

Radio · 11-28-2011, 11:40 PM

I once asked my favorite providers if I could get a discount on the second hour if I scheduled for 2 hours instead of one and she agreed and didn't seem to hold it against me in any way.

When I'm looking at ads, I often find that what someone is charging and what I'm willing to pay to see them (based on pics and reviews) are not in agreement and I move on before ever insulting them by "lowballing" them.