Heart Breaker or Heart Broken?

[drez63]

I've been doing some reflecting on my past, waxing nostalgic, etc, and tried to honestly recall........

Which is the higher number.....times I've had my heart broken or times I've broken someone's heart?

For me its a tie.....3 to 3......

how about you?

[netman]

Sigh... unfortunately, for me it's 0 - 3.

To be completely honest, its been around 10 years and I am still not over the last one. Yep, you guessed it... the last one was the love of my life.

netman

[Lana Warren]

0-3

I'm like you netman, not for sure I will ever get over the last one! Hard to spend half your life with someone, just throw it all away, and find a new love! Maybe they're right.....time heals all wounds!

[netman]

Originally Posted by Lana Warren

Maybe they're right.....time heals all wounds!

Sorry Lana, that old saying is a myth/lie.

Now I need a drink, or 2, or 10... dammit, where's that Vodka!!!

netman

[Lana Warren]

Originally Posted by netman

Sorry Lana, that old saying is a myth/lie.

Now I need a drink, or 2, or 10... dammit, where's that Vodka!!!

netman

It may be, but at least, I still have hope!

BTW, I drank all of your Vodka! LOL!

[netman]

Lana,

Originally Posted by Lana Warren

It may be, but at least, I still have hope!

Sorry, but ... Hope is the worst of evils, for it prolongs the torments of (wo)man. - Friedrich Nietzsche

Sadly, I know from experience.

Originally Posted by Lana Warren

BTW, I drank all of your Vodka! LOL!

Hey, now that REALLY hurts!!! LOL!!!

But I am not worried... I still have that secret stash of Vodka (and I'm currently working on that 3rd shoot).

And I don't give a crap that I have to work tomorrow.

netman

[LovingKayla]

There are many places in my life where hope is all I have. There was a time recently when It would have been soooo much easier to just give up hope all together and move on. Doing that would have broken a promise (which is just as important and bad as breaking a heart) and I'm working terribly hard not to do that. Unfortunately no matter how hard you try or how much you think you have a good heart, you (collective) will always hurt someone. I've had my heart broken into shreds and I've shredded a few hearts. You can never repair that sort of damage... sorta like the storms and floods. The only answer is to tear it all down and rebuild because repair just won't happen.

From that point of view I understand how having hope would just prolong your refusal to see the truth and therefore prolong moving on to the tear down/rebuild phase.

[Lana Warren]

Originally Posted by LovingKayla

There are many places in my life where hope is all I have. There was a time recently when It would have been soooo much easier to just give up hope all together and move on. Doing that would have broken a promise (which is just as important and bad as breaking a heart) and I'm working terribly hard not to do that. Unfortunately no matter how hard you try or how much you think you have a good heart, you (collective) will always hurt someone. I've had my heart broken into shreds and I've shredded a few hearts. You can never repair that sort of damage... sorta like the storms and floods. The only answer is to tear it all down and rebuild because repair just won't happen.

From that point of view I understand how having hope would just prolong your refusal to see the truth and therefore prolong moving on to the tear down/rebuild phase.

Ok dammit, I will need a wrecking ball and a bulldozer! Any cute architects out there?