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goodtimesnow · 08-18-2011, 12:49 AM

I don't know if this is the right section or not, and I don't have anyone specific to mention at the moment.

Providers not looking like their photos is way out of hand. I'm straight up asking if they look like their photos. When they say yes, I say, ok but if you don't look like your photo, I'm keeping my money and walking right out the door. Just tell me now, so we don't waste each other's time. I'm a nice guy and don't want to be rude, but damn, this shit is out of hand.

Outdoorsman · 08-18-2011, 10:30 AM

I always recommend if a client or customer is not getting what it is they want for their money, the best option is to not buy and walk away, that simple.

For my own piece of mind, I would send an email forewarning the lady that if she does not appear as her photos portray I will walk away. The ball is now in her court. But some people are just seflish adn self-centered and will make a guy drive out to find out it is not the lady in the pics, just in her own hope that maybe she can make a sale. Part of the risk we as hobbyiests take at times.

gimme_that · 08-18-2011, 08:11 PM

This thread must be inspired by a lady who stricklgy advertises on backpage only.....were these ladies reviewed by hobbyist and in stark contrast appearance wise when you arrived?

But even if he meant it for one of the verified providers here, we are just blowing hot air unless you touch on it in a review. sometimes the word doesn't travel fast enough. And I'm sure few guys actually walk like they say they will. And even fewer would post a co ed report...that this lady ....who is verified mind you doesn't match her pictures. I have seen ladies described in stark contrast before to how they actually appeared in person........sometimes it could be the butterface factor, vaginal piercings, heeavy tattoos, etc.

annie@christophers · 08-19-2011, 03:25 AM

Has a cellphone? correct? TELL them to TURN IT AROUND AND TAKE A PICTURE OF THEMSELVES.. xoo annie

LilRed · 08-19-2011, 08:33 AM

It is important to have current pics. Like Annie said, with cell phones these days, there is NO excuse to not update your pics. No need for expensive photography. My neighbor tacked a red comforter to his wall and I stood in front of it. Very simple and cost efficient. (mine cost me a BBBJ..LOL)

defroy · 08-19-2011, 09:37 AM

ok willing to help out ladies you buy the sd card and a bbbj and I'll take all the pictures that you want I'm willing to take one for the team

Guest101311 · 08-19-2011, 09:54 AM

sorry to hear this, but even tho i have a camera phone, i am not the type of girl who is going to flip it around if i have a mask on my face and rollers in my hair or looking like i just got the romp of my life with cleaning the house! women are not intended to look like barbie's 24/7 lol!

lisa.lisa0302 · 08-19-2011, 10:09 AM

So did you see her, and tell her that her pictures are bs?

And where are you looking for ladies? Are you looking here, bp, P411, date-check.

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Originally Posted by goodtimesnow

I don't know if this is the right section or not, and I don't have anyone specific to mention at the moment.

Providers not looking like their photos is way out of hand. I'm straight up asking if they look like their photos. When they say yes, I say, ok but if you don't look like your photo, I'm keeping my money and walking right out the door. Just tell me now, so we don't waste each other's time. I'm a nice guy and don't want to be rude, but damn, this shit is out of hand.

LittleMiss · 08-23-2011, 08:08 AM

people ask me to send them camera pics all the time. hell no. my reviews speak for themselves, i don't need to take a pic of myself and text it. thats just silly.

goodtimesnow · 08-23-2011, 11:22 PM

This was not directed at anyone in particular or anyone on here. It's mostly the people advertising on backpage and places like that.

There are good ones on here who are verified and have great reviews. The problem for me is I don't do this often, so don't have current references that many require. Then they want all my personal info and my place of work. I know they need to be safe, but so do I, personally and professionally, so that's not going to fly.

Although, I did recently see one highly rated provider from here, so I do have one good reference. That reminds me, I need to write a good review on her.

goodtimesnow · 08-23-2011, 11:26 PM

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Originally Posted by AmberXoXo

people ask me to send them camera pics all the time. hell no. my reviews speak for themselves, i don't need to take a pic of myself and text it. thats just silly.

If you have recent reviews from a reputable site like this one, then I'd feel confident that you look like you are supposed to look.