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Originally Posted by Hercules
Ladies. If you get a request for an appointment that’s too far in your future (week or more?). At least respond with some sort of “tentative” acknowledgement.
If I don’t hear back from a lady after a couple days my only option is to ask someone else. {only option - really??? -pmdelites}
A lady’s initial response should NOT come in as a confirmation the day before the requested time if she’s had a week or more after screening. Sorry, but by then it’s too late and I’ve confirmed with someone else.
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jokingly and sterotypically, your problem is you're looking for logic in a provider's reasoning.
seriously, if you dont hear from her in a day or two, just re-email her and ask if she would like to set a tentative appt or if she will pass. if she says "yes", find out when to re-confirm prior to the appt. if she says "i'll pass", you'll have your answer.
also, in my opinion, if and when she responds is
her choice. i dont think you have any say so in the manner. attempting to suggest how she handles her communications probably wont win you any points in her scorebook.
and, in my opinion, if you dont hear back from her in your timeframe, you schedule an appt w/ someone else, and she contacts you saying "yes, i'm ready baby!!" :^), then be polite in letting her know your plans changed - period, end of sentence!! i strongly recommend you DO NOT tell her you've scheduled with someone else [i dont think she needs to know your business]. unless, of course, you want to probably lose more points in her scorebook.
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btw, i sometimes start talking w/ my women friends
weeks in advance about scheduling an appt. it seems to start heightening our appetities and lets them pencil in my reservation for our encounters :^) i always tell them that if anything changes i will let them know as soon as i can. and ditto for them. over the years, i've had to cancel several appts due to my project mgr sending me to a client site. and i've been cancelled on a few times cos she got sick or had someother pressing task to take care of.
other times, i schedule and am visiting her in just a few hours.
so, intercourse, errr, communication is the key, at least to me.
[[[intercourse –noun
1.dealings or communication between individuals, groups, countries, etc.
2.interchange of thoughts, feelings, etc.
3.sexual relations or a sexual coupling, esp. coitus.
Origin:
1425–75; late ME intercurse < ML intercursus communication, trading, L: a running between. See inter-, course]]]
Timing of initial response to a request.
