Incall vs outcall vs private residence vs ??

[thebodyman10]

I was intrigued by a post in encounter reports this morning. Can we talk about everyones preference of the places we meet ? Do you prefer incall at a providers private residence , incall at a providers motel room , outcall at the clients motel room , outcall at a clients private residence , other unconventional places ( car dates , ect )? I have even heard of people getting a blanket and going into the woods for a date ! I have also heard of a provider having a mobil location ( van ) .

What are the advantages and disadvantages ? Why do you prefer one over the other ?

Lets hear your preferences , and maybe memorable , possibly funny , or maybe terrifying stories .

[wyldthang1001]

I’ve only been in the hobby for about 3 years and I’ve seen 3 at their private residence.. all three ladies homes have been immaculate and I felt comfortable and honored to be invited into their homes.. most of my meetings have been in a motel that I reserved though and besides the 3pm check in times, I’ve had a great time with those arrangements and felt comfortable too.. I have met at the providers hotel a few times also and most were decent but cluttered, one was disgusting looked like a trash can and smelled worse.. I backed out and ran…!! I see one provider for a qv in her car.. it’s cheap it’s fast but very uncomfortable for my old azz but you know.. a guy has to do what a guy has to do lol

[ccriderridesagain]

For me, a hotel or home outcall just won't work so I have to
deal with in calls, either at a hotel or at her home. Cars
don't work well because of my size and I haven't tried a blanket
yet. In calls at hotels can open the door for a pimp if she has
one but a good review or two should clear that up. I'm in favor of a priverate home

[Parttimehobbyist]

I prefer incalls/private residence. If she has a private residence, that’s even better. The lady I’m seeing at the moment prefers her private residence cause it’s cheaper for both of us and saves on car and gas mileage.

When I’m out of town I prefer outcalls. It’s just more comfortable for me and I already have a room booked. I also feel more at ease when it’s my outcall in a different city and I’m not too familiar with the surroundings.

[thebodyman10]

I have done incalls at the ladys homes and motel rooms , and also done outcalls at my motel room when traveling . I find it easier to "get away" in the early afternoon, and a lady that has her own home is ideal for me. Many motels now have a 3-4 o'clock check in that is a little too late for me usually. However when seeing a new provider for the first time, an outcall to your motel room provides a margin of safety that is hard to beat. ( I have heard many time LE will not come to your motel room where they have no control of the setting for their safety ), which greatly reduces the chances of a "sting" operation.

[thebodyman10]

I would love to hear from some of the ladies on this subject and hear their point of view also.

[beckerpa]

I prefer outcalls to my hotel but do consider incall at the lady's location with food reviews or if I met her before.

[Baconman]

I'm all over the place. I can't host. When I first started I used to be on the road alot so I used to have them meet me at a hotel. Mostly I go with the vibe of the provider. Don't have a preference if someone has a sketchy address but I get a good feeling about seeing them. I'll tell them that I can get a room. Going to someone's home can be messy if you're not aware of who lives there. Not a fan of boyfriends,husbands or pimps that show up. There's a provider who has a pretty big opinion of oneself who claims she only stays in 4 and 5 star hotels when she hosts. Well that's a lie because in Hot Springs there's no 4 or 5 star on Grand Avenue. But I didn't really care because it was during the afternoon and nothing crazy happens before school let's out in the day. Maids are around doing this and that.

[thebodyman10]

It is something of a thrill for me to go to an incall I have never been to before . Maybe I am just strange but it adds to the adrenaline rush to "explore the unknown" in my mind .

[thebodyman10]

Does anyone else get paranoid when you go by the front desk of a motel, not knowing exactly where you are going, or where the elevators are ?

My all time favorite lady ( you can probably guess who this is if you read my reviews ), only pics the nicest motels , and is very detailed in giving me directions on exactly where elevators are located , so I will not look like a lost puppy when I get there.

[Chmee]

my concern with private residences involve the neighbors. neighbors can photo/video a car's license plate and broadcast it on social media.
and in one case, i was looking for the lady's apartment when a strange man asked me "are you looking for <her name>? she's up the stairs and to the right."
private residences can mean neighbors who know too much.

[Baconman]

I get more paranoid if they recognize me for not being a guest.

[wyldthang1001]

I like the old motel set up where each room has its own door

[infamousrock]

I prefer incalls and private residences but I get a little alarmed when I see doorbell cams or other cameras around. I'm like this footage could be an issue one day.

[thebodyman10]

Originally Posted by Chmee

my concern with private residences involve the neighbors. neighbors can photo/video a car's license plate and broadcast it on social media.
and in one case, i was looking for the lady's apartment when a strange man asked me "are you looking for <her name>? she's up the stairs and to the right."
private residences can mean neighbors who know too much.

That has crossed my mind more than once too.