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sensualsanaa · 07-09-2011, 10:49 AM

So I've had a few guys request to take photos of me in our meetings. My polite response is always no. Discretion is extremely important to me, and there's already enough of my photos floating around cyberspace. Well, one of the guys I've seen before who gave me a completely stellar review had been asking me for pictures and JUST when I thought I'd give in, he emailed me with 7-8 photos of OTHER providers attached engaged in various sexual acts.

I was so taken aback that he thought that sending me photos of other girls he had visited with would entice me to take pictures as well. I told him that I didn't feel comfortable seeing him anymore because I feel like it was classless and inappropriate.

Ladies, what are your thoughts? Do you think it's a good idea to have photos of yourself in compromising positions emailed to other providers without your consent?

Gentlemen: if you do ask for your own "personal" photos, do you routinely breech your code and share them with your buddies and friends?

SofaKingFun · 07-09-2011, 02:19 PM

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Originally Posted by exoticentyce

Gentlemen: if you do ask for your own "personal" photos, do you routinely breech your code and share them with your buddies and friends?

No Ma'am. I keep all spank material for myself.

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Eccie Addict · 07-09-2011, 02:55 PM

No I dont, as a matter of fact I dont even have any pics ive taken anymore. I deleted them....

Jemma Martin · 07-09-2011, 03:43 PM

I would never allow it done anymore. I made the mistake of doing it and now I regret it. If you do decide to do it leave out your face or any tattoos that people might think it's you. You can't take it back once you do it. My recommendation is tell them NO and continue with your business. If they don't like it then that's their loss. Believe me it will haunt you in the future and it might resurface. This is just my opinion...take it or leave it.

DEAR_JOHN · 07-09-2011, 03:47 PM

Once the pictures have been posted on the web, chances are good they will be there forever.

http://www.archive.org/web/web.php

Mojojo · 07-09-2011, 05:29 PM

Thanks John now ill never get rid of my past

Any photos from your personal stash should have that providers consent and her decision respected. You wouldnt want your info put on blast.

bbkid · 07-09-2011, 05:54 PM

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Originally Posted by SofaKingFun

No Ma'am. I keep all spank material for myself.

Same here. I take 'em, and I keep 'em for myself.

Mojojo · 07-09-2011, 06:35 PM

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Originally Posted by DEAR_JOHN

Once the pictures have been posted on the web, chances are good they will be there forever.

http://www.archive.org/web/web.php

Also this sucks for DeD's porn link

Jemma Martin · 07-09-2011, 08:24 PM

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Originally Posted by mojojo213

Also this sucks for DeD's porn link

That's funny!

sensualsanaa · 07-09-2011, 10:20 PM

he's not a bad guy, I'm sure. he just made a very foolish mistake and it definitely assured me even more to NOT have any compromising photographs taken by people who I don't trust 100% .

Hot to Trot Daphne · 07-09-2011, 11:36 PM

I for one actually like a little evidence of my kinky endeavors, but not to be spread around in open like we're in high school. You have to trust the person and know that they are more mature than to share irresponsibly.

Guest040616 · 07-10-2011, 12:31 AM

Through the years I have taken pictures of quite a few different ladies. I always make the pics available to the lady, if she would like them. Some have used the pics on their Showcase and/or webpage. I have never shared the pics with anyone without her permission, and even then just on a couple of occasions. If she chooses to post the pics, that is her choice. As for the person who sent the pictures to another Provider, I can certainly understand why she made the decision to not see him anymore. That was totally uncalled for!

KinkyMaddy · 07-10-2011, 01:51 AM

I have had a man contact me from the ms gulf coast with the same request! He also sent me pics of verified providers but told me he would not share my photos!! He acted like it was my obligation as a provider to take phots and vidoes i think NOT!!!

burner2157 · 07-10-2011, 02:28 AM

I usually ask for a cell phone photo after the session is over to remember the occasion later on when my memory fades of it.I would never violate a providers privacy by posting them.Hell I don't even know how even If I wanted to.I do show my best friends I've known for decades my original cell phone pictures, but these are all after the session is over and fully clothed.Also I'm not happy when I'm told no for a photo after the session.Usually they get no tip because of this and I tend not to want to see them as much over a picture to them but a memory to me.

tbonetas · 07-10-2011, 08:20 AM

I take a lot of photos...for the reviews. I do not take any personal photos, meaning something extra for my eyes only. I do not show anything the lady does not want shown. I blur faces and identifying features per the lady's request. I send the photos to the model if she wants them, but I never send them to anyone else
I take the photos to enhance the review, showing how the lady really looked on that particular day, and I never play any games, trying to trick or surprise the model onto taking an embarrassing photo.
When I photograph you, it will be for the review, and I will give you plenty of editorial control! So, when did you want to meet?