I totally get what you mean about slim pickings! It can be a bit tricky out there. Honestly, Seeking is one of the more popular options, but there are other sites too that might be worth checking out. For example, I’ve found a few people on
https://tosituhma.com/ , which has some options for casual connections. You can look at profiles more closely, and it’s not all about pay. Another thing I’ve heard good things about is Tinder, but it's hit or miss depending on what you’re looking for. Keep it chill, be upfront about what you want, and you’ll find something that works for you. Sometimes it’s about patience too—things might pop up when you least expect it!