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Anita Lay · 10-05-2011, 04:45 PM

If a man wants to be honest and some closed minded, fault-finding person wants to pass judgement, WE WILL RUN TO YOUR RESCUE BABY.

Wicket · 10-05-2011, 05:16 PM

Back when I used to write reviews, I did have some dates that involved the use of a vibrator in my anus, but for some reason that escapes me I never did any reviews of those dates.

Guest030824 · 10-05-2011, 06:05 PM

Dallas I am working up to more from you. I had a trust problem but after our last session I feel ready to go further. Perhaps we need to invite ElegantBelinda the next time....

spice-is-nice · 10-05-2011, 06:47 PM

I have posted about strap-ons, dressing in lingerie, and sensual domination in general, both in reviews and in discussions in ASPD and ECCIE. I remember posting a review of Kat Butler (who I saw several times, and who was fantastic at anything from vanilla to accomplished BDSM), in which I described her skill with the strap-on, queening, etc., and yes there were some flames.

My impression, and I'd be interested in what the rest of you think, is that since ASPD was reincarnated as ECCIE, that the acceptance of activities has improved considerably, and much less flaming.

I actually don't think most of the things we discuss in Another Realm are that strange. Dallas says 99% of her clients want prostate stim/strap-on/panty wear, etc. I don't really think any of those things are outside the mainstream, truth be known. I didn't write a review because Dallas doesn't need any more glowing tributes to her joyful omnisexuality and she didn't ask for one. However I VERY much appreciated her skill with the strap-on and bottom play in general. All I know is that I love the physical sensation, and I also love the role reversal feeling of being the receptive one.

I also love to see what my partner does if I just ask her to completely take the lead in how we spend our time (and no, no one has ever chosen to read a book during that time LOL).

Hopefully we are all getting more at ease with our sexuality. I must confess, that even now, if I have had a wonderful vanilla time with someone, I consider carefully before broaching domination, bottom play, queening, mild to moderate corporal, etc., etc.

Richardson570 · 10-05-2011, 09:11 PM

I am completely honest and open about being a total prostate slut. I welcome and relish prostate play and prepare for it accordingly.

That said, I have recently been getting introduced to some BDSM with an absolutely awesome provider.... but have not yet written a review of any of those sessions. I started writing one, but then had another session and my mind was blown completely again, and then again in the next session. I need to write a review of all of the sessons combined because individually they were mind blowing but combined, they have been life changing.

And Dallas..... I'm waiting for you to come back to Dallas so I can block out a day and night of your time!!! Or maybe a few hours and a day to recover

Munk · 10-05-2011, 10:30 PM

I have a huge armpit fetish and used to include it in some reviews... I just don't do many reviews anymore but would throw it out there without a problem... Can't imagine having any problem with a beautiful lady sliding a "petite" finger or smallish strap on in, either.

DominatrixRose · 10-05-2011, 11:55 PM

I have been told by many naughty boys they don't want to share the experience openly and I can respect that. I also know from being a Dominatrix for well over a decade on a professional level men are not bragging in the locker rooms about the trip to the Mistress. I can respect that too.

Now reviews in my opinion show that the person is not LE and or a rip off. Each session I do even with the same person I try to make different and exciting. What is great for one person might scare the hell out of another, Now I have tried to stress repeatedly that BDSM does not have to be about pain. In fact I sometimes miss using my floggers and whips. Now as far as strap on play and milking, one does not really want to advertise a lot because of LE issues. And I know reviews might be warned is just fantasy only but I rather not have LE know I enjoy doing this a lot especially with newbies.

So as I might get a few reviews from people who use a new name to post them people see the new name and go who the hell is this person. So what value does this have in the long run? I see a lot of regulars who know full well what I do and won't do and seem happy to see me, which to me is the most important thing. A good informative web site can speak volumes to those seeking services. And a to detailed list of services might draw unwanted attention. So it is the good bad and the ugly of the game of discreet.

I have one regular who posted about a five hour session we had. All that was read from that site was the $1000.00 session and mocked the self service part. Did they know a strap on was being used while the self service action was being done? Nope they saw cost and self service and made very rude and uninformed bad jokes about it. Had they known I also was given a very large tip too I could just imagine what else would have been said then. Since then the regular now no longer does reviews. We still have great times and nothing but reviews not being done has changed.

I think for many out there that are convinced "back there" is a exit only zone don't understand it has a lot of sensual aspects they are missing from their own fears. So it is easy to belittle others when understanding is lacking in the fold of knowledge. I only do BDSM and not that I don't think escorts are lower then me I just know I do what I do as every gal does their own thing and that is really good. What another Mistress does in her dungeon/play space is her biz not mine. Men will see people for whatever reason they have and yes in BDSM it might be a spin of the wheel deal. Some men only see a Mistress once and like seeing only new Domme's which is the thrill for them.

So I think not having any bad reviews speaks more volumes then any amount of good ones out there. It shows a Domme is real and cares for her craft. Showing equipment might show what type of play can be done without saying a single word. But of course this is all just my humble opinion here.

Thanks for the topic it is a good one for sure.

trailor · 10-06-2011, 12:18 AM

eh... I don't see what the big deal is. Those who are interested in it will find the reviews. if anything... I think the biggest issue is the exact opposite of what Dallas has suggested. How many providers out there use strapons all the time on guys but never mention it on their websites or ads? I mean its pretty common... but I know of lots of providers that do it, but never mention it.

Guest030824 · 10-06-2011, 12:26 AM

From the male point of view it would require a whole lot of trust. I have hidden thoughts but not the guts to try it. I have gained a lot of trust in Dallas and she is slowly bringing me around. Each time we go a little further. It is a big turn on for me and Dallas makes it so damn much fun.

Anita Lay · 10-06-2011, 03:23 AM

Ohhhh come on people, you know you got some kinky stuff going on like domination, role playing, fetishes, and we want it ALL.
I wanna hear about some serious domination lovers.
Some kinky stuff !
Personally I get bored with the norm and this is turning me on.

rachet3375 · 10-06-2011, 07:38 PM

I really enjoyed my first visit with Dallas and wait for her return to Dallas with bated breath. I wanted to let her have her way with a strap-on but we just ran outta time, next time darlin'. I ain't skeered

DallasRain · 10-06-2011, 10:32 PM

lol Ratchett & david---yall are so awesome fun...just wait till my next trip there!!!

Ditto with Anita! VANILLA IS FOR BAKING CAKES!

{there is NO question what I offer...lol}

I have talked to ALOT of providers who do strap on & fetish play...I would have never known if they had not told me....because they never mention in their ads/websites or their reviews don't list it

The same thing goes for the providers who play sub..I have never read a review{except in another realm} where a guy has tied up a provider and spanked her ass till it was rosey red.....or where there was candle wax play/puppy play or feminization play.

You would be surprised at the number of bi males I have run into in this biz.

Truth is there are ALOT more freaky/kinky people in this world than we realize! It is time to liberate ourselves!!!

LatexLover · 10-07-2011, 01:25 AM

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Originally Posted by DallasRain

You would be surprised at the number of bi males I have run into in this biz.

Truth is there are ALOT more freaky/kinky people in this world than we realize! It is time to liberate ourselves!!!

+1

Adventurous1 · 10-07-2011, 08:55 AM

I for one love BDSM play and play "back there." I do not get to play that often and have searched for that elusive (at least elusive to me) provider that also is naturally dominant and loves all types of alternative play and will spend time teasing me with BDSM activities. I have visited with Pro Doms and had lots of fun although the fact that GFE activities were not mixed in with the session was/is a disappointment.

Ohh to have a beautiful lady tie me down and use my body to get her kink on (toe sucking, face sitting (squirting on my face and body would be a plus), strap on (I would like to experience a feel doe strap on session, cock and prostate teasing and multiple orgasm denial) for multiple hours while teasing me without mercy to end in a final sensual frenzied f--- .....

Ummm. Now I'm horny.

Richardson570 · 10-07-2011, 09:03 AM

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Originally Posted by DallasRain

The same thing goes for the providers who play sub..I have never read a review{except in another realm} where a guy has tied up a provider and spanked her ass till it was rosey red.....!

Good point and great timing Dallas! I very recently had a provider who was greatly enjoying DATY, as was I, and she confessed her fantasy was to be bound during DATY. Didn't have any rope, but I was happy to bind her with my hands and arms to where she couldn't move, and continue the DATY. She LOVED it! The trust factor is an issue with bondage, but I'm all for it and have recently found I like to be in bondage as well. Already knew about the strap ons, hehe........

Now as to me writing a review....... there are other factors involved in my writing a review because I like to make them well written, interesting to read and accurate. I usually write them only if it was an incredibly positive experience, or sadly a quite negative experience. I've been having many positive experiences with the same provider for more than a month now, but have already written one 'vanilla' review for her. But the other fantastic experpiences were all different and all belong in Another Realm. It would be helpful to hear from a mod their views on writing multiple reviews for the same provider within a short period.