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Greek73 · 05-17-2011, 08:44 AM

A while ago we had a thread about providers versus affairs. Well, now I need some advice about a gift for mistress. I'm not talking about a mistress as in BDSM. I mean a woman I am having an affair with. Here's some background: She is 5 years older than me. She also has more money. So, I don't want to try to impress her with expensive jewelry/extravagant gifts. She can buy anything she wants. So, it has to be special because of the thought behind it, not the $. I thought about a rose for every year of her age. Or something sexy? Or? I need ideas. By the way, i only have a few days to figure this out. I just found out, it was her birthday.

guest033012-2 · 05-17-2011, 09:55 AM

You already answered your own question here. It's the thought that counts so asking the board for answers isn't going to work. We don't know her.

That said, no matter how much money she has, all women love jewelry. Diamonds. Just make sure you know the cut of diamond she prefers.

catnipdipper · 05-17-2011, 10:43 AM

Dinner or a book.

growler · 05-17-2011, 11:07 AM

You might try this ( https://www.symphonyintheflinthills.org ) and what a sunset.

CuteOldGuy · 05-17-2011, 11:14 AM

A toaster. Trust me.

Alexxxis · 05-17-2011, 12:37 PM

A mini-vacation is always a nice treat.

katkisses2000 · 05-17-2011, 02:52 PM

We as woman love gifts that have had some thought put into them,do something from the heart.candle light massage and a home cooked mean it always a delightful treat,and simple poem that YOU wrote to just simply tell her thank you for being her,gifts no matter the costs are always awesome and if you make a day of it,pamper her show you that you arent in it just for what you can get out of it butwhat you two share together.Yes i know sounds sappy but well sometimes thats what we need.