Shouldnt be this hard

[Gotyour6]

They are whores lol
What would you expect

[brasil]

Originally Posted by Gotyour6

They are whores lol
What would you expect

With such an attitude my expectations would be quite low.

[pillowlips]

Originally Posted by valkyra

sounds like maybe you didn't reach out properly. I know I'm not alone in ignoring messages that look like "hey" "hi" "u avail" "hey, saw you on tryst" etc. try reading through the girl's ads and if they ask for specifics, reach out with those.

I am glad that you are one of the providers that can choose what messages to return. Most should not be that picky. I could only assume that 75% of the ones that did not respond were passed out.

[GadgetGuy]

Originally Posted by brasil

With such an attitude my expectations would be quite low.

Hes not lying about what they are.

[todwheelbarrow]

once a whore always a whore

[rochny44]

I hardly ever post and I know I am going to get so much shit for this but hope so you guys call them whores. 1) if they were not doing this you would have no one to do this stuff with. 2) there are some great girls out there such as Val and they really shouldn’t be grouped in together with all the girls. All of them are not whores. Only the ones who bullshit, steal and rob from you. Those are the ones I would call whores.

[valkyra]

Originally Posted by rochny44

I hardly ever post and I know I am going to get so much shit for this but hope so you guys call them whores. 1) if they were not doing this you would have no one to do this stuff with. 2) there are some great girls out there such as Val and they really shouldn’t be grouped in together with all the girls. All of them are not whores. Only the ones who bullshit, steal and rob from you. Those are the ones I would call whores.

I hate it when people say this. I am a sex worker, I am a whore. Please do not separate me from my community so you can feel better about there being "good whores" and "bad whores". I am no better or worse than any of the other girls out there, we are all operating the best way we know how.

I appreciate the kind words but you don't have to talk down about the rest of my community to talk me up

[brasil]

The bottom line here may be that not all providers are the same. Likewise, not all clients are the same. Some are assholes, others are not.

[lilylivered]

yep, some dont respond unless you do something simple like "hey"

[tbear4u77]

This is a great topic because the bottom line is it "Shouldn't be this hard"!!!

While I do agree to a point with Val that you should read a providers full ad and provide the information she asks for it isn't that simple. I don't simply say "hey", "you available", or "rates" and do introduce myself along with providing the information they ask for the reply rate I get is about 1 in 10. And even then their response is as generic as it gets. I can't tell you how many weekends I have spent wanting to give a provider my money and can't find anyone willing to take it. Now I also do not reach out to just anyone but still.

It is really to bad because as I have said about other topics this isn't an everywhere problem. My most recent business trip I had no issues finding and contacting anyone. Rates were fair and reasonable. I don't negotiate their rates but didn't have to either. Activities were perfect and never even had to be discussed. Now while I am not into anything crazy none of the girls had to go over "rules" or really said "no" to anything except BBFS which is a no for me anyways.

[tbear4u77]

My days of the "thrill of the chase" are basically over. But I still check out the various boards and do not know how some of you still do it.

Even as a seasoned vet how do some of you navigate through all the bullshit ads? How do you tell the fakes from the real ones?

There are some things that I follow that may help some others but would love to hear how other filter them out. Maybe we can help out some of the newbies!

My tell tail signs of fakes ads:

For this area if the pics look TGTBT then they probably are
NEVER EVER EVER deal with ads looking for deposit
If they list every sexual act known to man I pass
Non 585, 315, 716 area codes
List car calls(this isn't because it is fake just not for me or the types of providers I prefer)

[pillowlips]

Originally Posted by tbear4u77

This is a great topic because the bottom line is it "Shouldn't be this hard"!!!

While I do agree to a point with Val that you should read a providers full ad and provide the information she asks for it isn't that simple. I don't simply say "hey", "you available", or "rates" and do introduce myself along with providing the information they ask for the reply rate I get is about 1 in 10. And even then their response is as generic as it gets. I can't tell you how many weekends I have spent wanting to give a provider my money and can't find anyone willing to take it. Now I also do not reach out to just anyone but still.

It is really to bad because as I have said about other topics this isn't an everywhere problem. My most recent business trip I had no issues finding and contacting anyone. Rates were fair and reasonable. I don't negotiate their rates but didn't have to either. Activities were perfect and never even had to be discussed. Now while I am not into anything crazy none of the girls had to go over "rules" or really said "no" to anything except BBFS which is a no for me anyways.

I do agree with you. I have traveled a lot this past year and finding a top notch provider at a fair rate with a nice incall hasn't been a problem.

[heavenlysparrow]

Always love the comment " They are just whores" What does that say about you as the degenerate that is giving them money to have sex with you. The comment is always made is if they are below you. LOL. At best you're on the same level.

[tbear4u77]

Originally Posted by heavenlysparrow

Always love the comment " They are just whores" What does that say about you as the degenerate that is giving them money to have sex with you. The comment is always made is if they are below you. LOL. At best you're on the same level.

Well said. It is people's way of making themselves feel better by tearing another down. It also comes from the mentality that this is all they do and are just sitting around waiting for a text or phone call to come see them.

Are they whores, prostitutes, providers, escorts? Who cares! The vast majority of providers I see have full time jobs and do this for various reasons. Many just love sex and figure why not get paid to have it. Some have different fantasies just like we do and see this as a way to fulfill them.

It is the narrow minded, low self esteem gents, that see these women as objects lower than them who I consider to need some help themselves. They probably couldn't get laid in a whore house with a fistful of hundreds.

We all do this for various reasons. The men and the women. Just as in my "regular" life I do not go around thinking I am better than anyone. Especially when you have never walked a day in their shoes. As the old saying goes, "those that live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones"!

[GadgetGuy]

Lotta Simp minded on this thread.