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[TakeItEasy]

I'm not a trusted dog yet but I am here. lol

Ill be here tonight, Monday, and Tuesday night. PM me if you want to have a few drinks and hit a club or two

[LilRed]

Just a tip.. this is not a 'dating' site. You will have better luck if you chose a provider to see and set up an appointment. As a provider, I know I do not seek out clients to date on an escort site. This is work.

[lowgear]

Maybe he is trying to be nonchalant,just throwing a hint out there

[Outdoorsman]

Here is an example of my first email or PM, and I always email or PM to begin with:

Hey LilRed,

I saw your showcase and I liked what I saw, you are a very good looking lady. I have read some reviews and I am indeed interested in seeing you. I prefer to see you Wednesday June 29 at 6pm, just shoot me a quick PM to let me know if that time slot is available. I am looking for an hour. My first name is ********* and I have writen reviews and post frequently on ECCIE my handle is Outdoorsman. Recently I have seen Angel Divine in New Orleans, her phone is 728-****, Also I have seen Nikki Tylor, her phone number of 575-****. If you need more references or info just contact me, I will be happy to do what I can to make the session as comfortable as possible. I want to make our experience as fun as can be. Oops, almost forgot I hope you have an incall cuz that is what I prefer.

I hope I pass muster and if not I wish you all the best in your endeavors, and welcome back!

Outdoorsman

Usually how I do it and I rarely have ladies tell me no, they coordinate schedules with me but do not say no, usually.

Check out the reviews, check out the showcases and pick a lady, I am yet to have a lady pick me, lol. Actually I have gotten the emails and PM's and for me it is a turn off, I prefer to initiate the contact, just me. I do not like feeling like a customer in this arena kills the fantasy for me, just me.

[TakeItEasy]

Thanks for the responses. I wasn't actually trying to find a date or get provider time, but I really do appreciate the input. I was in new orleans for a few days and was going to hit the town. Although most have never met on here I was opening up hanging out to anyone who wanted to do so. I have been to new orleans several times but still dont know all of the recent hot spots. I planned on hitting some strip clubs and who better to hang out with than fellow hobbyist. More fun a couple of ya walking in than one.

I did get a private IM from someone on here who happened to be in new orleans. Had a great time. Went to eat then hung out at a couple of places. It made for a mroe enjoyable evening than being the lone ranger in a place. lol

Thanks again for the input.

[DallasRain]

glad ya had fun!

[LilRed]

Sounds like you got lucky. I made the decision to keep dating and clients totally separate. Too often the client forgets he is a client and he starts to expect my time and services for free. A couple of times I've had clients use my name as a reference to a provider telling them they are a friend of mine because we went out on a date, then they try and get the ladies to go out on a 'date' instead of making an appointment. I find that to be disrespectful to both me for using my friendship and the other lady for trying to get something for free.

[KinkyMaddy]

Lil Red i second that all the way to the bank.