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WyldemanATX · 03-30-2011, 10:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Austinfunandfit

Well can someone tell me where the harem of single bi women is!!? Because as long as I've been dating, no dice on that one.

Hey man most women are bi or bi curious, the only way you will find them is to ask them. You also need to be talking to a higher volume of women too. Watch some video on youtube on Steve P.

Maxeen Monroe · 03-30-2011, 10:07 PM

I think you can give it up to your man all day long, but after years of that it becomes the desire for "strange". Something is built within a man to search for new and different.

I have to say, that is what I have learned.

A hobbiest once told me "One day I wake up craving Asian food. The next, I wake up craving a good ol' burger" The point is unfortunate for me as a woman because it let's me know that no matter what, my man may desire more than my delicious burger. Even if it's the best burger ever!

Men crave and desire a variety. Women are different, so this seems so trivial. But it goes back to the basics of male vs. female sexuality. Women desire one man to give their all to TYPICALLY.

Here's where it gets really tricky though. . . you have a true bi-sexual woman in a relationship with a man who wants monogamy and won't allow her to have escapades with females as it is considered cheating.

For real.

If you ask me, the point is, this is going against nature. A man needs to "play" and at one time they used to have many wives. A bi woman needs her needs met as well. If you get into a relationship that cannot understand the needs, then you are compromising who you really are and then will never really be happy. So.... in summing it up.... a man that wants variety needs to find a bi woman and go have fun!

Oh if the world were truly that simple. Til then, hobby on!

knotty man · 03-30-2011, 11:10 PM

women want 1 man to fullfill her every desire. men want every woman to fullfill his 1 desire

jimbo78613 · 03-31-2011, 04:18 PM

Ok - so here's my story and I'm sticking to it because it is the truth and I'm not whining...

So..I get a divorce about 16 months ago after being separated from my wife for about a year or so. Had a good time while separated - met some women - a few crazy and fun... the rest were just insane. I'm 55 y/o - my wife were married for 25 years - she is the one who asked me to move out and wanted the divorce.

Anyway - dated a gal who probably escaped from the Betty ford clinic for AA that was about 18 yrs younger than me but it made my wife real jealous - When we broke up, my wife wanted to get back together.
We agreed to try it again ( I know ...stupid) but she gave me all this crap about changing and realizing she loved me. It was really great at first - hot sex again..good times. So..now it has been about a year and she has "Lost that Lovin Feelin" AGAIN!!

Its good for the family for us to be together and she is an ok companion except the sex part. I have decided to just join this hobby - I can afford it

I would appreciate any advise for getting started - as a newbie - I'm reading the boards here and reviews - who do you recommend that I start /contact first? Any volunteers out there? Do I really need to join the 411 site ?

MarleyMonroe · 03-31-2011, 05:21 PM

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Originally Posted by snowskkyy24

Marley wrote: Yup most guys are married, that's taught me something.... I'll NEVER be the wife who does not put out! I vow to always keep it fresh and exciting for my hubby!!
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Would you PLEASE be my wife???!!!!

I have some requirements lol... i require lots of affection & cuddling, NEVER been on a plane so i would like to travel at least twice a year, i want a couple kiddos, i love to cook but would like to eat out 1-2 times a week... hmmm and i love dogs and i come with 3

think u could manage?? lol

knotty man · 03-31-2011, 05:23 PM

YES!YES!YES! OMGYES!!!

derek303 · 03-31-2011, 05:35 PM

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Originally Posted by jimbo78613

Ok - so here's my story and I'm sticking to it because it is the truth and I'm not whining...

So..I get a divorce about 16 months ago after being separated from my wife for about a year or so. Had a good time while separated - met some women - a few crazy and fun... the rest were just insane. I'm 55 y/o - my wife were married for 25 years - she is the one who asked me to move out and wanted the divorce.

Anyway - dated a gal who probably escaped from the Betty ford clinic for AA that was about 18 yrs younger than me but it made my wife real jealous - When we broke up, my wife wanted to get back together.
We agreed to try it again ( I know ...stupid) but she gave me all this crap about changing and realizing she loved me. It was really great at first - hot sex again..good times. So..now it has been about a year and she has "Lost that Lovin Feelin" AGAIN!!

Its good for the family for us to be together and she is an ok companion except the sex part. I have decided to just join this hobby - I can afford it

I would appreciate any advise for getting started - as a newbie - I'm reading the boards here and reviews - who do you recommend that I start /contact first? Any volunteers out there? Do I really need to join the 411 site ?

Your highjacking the thread. Start a new one and many including myself are full of advice. Welcome.

jimbo78613 · 03-31-2011, 05:55 PM

sorry...didn't mean to do that. I'll be more careful next time in how I respond

missi hart · 03-31-2011, 06:35 PM

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Originally Posted by MarleyMonroe

I have some requirements lol... i require lots of affection & cuddling, NEVER been on a plane so i would like to travel at least twice a year, i want a couple kiddos, i love to cook but would like to eat out 1-2 times a week... hmmm and i love dogs and i come with 3

think u could manage?? lol

i now see marley's inbox imploding with offers!

BigAl69 · 03-31-2011, 08:01 PM

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Originally Posted by txAustin202

A provider told me today that 90% of her clients are married. I never thought it would be that high. To the hobbyists, why do you do it?

I don't smoke, drink, do drugs, or lie on my taxes; I'm in shape - work hard - and am a very good person (IMHO).

However, I do have a compulsion to have sex with hot young ladies.

So sue me!

:mf_bluesbrot her:

NewWave · 03-31-2011, 09:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Maxeen Monroe

I think you can give it up to your man all day long, but after years of that it becomes the desire for "strange". Something is built within a man to search for new and different.

I have to say, that is what I have learned.

Men crave and desire a variety. Women are different, so this seems so trivial. But it goes back to the basics of male vs. female sexuality. Women desire one man to give their all to TYPICALLY.

maxeen you have such a sweet way of describing things.

I'm sure you ladies know by now but us guys will shoot our jizz on almost anything. I remember one of my old friends used to brag about jizzing in different places, including while driving his car and getting it all over his hands.

That's why I get a little frustrated when some women say they want sex as bad as men. We're just built differently. For us guys we are making millions of reproductive material everyday, for women it's basically a certain part of the month. (not sure if us guys are making that much sperm but i know its a lot)

Biologically, guys are built to run n'gun. We can fire it off and be on our merry way, whereas women there are a lot more consequences. So maybe this is why women tend to fantasize over the White Knight whereas us dudes are tearing through issue after issue of Hustler. Not saying either one is healthy but it seems to be a consistent trend.

But I happen to believe in monogamy or at least an honest relationship because its best for the kids, and I personally believe that society breaks down after the family breaks down.

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Originally Posted by knotty man

women want 1 man to fullfill her every desire. men want every woman to fullfill his 1 desire

funny and pretty realistic. lot of truth to this.

MarleyMonroe · 04-01-2011, 11:36 AM

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Originally Posted by missi hart

i now see marley's inbox imploding with offers!

Lol, nope no takers... pout... a UN wed woman I still stand lol

CCBEAR · 04-01-2011, 12:01 PM

Marley I find that very hard to believe!

flyboy23 · 04-01-2011, 04:29 PM

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Originally Posted by MarleyMonroe

I have some requirements lol... i require lots of affection & cuddling, NEVER been on a plane so i would like to travel at least twice a year, i want a couple kiddos, i love to cook but would like to eat out 1-2 times a week... hmmm and i love dogs and i come with 3

think u could manage?? lol

Let's see, I love to cuddle, love to travel and will even fly us there, want a couple of kids myself, no more than 2 or 3, love to eat out all the time and also go to restaurants......oh wait, nvm, already have a dog and don't know if I could handle your 3......damn, seemed like a perfect match, lol

Jennatexas23 · 04-02-2011, 03:39 AM

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Originally Posted by MarleyMonroe

Lol, nope no takers... pout... a UN wed woman I still stand lol

Doll if I was a man I would love to take you and treat you like a sweetheart. I am also a un wed woman and single no kids just a short sexy college co-ed.
Would love to meet up and have a cocktail sometime doll.