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KlassyKelliAnn · 04-19-2011, 05:25 PM

I have decided to make this into a poll as well to see what others think in general.

Last Sunday I was reading the local paper and filtering through all the extras and came across the Star. In the last few pages there are photos of local San Antonians having fun in various areas at certain events in town whether it be the arts festivals, conventions, and now Fiesta.

Well, this passed Sunday I noticed someone I knew from the hobby posing with his wife and another person. Their full names were listed at the bottom of their photo. Now this is NOT the first time this has happened, in fact, I've seen this at least 3-4 times before in the same publication. This person whom I know is a VERY private person yet likes to venture out and visit many nice young ladies here in the biz. Of course, I sent him an email letting him know about this and he completely freaked out. He didnt know the photos he posed for weould be published publicly in this particular paper, etc. He was never told about it apparently by the camera personnel.

Anyway, he will be more cautious in the future.

So for the poll I want to know what other gents think about this piece. Are you up for photos that the entire community can view along with your full name and the names of your family as well?
PLease elaborate with some details and perhaps a situation like this that you've experienced before.

Providers:
Would you use this information to your benefit? As in screening?
Also, if it were a client you knew, what would be your reaction? WOuld you let them know? Or would you keep it to yourself? Please elaborate if you would!

Thanks!

KKA

BigBudha · 04-19-2011, 10:11 PM

If someone is a very private person, then they shouldn't pose for pics and/or give out their full name to someone taking pictures, regardless of the photog's credentials....

oden · 04-19-2011, 10:29 PM

I agree but part of being a trusted professional is discretion. Verification with many providers includes who you are and you are subject to being outed at any time if you are a recognizable figure. All you can do is to keep company with reputable providers because we know you can all screw our world and we can screw yours if that is the intent.

Guest101114 · 04-19-2011, 11:33 PM

..........damn does anybody even read that little thin "magazine" lol??...........but I've seen a few on a certain S.A. Spotlight website

Pepper_Springfield · 04-20-2011, 02:09 AM

I don't think it's a big deal. If they took his photo and asked for his name, then it was obvious it was going to be put on a site or the paper or a magazine for the event. I would not let a client know, cause I would think he already knew. If I already saw him and I saw his real name, I would not need to do any further research. There would be no point because we are already cool

Unless he did something really bad, then I would research and share the info with the rest of the girls. Tuff titty! :P

Willen · 04-20-2011, 08:42 AM

He's there with his wife & the photographer comes over and asks to shoot them. You'd have to think quickly to come up wit a reason to decline, especially if the wife wants to do it.

Playing in this world carries risks, which we have to accept. As Oden says, you just have to rely on the discretion of the KKAs.

Sa_artman · 04-22-2011, 12:48 AM

I don't see where it's a big deal unless the photo was of the gentleman sans the significant other. That's why it's good to hobby on business trips

Who reads those little thin mags in Vegas?

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