I'm mostly a Vanilla guy who prefers more PSE than GFE type sessions. I don't have any unique "fetishes" or quirks, nothing obscure or esoteric. The freakiest I will get is some basic, celebratory "role play" action....
With the recent popularity of the "50 Shades Of Grey" books/movies in both the hobby and civilian "dating" worlds, I often have to clarify to women- No, I don't know much about that stuff. I took a basic "seamanship" course at summer camp so I know how to tie a handful of sailing-knots (not the full array of knots) but I'm not interested and I don't know to apply any of it to the hobby. Sorry if that's a deal breaker....
Great Banging and (ideally) a CIM finish on the second pop are the extent of my interests. And some friendly "getting to know each other" conversation "in-between pops". Everything else is too baroque....