providers not giving refs.....

[Thomas]

P411 anybody? I'm just saying everyone should use it.

[LilRed]

1. Is it a provider that usually calls her husband on board "sir." Guess she got caught red handed...

WTF???? I have NEVER EVER not given a lady a reference. Just because I did not log on and read the forums in NO WAY meant I was the one behind this. BTW, I often go days with out reading Eccie. I actually have a LIFE outside of this board.

And FYI I am NOT married and haven't been in almost 13 years by my choice! My SIR is related to my BDSM Lifestyle which hasn't a thing to do with being married. LilRed is my business, literally, and NO ONE, not even my SIR, has a say so in what I do concerning it.

You were way out of line to even post your comment with out a single fact to support it.

And one more FYI, I am in Baton Rouge NOT New Orleans. If you would have read before you starting insinuating people, maybe you would have caught that! I have NEVER not played right among the ladies or hobbyist in this profession.

[MrGiz]

Originally Posted by LilRed

WTF???? I have NEVER EVER not given a lady a reference. Just because I did not log on and read the forums in NO WAY meant I was the one behind this. BTW, I often go days with out reading Eccie. I actually have a LIFE outside of this board.

And FYI I am NOT married and haven't been in almost 13 years by my choice! My SIR is related to my BDSM Lifestyle which hasn't a thing to do with being married. LilRed is my business, literally, and NO ONE, not even my SIR, has a say so in what I do concerning it.

You were way out of line to even post your comment with out a single fact to support it.

I'm with ya, LilRed. . . pretty low!!

I have to say.... I'm pretty disappointed by this whole deal!

[Sweet N Little]

It's NOT Lil Red
I'm sure y'all can PM Dallas for info

[LilRed]

Originally Posted by RickForFun

Flog the wench.

Now I do like a good flooging..but I didn't do it. Oh well!!!!

[DallasRain]

Ditto with RED! It is not her.!! She is a stand-up girl when it comes to helping us girls out!!!

It is a provider from the coast who also tours new Orleans.....Her first name starts with J and she is mature & Brazilian!

{I am so sorry LilRed....did not mean to get you in this......but I would gladly give you a flogging if you want it! lol}


I am not faulting her for having a SO,thats her business...I was just amazed that her SO would think that way! ......... I also have an SO who helps me in my biz.....he does not run my business........he is NOT my pimp...he just helps keep me on the right track as I am scatterbrained at times{lol}........He would NEVER tell me to not give a reference....in fact he tells me to make sure and help anyone out who needs it

It all goes back to keeping each other safe!

{the golden rule you learned in sunday school DOES apply to the hobby world too....lol}

[gimme_that]

Well at least its exposed now. I wasn't making any drama in this dancery.....was just asking who it was as I'm sure many were wondering. I just didn't see the purpose of posting a whole thread with a hint as general as a handful of providers possible of touring in those two areas and not discussing it.

I just merely threw a few hints out there to stimulate a response so everyone would know. No need to make it backchannel if it affects both hobbyists and providers alike.

Sorry you felt targeted lil red, didn't want to make it seem that way. Theres only a few providers popular in miss and La. That post and are vocal enough though the hints in other posts for me and other to wonder who it would be.

Again glad its out. Glad its not you. My bad.

[kindafun]

Hasn't there been other not so good threads about this guy lately??

[Anita Lay]

Dee,
I don't think you are mud slinging when this concerns a business matter of safety.
This will give providers other ways to screen him and not even go the route of calling "J" and getting blocked.

[annie@christophers]

What? Another BLACK eye?? Always starting something.. RED you are fine and I think EVERYONE here knows you go the extra mile.. (he has attacked me and my company like 10 times) HE HAS NO REVIEWS (i dont count 2 in 2 years lol whats that a tax incentive lol)Dallas once again dont worry about the little shit...THERE is HUGE shit to worry about these days.. xxooannie

[RickForFun]

I guess even with pussy you should BUY AMERICAN. Good ole MADE IN THE USA.

What really makes this bad is not refusing to give a reference, but contacting the guy to get him to see herself instead.

[gimme_that]

Originally Posted by annie@christophers

What? Another BLACK eye?? Always starting something.. RED you are fine and I think EVERYONE here knows you go the extra mile.. (he has attacked me and my company like 10 times) HE HAS NO REVIEWS (i dont count 2 in 2 years lol whats that a tax incentive lol)Dallas once again dont worry about the little shit...THERE is HUGE shit to worry about these days.. xxooannie

I haven't attacked you in any capacity whether it be on this board or anywhere for that matter. I don't use your agency and none in general. How about you post some links or any links to an example of the 10 ten times I attacked you......or is this just another late night drunken rant. I think Ill bet on the later.

An as far as reviews I write them when I want to....not because I have too. I also don't write reviews for every lady I see. I contribute where I can and don't need reviews as a badge of hobby honor. Lol

Let's keep this on topic about Julinka. If you want to start a thread about how members with 2 reviews or less perturb you.....start it in coed. Have a nice day.

[Nicolet]

"1. Is it a provider that usually calls her husband on board "sir." Guess she got caught red handed...."

You all but called her by name!

[Outdoorsman]

Let's stay on topic please... providers not giving refs and attempting to steal clients.

In my profession if a colleague attempts to call on a person looking elsewhere for services, that guy or gal gets blacklisted real fast. Not a good place to be.

I think calling out any provider without proof is not an honorable thing to do. And then justifying it by saying well at least info is out there still not an action taken with dignity, IMHO.

How would a lady screen if not checking refs, I do not understand. I know she can read P411, but a person like me, I have never been a member of P411.

To each their own, but if I do not give back to my profession I am gonna find my self all alone and without help, not where I wanna be, just me.

[MrGiz]

If the excuse that she gave to Dallas was accurate.... and her hubby truly is controlling enough to create such a situation.... that is a goddamned shame!!* Because there is no doubt that she is otherwise,* one of the very finest and most talented females in the entire hobby!!

Her ability , willingness , and eagerness to provide that talent is not exceeded.... that is a fact which has been proven time and time and time again.... truly a damned shame!!

No matter what the reason is.... it's a damned shame!*.... and it's WRONG!!