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pickupkid · 05-14-2011, 10:37 AM

Yes, my first was a 19 year old she had a 5 year old son.We stayed together for 2 years. I cared for her and her son. then one day she left meShe quit providing while we dated.. I found out later she had another boyfriend. My second was an older woman she had 4 year old girl. She lied a lot. She never gave up providing,,she just lied about it.i left her. I don't regret either relationship. love is hard to come by and even harder in the provider world.

burkalini · 05-14-2011, 02:02 PM

Don't do it. Don't do it. Don't do it. It may work out one in a thousand times.

Guest101811-4 · 05-14-2011, 02:17 PM

Yes, I've been in love with several...usually one or two hours at a time.

Wetwork Daddy · 05-14-2011, 02:24 PM

I fall in love all the time. . .for about an hour.

PAPA JOE · 05-14-2011, 02:39 PM

LOL ..... still am ... with several ladies.

Naomi4u · 05-14-2011, 03:17 PM

"Have you ever been in love with a provider, tell us your story"

I'll stick to the op on this one. Op, there are many men that have fallen in love with a provider. Most of them are too ashamed to admit it. They know they'll be flamed if they posted that they fell in love with a hooker... get it? Some of them will even say that it's never happened to them to "save face". You know how some of you guys are! You have to play the "macho" role for your little online buddies. I will tell you that in the last two years I've had TWO very well known hobbyists propose marriage to me and another was willing to leave his wife and kids for me. Going as far as saying that we'll draw a contractual agreement/prenump if the marriage failed so I won't be left on the street. Yes it does happen.

So in other words, You will get a lot of men here that'll say "HELL NO", "NEVER HAPPENED", "We pay them to leave!, "Never fall in love with a hooker, who does that???" but in reality there are a lot of men that don't KNOW how to pay us to leave. They get clingy, needy and start demanding our time for free... making the relationship to be more than what it was ... a paid transaction. You will not get your answer here. A good thread would be one asking the ladies how many times they have been proposed to by one of these hobbyists. You will for sure get your answer there.

Sorry posting from my cell. Ignore the errors.. LOL

JoanJet · 05-14-2011, 06:54 PM

Naomi I love you thoughts

Naomi4u · 05-14-2011, 07:21 PM

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Originally Posted by JoanJet

Naomi I love you thoughts

Hehe Thanks dear! :-)

ilsjs · 05-14-2011, 09:42 PM

Wow, with this brain, you can do anything you wished!!!
Perhaps, you are happy with who you are now

Quote:

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

"Have you ever been in love with a provider, tell us your story"

I'll stick to the op on this one. Op, there are many men that have fallen in love with a provider. Most of them are too ashamed to admit it. They know they'll be flamed if they posted that they fell in love with a hooker... get it? Some of them will even say that it's never happened to them to "save face". You know how some of you guys are! You have to play the "macho" role for your little online buddies. I will tell you that in the last two years I've had TWO very well known hobbyists propose marriage to me and another was willing to leave his wife and kids for me. Going as far as saying that we'll draw a contractual agreement/prenump if the marriage failed so I won't be left on the street. Yes it does happen.

So in other words, You will get a lot of men here that'll say "HELL NO", "NEVER HAPPENED", "We pay them to leave!, "Never fall in love with a hooker, who does that???" but in reality there are a lot of men that don't KNOW how to pay us to leave. They get clingy, needy and start demanding our time for free... making the relationship to be more than what it was ... a paid transaction. You will not get your answer here. A good thread would be one asking the ladies how many times they have been proposed to by one of these hobbyists. You will for sure get your answer there.

Sorry posting from my cell. Ignore the errors.. LOL

Guest011914-1 · 05-14-2011, 09:48 PM

There was on guy in new York on my first trip up there and he swore he was in love me...I tried to tell him he was falling for the person he was with...Let me explain when I am on a date I am me but when I am home I am me but in a different way..does that make sense? I tried to explain the difference and finally he got pissed off enough because I was acting the way he thought I should...wow...now i have several regular BFE I care about and keep in touch with them on a regular basis and they know I would be there in a heartbeat but we don't cross the line....

Naomi4u · 05-14-2011, 09:50 PM

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Originally Posted by In1impmiss

Wow, with this brain, you can do anything you wished!!!
Perhaps, you are happy with who you are now

I am very happy with where I am and who I am now. Thanks.

Woody Long · 05-14-2011, 10:42 PM

About a year ago I met a visiting provider at a M&G and fell head over heals for her. Lust at first sight. We had the click and chemistry was right, we had several weekend dates that were perfect in every way. We lived 400 miles apart, and would meet at a location half way, or sometimes at my house, sometimes at hers twice a month for 6 or 7 months. A SB/SD thing. I wanted her to stop providing, and paid her a generous allowance, but she refused to stop advertising. We even discussed going into business together with her managing a B&B resort, but she could not handle her money, spent every cent and was broke by next week. I really wanted her get her life straightened out, catch up on taxes, pay off house, go to school, get legit. We had an exclusive relationship, but every time we couldn't keep a date, she would post an add, go off on a tour, and then call me a week later and want to get back together. I really thought we had something, but now realize she was only after my money. I tried to discuss my financial situation with her in light of the bad economy, and she took that as an excuse to bail, and end things in an ugly way. I made some mistakes as well, but this girl was just plain greedy. So be it. I have had this on my chest for some time, and need to get this out..... DON"T fall for a provider... It won't work. You cant help some one that doesn't want help. I dont know if all providers are as short sighted, but guy's, dont get emotionally involved with a provider on this board. It will cost you big. I never will again.

pickupkid · 05-15-2011, 12:02 AM

What about providers ..Do they fall in love with client?

Naomi4u · 05-15-2011, 12:53 AM

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Originally Posted by pickupkid

What about providers ..Do they fall in love with client?

HeLL NO! Never!

The only guy I wouldn't mind falling in love with is Doove... but I will keep dreaming

incognito isis · 05-15-2011, 01:15 AM

To answer your question OP, YES the hobbyists do fall in love with us. No not all, but many do. I've had constant problems with clingy clients NON STOP since I started escorting. To put it bluntly, it's a pain in the ass. Right now, I have a married client who I think might be falling for me, maybe he already has, but he is definitely infatuated. Last year I had atleast 3 clients fall for me. They told me so. In my entire escorting career, I've had about 12 clients ask me to be their girlfriend. So again, these men always fall for us, HOOK LINE AND SINKER!! Think about it, they're coming to us because they are lacking or craving something. Could be anything. Sexual needs, lonliness, stress, boredom. When someone fulfills your needs, that can be addicting. Like a drug. It's quite unfortunite when lines get blurred.