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chantal24 · 05-30-2011, 01:44 PM

i talk to a whole bunch of girls daily from ecom and alot of other sites.and i tell them how i was welcomed on this site,basically like a piece of shit.!! ive show them posts by members like gp who basically stalk any posts or reviews about you and constantly interject negativity,almost as if they want to create a problem or controversy.most agree they dont need the drama.

cnym · 05-30-2011, 01:55 PM

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Originally Posted by SexyGabrielle

Thank you Normal Bob. I am alive and well and most definitely working. I just have a new motto. "If something stresses me out, I eliminate it."

I do not like the drama and all of the rumors spread about people on this board. It's too bad that this site is about as classy as the National Enquirer.

Gabrielle you are so right

GP · 05-30-2011, 02:16 PM

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Originally Posted by chantal24

i talk to a whole bunch of girls daily from ecom and alot of other sites.and i tell them how i was welcomed on this site,basically like a piece of shit.!! ive show them posts by members like gp who basically stalk any posts or reviews about you and constantly interject negativity,almost as if they want to create a problem or controversy.most agree they dont need the drama.

I do my best.

offshoredrilling · 05-30-2011, 02:27 PM

Well chantal24 we do have a very wide range of the type of folks on this board. PM a mod and get your VP. And target the type of guys you want. They are here also. If I was a provider. Yes there are some threads I would not go near. Unless ready for the reply's. And you found mostly those to post in. But I think you would do very well here myself.
OSD

PS: Try a fun thread

LynnT · 05-30-2011, 02:49 PM

I Pmed her hoping she will stay and bring some ladies even if they just lurk here for the info to help stay safe.. I told her they dont have to participate in posting if they dont want to, just lurk.

Plenty of good guys here that never post a word..

offshoredrilling · 05-30-2011, 02:55 PM

Thanks LynnPL. I would love to know what she thinks of the provider Ad I wrote.

qixerotic · 05-30-2011, 03:58 PM

Chantal (& Gabrielle), please don't go. There are many respectful gents who read this site. Don't let a vocal minority taint us all. Illegitimi non carborundum - don't let the bastards wear you down.

JONBALLS · 05-30-2011, 05:45 PM

Maybe follow the LYNN PL model then, buck it up or retreat

JONBALLS · 05-30-2011, 06:21 PM

realisticly, Gabrielle recieves overwhelming support by the men here, in fact, I dont know of many others that guys will support and run to her defense.This is fine, and her posts of late seem to carry an anti-male and anti site slant.Youd be hard pressed to find where this person hasn't been treated with kid gloves.

GP · 05-30-2011, 06:35 PM

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Originally Posted by JONBALLS

realisticly, Gabrielle recieves overwhelming support by the men here, in fact, I dont know of many others that guys will support and run to her defense.This is fine, and her posts of late seem to carry an anti-male and anti site slant.Youd be hard pressed to find where this person hasn't been treated with kid gloves.

+1

JONBALLS · 05-30-2011, 06:46 PM

Im not attacking her, its just that I havnt seen where anyone hasnt been supportive of her, and the very few that have taken any issue with her has had an anslaught of males and females defending her, I dont know how more welcoming a group of males could be for her.

JONBALLS · 05-30-2011, 07:42 PM

and for the guys that take the opportunity of a complaining lady to bash so called harsh male members, take the time to support your favorite lady, set up more appointments with her if your already past the refrences and are able to see her.Otherwise your words are self serving and sure fall on her deaf ears.

GP · 05-30-2011, 08:01 PM

All so very true. But there are the guys who see a damsel in distress, any damsel, and will blindly support her no matter what. These are the guys who I would call "pussy whipped". It is a chance for them to get in their one liners against the vocal "ahem" minorities. If they could read my PM's, they would see it is not such a minority.

Doove · 05-30-2011, 09:12 PM

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Originally Posted by GP

All so very true. But there are the guys who see a damsel in distress, any damsel, and will blindly support her no matter what.

Or maybe some people just realize that the difference in stress levels between being a provider and being a hobbyist are enormous. Or that the requirements inherent in the job can be incredibly draining. So it's not a matter of coming to the aid of a damsel in distress. It's coming to the aid of someone who's constantly busting her ass to put on a happy face for the purpose of making our lives better. And realizing just what it takes for them to accomplish that. If anyone wants to think that what they do should be easy simply because they're paid a handsome hourly rate, that person is naive at best, completely ignorant at worst.

Speaking for myself, i'll reserve my white knighting (and you can call it that if you want, i don't give a sh*t) for the girls i respect, whether i ever intend to see them or not. And if they consistently provide a high level of service in spite of the difficulty of the task before them, they'll have my respect.

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These are the guys who I would call "pussy whipped".

Guilty as charged, i suppose. I won't apologize.

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It is a chance for them to get in their one liners against the vocal "ahem" minorities. If they could read my PM's, they would see it is not such a minority.

And if they could read my PM's, maybe they'd realize just how difficult this job can be for the girls. Separate from that, I happen to think i know some of what Gabrielle is referring to when she speaks of rumors. Suffice it to say, comments about girls aren't always publicly posted, so how they may typically be treated on the board is irrelevant to what i believe Gabrielle is saying.

Do i think some of her comments recently may have been unfortunate? Perhaps. But given certain circumstances, not only wouldn't i begrudge her for saying them, i'd defend her right, and maybe even her need, to do so.

LynnT · 05-30-2011, 11:07 PM

Too bad the rumor mill is so high here.. I just wade through it and keep trucking.. I have so many rumors about me I cant keep track anymore.. Only one rumor has sunk and the rest still float. Or people bashing me BCD, in PM's, etc. Just found out a client bashed me to others in the past saying im not pretty, etc.. to each their own. Im not going to be everyones cup of tea but no need to bash me to others.. wondered why Ive had some comments when a gent sees me about my looks..

Anyone asks me I'll give you a straight answer. I think you all know I dont BS. We all fight rumors here..