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pinehurst#2 · 04-02-2011, 04:20 PM

Well I keep sending out for "pre-screening" but never get answers back to me. I used to be on the ASBD board. Became involved in a committed relationship 2 1/2 years ago. I tried finding that old site only to find out it wasn't around anymore. I was only with 3 providers, reviewed each of them. I was and still am a member of Preferred 411. I didn't know at the time about getting provider OKs and asked for and got 1 OK. I havn't been with any providers in a few years and have no current references other than Preferred 411. Before coming to SA I sent out several Pre-screening request hoping to explore with a beautiful woman while I am here but have heard from none. I love brunettes, bbbj, daty, msog and of course a variety of positions. HELP! Maybe I'm doing something wrong. Would age be a factor? Do providers get together less with older guys? I just turned 50 but don't look nor act my age. Clean cut attractive, a few pounds over-weight 5' 11'' 210.
Any advise would be helpful....

Mature Companion · 04-02-2011, 04:52 PM

It's not that you've done anything wrong. It's whom you contacted.
There's simply some folks who don't know what it means to respectfully reply when someone contacts them. Regardless if it's a delayed reply or an immediate one.
Try contacting other ladies and don't sit around waiting for the previous ones to reply. In the end their lack of respect is not worth the effort your putting into it.

A 50y/young man of 5'11 @ 210lb who's into golf & cigars is well, fucking sexy!

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Originally Posted by pinehurst#2

Well I keep sending out for "pre-screening" but never get answers back to me. I used to be on the ASBD board. Became involved in a committed relationship 2 1/2 years ago. I tried finding that old site only to find out it wasn't around anymore. I was only with 3 providers, reviewed each of them. I was and still am a member of Preferred 411. I didn't know at the time about getting provider OKs and asked for and got 1 OK. I havn't been with any providers in a few years and have no current references other than Preferred 411. Before coming to SA I sent out several Pre-screening request hoping to explore with a beautiful woman while I am here but have heard from none. I love brunettes, bbbj, daty, msog and of course a variety of positions. HELP! Maybe I'm doing something wrong. Would age be a factor? Do providers get together less with older guys? I just turned 50 but don't look nor act my age. Clean cut attractive, a few pounds over-weight 5' 11'' 210.
Any advise would be helpful....

Pepper_Springfield · 04-02-2011, 05:22 PM

Well said WM

Bibi Joy · 04-02-2011, 05:41 PM

Dont give up sweetheart if you had emailed me I give immediate responses. I just got this cool phone anywho good luck with your quest.

PaganGuy · 04-02-2011, 06:17 PM

Yeah, Ive never had any trouble, and Im a total freak }

I like a lady who will exchange at least a couple PMs first and try to be personable and amusing.. sometimes works.

Likinikki · 04-02-2011, 06:48 PM

Pinehurst, very sorry to hear you're experiencing problems...but, how long have you had to wait? Sometimes, a provider may not have computer access 24/7...so, if it's only been a day or two...give it a little longer. One other factor you may want to consider...some providers make it very clear that if you do not send all your screening requirements on the first contact...or if you do not meet their screening requirements...they will not return a reply. I know that sounds a little harsh and disrespectful...but, if a provider makes it known on their ad, sig line or website...you can't really fault the provider...as they expect that you would read their information.

I noticed you posted something in the Dallas area...so, did you mean to post this thread here (SA) or in Dallas? Goodluck to you...I know there are many newbie friendly providers here and hope they make contact with you.

Guest072013 · 04-03-2011, 02:03 PM

very rude if they are not answering you hun..chin up and hope someone answers u soon...

licks and kisses

pinehurst#2 · 04-04-2011, 08:21 AM

I want to thank each of you for your responses. One thing I wasn't sure of is how long to wait for a response. I guess I was trying to be too nice. Some request were early in the week, then the later it got to me going to SA the shorter notice it became for a few. I will keep you providers in mind next trips to SA. Yes MSlovebjs68, this was intended for SA. I go to Dallas sometimes for business, so I posted there in February....Have a graet week.

pinehurst#2 · 04-04-2011, 08:23 AM

I'm sorry MSloovebjs68, it was Likinikki that asked about Dallas. My apologies to you
both.

MsPrittiKitti · 04-04-2011, 11:38 AM

maybe they arent newbie friendly :-/
a reply stating such shouldve been sent, if the info isnt readily available

Likinikki · 04-04-2011, 01:02 PM

Most of the ladies here are respectful. Don't feel bad, it's not just you...there are some providers that don't respond to references either. Hope you had a good visit anyway...have a good week!

Guest072013 · 04-05-2011, 06:09 AM

pinehurst... thanks i was a lttle confused..lol all is good.
and likkinikki is correct, there are some providers just dont answer pm's much. have you looked for a phone or email in their signature line as secondary way to contact them?
licks to ya

UltimateMaxx · 04-05-2011, 08:17 AM

The girls are just silly these days dont take it personal & i highly doubt its ur age. Bc ur still young!!

Giv me a call sweetie

RickO'shayRabbitt · 04-05-2011, 11:10 AM

Originally posted by [B]Wicked Milf[B]
A 50y/young man of 5'11 @ 210lb who's into golf & cigars is well, fucking sexy!

So, you are saying I need to gain 35 lbs before you find me sexy? (And get five years younger.)

Mature Companion · 04-05-2011, 02:45 PM

Absolutely NOT!
Mature men in my eyes, are fucking beautiful, regardless of age/height/ weight.
However, some young gals may not view mature men in the same light. And thus may fore-go responding to them all together. Sad but true

And like SP Hunter states in his signature line. Respect is EARNED not given. And those folks who refuse to respond back to another for whatever measly reason they have. Are disrespectful and one shouldn't waste their time waiting around for a reply. Because in this day & age where phones are web capable and folks can easily respond to an online inquiry to whomever, about whatever. There's no excuse for not doing so. None, nada. Zilch.

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Originally Posted by barneyrubble

Originally posted by Wicked Milf
A 50y/young man of 5'11 @ 210lb who's into golf & cigars is well, fucking sexy!

So, you are saying I need to gain 35 lbs before you find me sexy? (And get five years younger.)