Tryst Women and Deposits, Thoughts?

[Desmoines771]

I've noticed that a lot of the women on tryst require some sort of deposit. I'm pretty well aware that most who post locally and require a deposit are scammers. At least that modus operandi when I encounter it. However, I could understand those who are traveling requiring a deposit and they seem to be reputable. Anyone have personal experience or insights on the matter?

[jim262]

No don't do it.

[arealone]

Personal experience is this. If you do it you're going to get scammed. So don't do it.

[yuuuppp]

Other options out there in my opinion so I’ll pass

[57Hotrod57]

Never send money to someone you haven't met. Be very wary about sending money to people you have met.

[bustaj]

Never prepay for someone you don't know especially a traveler

[Jayblue79]

Have lost a lot of money this way

[SinOrSwim]

I'd be more concerned about the electronic trail.

[SomeRandomGuy88]

Never prepay. Never give money associated with a sob story either. Even “established” providers have been known to just take the money and run.

[AmberMercadezRose]

wow you all talk so badly about traveling ladies and us asking for deposits. Well just a little Insite. I personally ask for deposits if clients do not have a provider reference, because I don't want to waste my time. there are a lot of gentlemen that NCNS and then us lady's waist a trip that we may have not made otherwise. There is gas waisted and/or hotel costs. Also keep in mind that hotels are not cheap, and neither is gas. I personally only ask for a 40 to 100 deposit depending nowhere and when someone wants to meet.
But always remember to go with your first mind and be safe. I say the same for ladies.

[JoeNegative]

I’ve only paid deposits to very well known and established providers over the years and even then I could count how many on one hand and have fingers left over.

[thedude83]

Originally Posted by AmberMercadezRose

wow you all talk so badly about traveling ladies and us asking for deposits. Well just a little Insite. I personally ask for deposits if clients do not have a provider reference, because I don't want to waste my time. there are a lot of gentlemen that NCNS and then us lady's waist a trip that we may have not made otherwise. There is gas waisted and/or hotel costs. Also keep in mind that hotels are not cheap, and neither is gas. I personally only ask for a 40 to 100 deposit depending nowhere and when someone wants to meet.
But always remember to go with your first mind and be safe. I say the same for ladies.

Someone would have to be extremely well reviewed for me to pay a deposit and even then i'd probably still recommend against it.

99% of the time, someone asking for a deposit is going to disappear into the ether as soon as those funds are sent. Even for well-reviewed ladies, there are no shortage of stories of those ladies ghosting clients after an initial deposit.

Obviously if you're making a special trip with associated expenses just for a specific client, then yeah, something to cover those costs could make some sense.

[EmilySmile08]

I hate this topic, it makes it so hard for actual ladies that use this as a way to weed out time wasters and to make their trip enjoyable. I ask for deposits for longer appointments or outcalls and even if you have no references.

Although I’m only asking for 40-80 depending on donation cost and that goes towards appointment time.


Here’s the thing why tarnish a good reputation over such a small amount when the client is bringing you more anyways. Seems dumb to scam for such pocket change.

No if a woman is asking for the whole amount or send a deposit before you get room number or ect. They yea you are going to get scammed, common sense.

[bobsalookin]

If deposit in play, never hurts to discuss through a verification or second outside site....and read reviews before considering. Yes, there are many ladies who don't care for them or have a no-review policy. That's their deal. I also get them wanting to weed out the time-wasters and non-committals. However, no additional verification, no review, and short on details outside of Tryst (where provider accounts have been hacked) doesn't add up for travelers IMO.

[DallasRain]

I never ask for deposit but can understand why some gals ask for them

It costs alot to travel and there is always a chance of cancels or no shows which can make trips unprofitable AND frustrating