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Bestman200600 · 10-05-2023, 03:45 PM

When prices increase, people cut back. I don't buy the same things at the grocery store today that I bought 2 years ago. When prices get to high, you stop buying altogether. The current rate in Seoul is 230 to 250 per hour and the girl is 10 years younger than most of the ladies in Dallas.

AspenCalifornia · 10-05-2023, 04:01 PM

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Originally Posted by bigdickbigmoney

I try to give honest reviews and promoters and simps are all over my "no" review calling me a liar or gaslighting me and saying I'm doing something wrong. Fuck man, I can't even post an honest review without these guys trying to discredit me

Yep, the gaslighting is out of control. If you give a "No" review or even say anything negative, the promoters will say it's your fault. If you have anything negative to say about a girl's appearance, then it's a "hit piece." It's an absolute joke.

The most common gaslighting is for 30 minute appointments. Be expected to take 100% blame if you don't have a good time during a 30 minute appt. Never mind the fact that plenty of guys have a great time during their 30 minute appts......it's your fault for even booking it in the first place. And everyone knows if you want to have a good time, you need 1 hour. Even if that were true, why do studios even offer 30 minute appts? Why does the studio and girl not get any blame?

Also, if you see a provider at night, it's 100% your fault if you have a bad session. The studio and the girl are completely absolved from any blame whatsoever.

bigdickbigmoney · 10-05-2023, 04:09 PM

Exactly. I happen to have a bad time with IU at AS, then suddenly within a few days, these promoters post a yes review and bombard my post with all sorts of nasty comments.

HenrySwanson · 10-05-2023, 05:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Bestman200600

When prices increase, people cut back. I don't buy the same things at the grocery store today that I bought 2 years ago. When prices get to high, you stop buying altogether. The current rate in Seoul is 230 to 250 per hour and the girl is 10 years younger than most of the ladies in Dallas.

I'd move to Korea tomorrow if I could find a good job. Been wanting to learn the language too.

Guest041324-3 · 10-05-2023, 05:40 PM

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Originally Posted by bigdickbigmoney

Exactly. I happen to have a bad time with IU at AS, then suddenly within a few days, these promoters post a yes review and bombard my post with all sorts of nasty comments.

I can’t speak for everyone but I would like to think when a new girls comes into town(most) people look at first 1-2 pages to see if any reviews, or that is atleast that’s what I do.(outside of the couple of times I have seen someone what I think was first Amber at GL and Cindy at KF).

I also think most people also realize or need to realize each session is different. Just like us guys, when you see the chick you may get let down and make session more difficult, the chick may not be attracted to the guy. We said it in the past, and need to let bookers know that we will leave if Chick is a complete 180 from pics.

People will endless accuse and float the same bullshit they always do (hell I get called a promoter yet I go all the studios and have given Nos as well, yet I’m not pumping up any chick or floating her out there to others).

With that being said, BDBM screw the haters, bullshit artist, and Pimp/promoters.. keep up the good reviews man (I appreciate em and they have helped keep me away from a few girls as well).

Guest041324-3 · 10-05-2023, 06:07 PM

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Originally Posted by AspenCalifornia

Yep, the gaslighting is out of control. If you give a "No" review or even say anything negative, the promoters will say it's your fault. If you have anything negative to say about a girl's appearance, then it's a "hit piece." It's an absolute joke.

The most common gaslighting is for 30 minute appointments. Be expected to take 100% blame if you don't have a good time during a 30 minute appt. Never mind the fact that plenty of guys have a great time during their 30 minute appts......it's your fault for even booking it in the first place. And everyone knows if you want to have a good time, you need 1 hour. Even if that were true, why do studios even offer 30 minute appts? Why does the studio and girl not get any blame?

Also, if you see a provider at night, it's 100% your fault if you have a bad session. The studio and the girl are completely absolved from any blame whatsoever.

I’ll take the bait on this, not to try and make this sound like I’m defending anyone… I will say I have been critical of the 30 minute visit and with that being said, I never meant for it to sound like I was gaslighting or blaming anyone, I think more people need to see other side of the argument is all (myself included). I think (personally) the 30 is asking for a rush job, but everyone has reasons and just because of the hhr the guy picks, quality of service shouldn’t be worse. I think we can agree on that. For if I did this to anyone I apologize if it came off as gaslighting or blaming.

The last call narrative is not something I have experienced but again I’m also usually an early half of the day guy. With that being said, like I did before, the quality of service shouldn’t change. If it does it needs/should be noted in the review (let the haters hate but most of us here will respect it and take it into account). Also, tell the Booker! We have seen girls up and out of here same week if they have multiple bad reviews, I forget her name but I think it was a J (maybe Jiso?) at SFG that had multiple bad reviews and she was gone quickly. Another was some first time girl at AS, she was gone after like 2 weeks when she said he would be here for a month.

I will say this to the community, we need to start holding the studios more accountable.. Henry had said this repeatedly when I was new on the board and I still tell the studios it to this day, tell the studios if you get a shit session (I believe he said he had them offer discount/make up deals with someone else).. he also said that we needed to start telling studios we will leave if girl doesn’t look similar to the photos (within realize), I have told this to studios when I book, and I have even dipped out once and told studio chick looked nothing like the photos.

Sorry for the rant AC, and quote your post.. but wanted to apologize to anyone who thought I had gaslite them while at the same time telling people we can also do more to get a better product as well (when people come back).

HenrySwanson · 10-05-2023, 06:16 PM

30 min visits are for Listcrawler girls

bigdickbigmoney · 10-05-2023, 06:55 PM

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Originally Posted by HenrySwanson

I'd move to Korea tomorrow if I could find a good job. Been wanting to learn the language too.

If you're white, just speak English. You'll get treated like royalty. You'll experience actual white privilege

AspenCalifornia · 10-05-2023, 08:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Armydude89D

I’ll take the bait on this, not to try and make this sound like I’m defending anyone… I will say I have been critical of the 30 minute visit and with that being said, I never meant for it to sound like I was gaslighting or blaming anyone, I think more people need to see other side of the argument is all (myself included). I think (personally) the 30 is asking for a rush job, but everyone has reasons and just because of the hhr the guy picks, quality of service shouldn’t be worse. I think we can agree on that. For if I did this to anyone I apologize if it came off as gaslighting or blaming.

My post wasn't directed at you. And I personally don't do 30 minute appointments, so I don't necessarily disagree that 30 minute appointments aren't ideal. But 30 minute appointments work for some guys, and I have seen a ton of reviews where a monger's 30 minute appt went great.

What I have a problem with is when a monger posts a "No" review, and the promoters flock to the review and start putting 100% of the blame on the monger (aka gaslighting) and they put ZERO blame on the girl or the studio......like absolutely zero blame.
If a girl knows she can't provide a great session for 30 minutes, then why even see a guy? If a studio knows 30 minute sessions are bad, why even have 30 minute appts as an option? I just don't like putting 100% of the blame on a guy for a bad session, that's all.

Some "No" reviews are bullshit and deserve to be called out. If there are a bunch of reviews on a girl that states she is CBJ, and a monger leaves a "No" review for that particular girl and his basis for the "No" is that she is CBJ then yes, that monger deserves to be called out.

bigdickbigmoney · 10-05-2023, 08:41 PM

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Originally Posted by AspenCalifornia

My post wasn't directed at you. And I personally don't do 30 minute appointments, so I don't necessarily disagree that 30 minute appointments aren't ideal. But 30 minute appointments work for some guys, and I have seen a ton of reviews where a monger's 30 minute appt went great.

What I have a problem with is when a monger posts a "No" review, and the promoters flock to the review and start putting 100% of the blame on the monger (aka gaslighting) and they put ZERO blame on the girl or the studio......like absolutely zero blame.
If a girl knows she can't provide a great session for 30 minutes, then why even see a guy? If a studio knows 30 minute sessions are bad, why even have 30 minute appts as an option? I just don't like putting 100% of the blame on a guy for a bad session, that's all.

Some "No" reviews are bullshit and deserve to be called out. If there are a bunch of reviews on a girl that states she is CBJ, and a monger leaves a "No" review for that particular girl and his basis for the "No" is that she is CBJ then yes, that monger deserves to be called out.

Exactly. I but CBJ in my review, then all those reviews after mine says she is BBBJ lmao

dfwsimpson · 10-05-2023, 09:42 PM

I started the hobby in 2022. Twice a week hobbyist. I haven’t been back since the new price as I’m evaluating other options. The studios have done 2 increases within 1 year. That’s unheard of from any DFW solo provider.

2022 - $280hr

2023 - $320hr

2024 - ???

TheTopG655 · 10-05-2023, 10:41 PM

2024: hopefully back down to 300 ;D

bigdickbigmoney · 10-05-2023, 11:37 PM

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2024: hopefully back down to 300 ;D

As long as these kimchis don't become westernized, it might happen.

apple0920 · 10-06-2023, 12:28 AM

I just feel like once the price over $300. There are different choices outside of studio you can go for.

bigdickbigmoney · 10-06-2023, 01:01 AM

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Originally Posted by apple0920

I just feel like once the price over $300. There are different choices outside of studio you can go for.

Where can you go in the metroplex? Everywhere else has even worse problems of entitled white women who want like 1000 just for you to be able to look at them.