Apology To Redleg42 And Clarification

[DEPmic05]

I understand that when you're trying to set up an appointment with a Provider and the planets simply don't align it can create a sense of frustration. But, that's the way things are, especially with those Providers who have numerous commitments. You can't take scheduling conflicts personally and you can't hold a grudge with a provider because they can't fit you in on their calendar (and Redleg42 wants to schedule three!...concurrently!)

Myself, I've had difficulty scheduling with a few Providers here. Sometimes, it just ain't happening. Nothing to do but move on. Patience will eventually be rewarded.

Nikki is a respected voice on the board and someone well worth knowing. My advice for anyone trying to get with her is to keep trying...and then enjoy your time with her when you finally get to meet her ;-)

[pilchard]

A classy and well stated response Nikki. I have had the pleasure of seeing you a few times, and you are always dependable and professional.(Sorry to hear that you injured your arm. Hope it has healed well.)

[old jeans]

I just want to say that the best of all these comments are true. Nikki, you are admired so much because you are true to your own high standards every day, and consistently place the needs of others before your own. It is an honor and a pleasure to know you.

old jeans

[flinde]

Nikki, this thing of ours can be a complicated and imprecise business at times. You dont owe anyone an apology when this happens. Its just a part of it. For a jillion good reasons.

Makes no sense in the real world to expect a silvery trout each time you float your fly on the Guadalupe below the dam.

[Likinikki]

Sometimes, even a provider has her bad days and could use some good ol' TLC...thanks for the hugs guy and dolls! (wink, wink!)

Makes no sense in the real world to expect a silvery trout each time you float your fly on the Guadalupe below the dam

Damn, Flinde...all this fish talk is making my little bean...HARD! (lol)

[Sonya Playmate]

Originally Posted by Likinikki

A recent review of me was brought to my attention...as Redleg42 made a comment that I would like to address. First, I would like to apologize, once again, to Redleg42. It's never my intention to have to cancel...nor to make anyone's life miserable for doing so.

Sometimes, life just happens...and sometimes, it happens at the worst possible moment! I realize it's frustrating...I can completely emphasize, as I deal with cancellations and NCNS's, on a weekly...sometimes, daily basis.

I've never advertised myself as being perfect...I do the best I can and try to be as fair as possible. I've made some miserable mistakes and have screwed up many times over...but, I've managed to sprinkle some happiness along the way...and try not to take things for granted.

If I have to cancel for any reason...I always give an honest explanation and offer some sort of compensation...that's been my norm for many years. I think anyone who's been around the hobby for the last nine years can attest to that. Not sure about the other cancellations Redleg42 was talking about...as it must have been over six months ago, but I do know that I had to cancel many appointments, between Jan-May timeframe, after I injured my arm.

I didn't realize how this type of injury would affect me and my ability to meet my committments. Instead of going through with the set appointments...I made the decision to cancel when my arm would hurting...rather than giving someone a half-assed session.

When I extend my apology and explanation...and someone doesn't accept it...and gets rude, obnoxious, or tries to bully me into thinking I owe them something...that's when I draw the line. I do not owe anyone anything...if I extend an apology and offer a compensation...that's a COURTESY.

Saying that...I would like to clarify Redleg42's last comment about my *last minute* cancellation with Sonya and Addison. I did NOT cancel at the last minute. My participation was contingent on a prior committment that I had with a client of mine who had just returned from Afghanistan. Sonya was well aware of that...and I told her as soon as I got the message that my client had made it into SA...the same day as their party.

I would never cancel on my good friends Sonya and Addison without good reason.

Life's too short to sweat the small stuff...let's not forget what's really important...we have so much to be grateful for...and so little time to enjoy it all!

Have a great weekend everyone!

Well said nikki wink wink (miss you)

Sonya