Incidentally, I was with a provider this weekend who didn't come prepared for my fetish.
We didn't have sex. We messed around though. Then, after the messing around, she said she'd go get prepared for my fetish (and come back in a bit). She never came back.
I paid her the full donation.
I was thinking of asking her if I could keep 20% of the donation as assurance she'd really come back...but I couldn't think of a way to run that idea by her without sounding insulting. She'd likely be insulted by me insinuating I don't trust her to really come back (as it turns out, however, I would have been right to not trust her)
All in all, I'd describe what the provider did as a scam. I paid the full donation for a session she only halfway followed through on.
Furthermore, this weekend's disaster totally validates why it's important to confirm ahead of time a provider will be prepared to do my fetish.
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