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Sweet Heather · 03-03-2010, 05:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Ansley

Maybe they should try to figure out why they are attracting so many repulsive men.

Oh yes how insightful!!!

I just so much wish I was one of the hookers that attracted only the "hot" guys! After all, there are soooooooooooooooo many of them in the hobby!
L O L

jdean208 · 03-03-2010, 05:46 PM

Women are pretty much a mystery to guys. Who knows what makes a man interesting to them? I certainly don't.

In my youth I asked an absolutely stunning provider in Houston what made a man attractive to her. She said he should be tall, educated, articulate, successful and confident, or else possess a particular singularity that she could not put her finger on, in which case all the the other stuff didn't count.

Men are not really like that. For sex, most want a beautiful young woman with spectacular carnal abilities. We tend to marry the ones that interest us beyond these narrow parameters. And we don't understand them, either.

Women are, without a doubt, the most interesting creatures on earth.

Sweet Heather · 03-04-2010, 01:24 PM

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Originally Posted by jdean208

Women are, without a doubt, the most interesting creatures on earth.

Well, finally a comment I can wholeheartedly agree withLOL!!

But hey, men can be pretty fascinating too! SW

Dasani · 03-04-2010, 01:52 PM

Well it depend on the lady at hand...
it could clearly be just another case of YMMV and the guy never took that into consideration.

That is only one of the things, it could have been a numerous amount of things.

Diana Devereaux · 03-04-2010, 02:10 PM

I had a client that had a belly, and a very small penis but, he could make me cum hard, and quickly too with that little thing! I couldnt beleive that little thing did that. Every time.

ForumPoster · 03-04-2010, 11:25 PM

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Originally Posted by jdean208

She said he should be tall, educated, articulate, successful and confident, or else possess a particular singularity that she could not put her finger on, in which case all the the other stuff didn't count.

I agree with her 100 percent!

Looks are usually least important for me when it comes to men. Qualities your friend listed are.

Lina

Bull149 · 03-05-2010, 08:31 AM

From my experience, and I have been at this off and on for close to 50 years, I find that it is usually the same gents who post the negative reviews. It seems that they often tend to call WK on anyone who posts a positive review on lady, especially if they dislike her for any reason. The post tells more about the poster than it does about the subject, especially over the long run.

I don't know nor do I really care what the ladies say about me as long as they see me and we have a good time. Being older, hell just plain old, overweight, however I am in good condition, I truly appreciate the ladies who see me, especially a second time. I feel that a review written after a single date is very suspect since there are so many varriables involved. If the first date was really not good, I just don't see the lady again. At the same time I seldom see a lady who I have not met previously, reducing the risk of a surprise.

This is all fantasy and each of makes of it what we want.

Bull149 · 03-05-2010, 08:45 AM

Since we've never met MorganMonroe, how can you describe me so well? There can't be more than one person that meets that description, can there?

hartboyz20 · 03-05-2010, 10:56 AM

I agree partly to some of the things here, but some are certainly up for debate. I am nearing the senior age of 50, but still work out 4 times a week, and wear a 32 inch waist and take very good care of myself in all aspects.
I disagree that good looking guys just are here to play. Maybe they just want the percieved passion, plus pleasing a woman is always great, and I will ALWAYS make sure to please the Lady. To me it part of being a gentleman. Maybe I am different or weird but to me this is all part of the expierence. I will make sure to shower, shave, style my hair, clean myself deeply and spell good. If it is a Lady I have seen before, I bring a rose, as a way to say "Thank you.

Sweet Heather · 03-05-2010, 01:55 PM

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Originally Posted by hartboyz20

I will make sure to shower, shave, style my hair, clean myself deeply and spell good. If it is a Lady I have seen before, I bring a rose, as a way to say "Thank you.

You, my friend, are a prime example of a gent whose YMMV-in a good way.

When a provider feels like they are being appreciated and can tell the gent has taken the trouble to be clean, respectful and courteous, I can guarantee this is the gent that providers will go that extra mile for.

My hat is off to you. H

charlestudor2005 · 03-05-2010, 04:53 PM

My philosophy about reviews is internally bi-polar.

On one hand, it doesn't take a whole lot of effort on a lady's part to get a thumbs-up review out of me. And I'll probably leave out some not so flattering things in this kind of review.

But, OTOH, some conduct I judge severely. Show up late, I judge that pretty severely, especially if you didn't call to give me a heads up. Commit NCNS, I'll judge you severely for that, too. Bottom line, I asked for a specific time for the session. If you can't respect me enough to meet me at that time (that I have set aside for you), then I won't pull any punches in my review. Waste my time, and I'll spend a lot of time writing a scathing review. However, honor my time, you'll get a good review. Even if you just show up and go through the motions.

Although a good attitude is always appreciated. But I can't give you a bad review if you lived up to your side of the bargain.

Duffman · 03-05-2010, 05:34 PM

Wow. I should never have read this thread. It will be a good while before I can get into a fantasy with a provider again. I am going to hear the words echoing in my head for some time...

Silverstream · 03-05-2010, 05:48 PM

Let me start by saying I am brand new to the escort scene here. However, I have when traveling out of the country partaken many times in the "pleasures" the world has to offer. I personally am very easy going about many things in life but not about whom I'm with intimately. I wish I was less selective and frankly envy those who are able to minimize the importance of physical features. The hypocrisy of course is that I am not anywhere near the physical level of quality that I insist on myself and, unfortunately, as I have gotten older, my standards have risen. I was at one point (just 5 years ago I was in possibly the buff and lean best shape of my life) but some medical issues have caused me to be much, much less active than I used to be. Therefore, I am here trying to learn the ropes and looking for that temporary "special" someone. Most hobbyists that I have met are to a large degree similar in wanting much more attractive women than they could get IRL although the attributes they are attracted to vary widely.
Do I want totally honesty from a provider? Yes, but only in relation to not being ripped off. (Unfortunately, I have had money taken out of my wallet or a bag by a provider twice. I had one of them put in jail BTW. I never want to be in THAT situation again.)

In the best possible situation, being with a provider is like a fantasy come to life. For me a GFE is not about whether I have to wear a condom for a BJ but about that fantasy that she wants and desires to be with me both mentally and physically. I will do my best on my end to set the scene for that fantasy by preparing as if I were going on a date with someone I wanted to be my girlfriend.

Do I expect a provider to always be able to look past my physical shortcomings? No I don’t but I DO expect that if that is possibly an issue, they would ask about that in the screening process. I personally would much rather be told upfront than be involved in an unsatisfying encounter particularly since my budget is far more limited today than in the past.
Diana and other providers, thank you for being honest and contributing your thoughts.

old97 · 05-31-2010, 03:03 PM

thanks