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Originally Posted by Cristi Cutiepie
I am not complaining about keeping them in stock and I am also not stating that I am going to stop supplying my own protection, and other necessitates.
All I am asking is what is the difference between me being prepared with protection and the gentleman being prepared with protection? We both make good enough money and we both have private lives on the side. Being caught with extra laying around or purchasing a high volume could hurt either one of our reputations ....and/or relationships.
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Thank you for the feed back to those who provided a good explanation. I now have a better understanding of the gentleman's point of view.
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Originally Posted by **Karla**
My OPINION is that the provider should always have them-I always do-but yeah I'll admit-I've had an appointment last minute and forgot-whoops-I figure if the guy brings them-he just has a preference-but we are the "provider" and in this "business" its like a banker without a pen-weird-but I wouldn't want any one I see to get "caught"-that would not be pretty-and I think it looks way better for a young girl to be seen at the walgreens getting a big ol' supply VS an older gentleman with a ring on his finger getting a 3 pack at the nearest gas station-
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Karla's response is right on the money. Yes, the clients may make or have enough money to buy the condoms, but it is a cost of doing business as a provider/escort/companion. I think the difference is that the regular guy may see one or two providers a week (yeah there are those lucky bastards that have a budget to see a provider a day or more, but not everyone is that lucky) because of budget or being able to get away from home. So for them it may not make sense to have a box of condoms available.
Also, the female is running a business and the guy is basically a customer. If you don't keep them in stock you may lose a customer, however, if a guy does not have any he will just find a lady that does have them in stock and take his "gift" elsewhere.
Also, it does not seem that it is the gentlemen's point of view, but most of the people in these forums views.
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Originally Posted by Cristi Cutiepie
One last question - what is the best way then for me to find out which kind and/or size of covers to provide for each client??? Asking straight out might be a mood killer.
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Originally Posted by Likinikki
Just have a variety on hand. I buy lifestyles (reg size)...flavored ones...latex free...and a few Magnums...I also have a couple of female condoms that I've never tried. Like Pepper said...buy them online if you don't like buying them at the store.[/color][/b]
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Great advice from Nikki. Also, her post make me think that maybe if you are wondering about a hobby issue in regards to providing or escorting or whatever you want to call it, why not approach one of the ladies that have been doing this for a longer time. Because lets face it, sure the guys may be able to provide you with some opinions (good or bad) in regards to how they think X or Y should be in regards to running a good provider business, but I think the best advice would come from someone that has been doing it right for some while.
