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Originally Posted by bigdaddy354369
Have you ever noticed that your everyones best friend as long as they need you. But when you just need to talk no one is their to listen
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I have kind of the opposite problem, in that when I am going through something, the last thing I want is for anyone else to get involved and I'll hide under a rock til I get it all resolved or I feel better or what have you.
No dice...I have a couple of very persistent friends, who even take it personally and get really upset that I keep things to myself and dont give them the chance to listen or help in some way. I am the sort who will drop everything and be there for those I care about....They always "throw it in my face" things Ive done for them and that they want to be able to be a good friend to me too.
I guess if nothing else, try that...decide you dont want anyone to know about your problems and be determined to get things sorted out on your own with no ones help, try to get some peace...and then everyone will want to be there for you whether you like it or not...hah!
This is personally speaking though, I am already so guarded around the people Im very close to in my personal life, it would be dang near impossible for someone I dont know on that level, or in my professional life to even be aware of any of my worries.
