TRAITS OF A UPSCALE,HIGH CLASS PROVIDER

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by John Bull

Daggone Nina! Tell us how you really feel sometime.

I know..... couldn`t help it..... :-)) .... at least its my own "own" opinion and i did not copy it from other people (lol)

[Claudia Christophe]

I will not repeat what has already been said so elegantly by Nina, London, and Naomi.

But one thing I cannot stand is the mistaken belief held by some, whether in the hobby or not, is that rude behavior means that you are high class or better than others. Or having your nose so high in the air, all we see is your neck. On the plus side, you'll be able to see me roll my eyes at you. The quickest way anyone can get on my "shit list" is treating people deemed as "the help" like so much trash: waitstaff, valet, ushers, etc. I haven't worked any of those jobs but I don't think that someone who is working that job is unworthy of respect; they are human beings too. I had one client (another time, another name) actually snap his fingers at waitstaff one time, I think in an effort to impress me. I wasn't, not at all.

Provider, client, or neither doesn't really matter to me on this topic. I think how a person treats another person, especially if they are your "social lesser", is what determines class. Elegance, in my opinion, is about physical and social etiquette graces: elbows on the table, how legs are crossed, dress, personal comportment, etc. Just my $0.02.

[Guest081013-1]

Originally Posted by Claudia Christophe

I will not repeat what has already been said so elegantly by Nina, London, and Naomi.

But one thing I cannot stand is the mistaken belief held by some, whether in the hobby or not, is that rude behavior means that you are high class or better than others. Or having your nose so high in the air, all we see is your neck. On the plus side, you'll be able to see me roll my eyes at you. The quickest way anyone can get on my "shit list" is treating people deemed as "the help" like so much trash: waitstaff, valet, ushers, etc. I haven't worked any of those jobs but I don't think that someone who is working that job is unworthy of respect; they are human beings too. I had one client (another time, another name) actually snap his fingers at waitstaff one time, I think in an effort to impress me. I wasn't, not at all.

Provider, client, or neither doesn't really matter to me on this topic. I think how a person treats another person, especially if they are your "social lesser", is what determines class. Elegance, in my opinion, is about physical and social etiquette graces: elbows on the table, how legs are crossed, dress, personal comportment, etc. Just my $0.02.

what she said

[Anita Lay]

hell yea... me three

[CajunGent]

My experience with ladies who I consider High Dollar Hotties is that they take the time to learn a bit about your likes and dislikes. Their preference tends to be a dinner date, where more is discussed that the current discussions on ECCIE or the latest gossip about other providers (a major turn off for me). They are well kept, and very truthful in their pictures. They don't fudge on their height/weight and age.

That that are successful, are able to enjoy a nice dinner date with you.. with the added twist that your bedroom fantasy will be experienced as soon as the bedroom door is locked, and the do not disturbe sign is posted.

Just my thoughts.

[Guest081013-1]

Wow... cajun, You just described me to the "T". Have we met before?... lol... NO seriously, very nice evaluation and I totally agree. I love to have a pre session meet dinner with conversation that is about news, politics, art, music, and some other things that are not of "THIS" world. I have always said that there is life outside of this side of the world and I want to make and establish long lasting friendships while doing this... NOT just a hobby client for an hour and then never have a rememberance of them at all. I like conversation. I'm an educated, business owner here in Dallas, currently hold my Associates of science degree... and going for my Master's. I have a brain and I like to use my head and mouth for more than what is seen on my "MENU".

Good post, love.

Amber Rain

[Claudia Christophe]

^ what she said.

[Guest081013-1]

Aww thank you, girl. Have a great weekend.

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by Claudia Christophe

I will not repeat what has already been said so elegantly by Nina, London, and Naomi.

But one thing I cannot stand is the mistaken belief held by some, whether in the hobby or not, is that rude behavior means that you are high class or better than others. Or having your nose so high in the air, all we see is your neck. On the plus side, you'll be able to see me roll my eyes at you. The quickest way anyone can get on my "shit list" is treating people deemed as "the help" like so much trash: waitstaff, valet, ushers, etc. I haven't worked any of those jobs but I don't think that someone who is working that job is unworthy of respect; they are human beings too. I had one client (another time, another name) actually snap his fingers at waitstaff one time, I think in an effort to impress me. I wasn't, not at all.

Provider, client, or neither doesn't really matter to me on this topic. I think how a person treats another person, especially if they are your "social lesser", is what determines class. Elegance, in my opinion, is about physical and social etiquette graces: elbows on the table, how legs are crossed, dress, personal comportment, etc. Just my $0.02.

True.
For me, we are all humans, and this is what counts. And sometimes , if you look behind the show people put up as a facade it makes your toes curl anyways. My grandmother always used to say : "When we use the bathroom we all have to bend over" . And this is my Motto ever since.

[desi.snakes]

When I picture an HDH, the escort from the movie "Any Given Sunday" comes to mind. She's seductive yet discreet, low-key but obviously of privileged background. Completely gorgeous from her movements to her presentation. Yes, that to me is a high-end escort.

[dearhunter]

If you have to tell me you are high class........you probably are not.

[WTF]

Originally Posted by dearhunter

If you have to tell me you are high class........you probably are not.

If I find out they are messing with you, they for sure aren't high class!

[Arion_Ali]

A escort from the "Mustang Ranch" earning 10 k to 15k a evening.

[John Bull]

Originally Posted by Arion_Ali

A escort from the "Mustang Ranch" earning 10 k to 15k a evening.

And if you believe that, I have a whole city for sale. Swamp land in Guatamala!!!

[Arion_Ali]

Lol okay
its not about we what we do its about how we do it is how I feel. I always feel like a star! Lol