What to put in your opening text?

[everix1992]

I've had quite a few instances lately where I'll find someone on Tryst or STG or something and shoot them a text and never hear anything back. Maybe this is more common than I'm expecting and I'm getting in my own head for nothing, but it has me wondering what everyone else puts in their opening text to a provider?

Obviously, if they mention specific info in their ad they want then that's a gimme but other than that I've always kept it simple and basically said "Hey, saw your ad on X and wanted to see if we might be able to set up an appointment/visit/whatever". Maybe I need to revise my gameplan there though

[MarcellusWalluz]

Don't take it personal.
Use hello instead of hey, include some of your stats & maybe say you want to get to know her better. Some won't respond if it sounds too much like a transaction.
There really is no standard, some just don't respond at all & some will go as far as giving their address then just ghost.
Try contacting them again after a few weeks.