Ladies, I luv ya, but.....

[swamptech]

Holy hell...
Got mountains of cash begging to be burned and testosterone levels at the max....
All I need is a woman's touch and then I can relax.

Been trying to setup a meet, any meet, for this weekend. Started late Thursday with two local providers with a proposal to meet Saturday night.
When I text, it has everything from the jump,
> when,where,duration,references , verifications...
both want me to check back on Saturday.
I do....they give waffling answers. They are hosting in-calls, so I say "whenever YOU are available, I can be available"

Frustrated, I reach out to mobile / pcola StG ads. Mobile ads turn out to be for girls in Pascagoula
pcola girls don't respond

Go for a hail mary with a former pcola provider that moved east. Go back and forth to set something up for tomorrow. She only does outcalls and wants a depost
I had a encounter booked with this same provider in Sept, where I took off work to accommodate her AM-only schedule.....she ended up cancelling.
I ask for an exception to this deposit requirement citing the above, get the okay from her, book the suite and we agree to meet. 45 minutes later she's asking for the deposit. A deposit for her to meet me at my location, there is zero risk to warrant a deposit in that scenario. Bear in mind she already has my verification info/home address/ID to be assured I am who I am. The deposit is a deal breaker for her. Forfeit $600+ on Sunday because you NEED $100 for nothing on Saturday.

I know the lifestyle isn't easy, but I go out of my way to make encounter rewarding (always overpaying, gifts, drinks) because its just good business. Something something gift horse in the mouth or whatever, I guess - not sure why this here game has to be so difficult. I do know providers I've seen and we get along great and they hold a great outlook on how they work (selective clientele) so I know its possible

[m0d3rn.pr0m3th3u5]

This hobby was much easier a couple years ago. You had providers like Vanessa Ink who was very reliable and available at a fair rate. ($250/HR)

The "Golden Age" is definitely over.

I'd mention who is reliable here, but every time I do so, my post gets deleted.

I rarely hobby in the US now. I partake overseas.

The difference is profound. Without being vulgar, the price is a lot cheaper and the talent is a lot higher (in most cases).

That's also not to mention the other opportunities like clubs, online dating apps, etc.

[Redleg19]

Agree with overseas escorts being more professional, younger and all around 200 euro for an hour. I see girls regularly in Italy, good 50-75% are from eastern europe, the rest western europe. The russian/ukraine girls are almost 99% true GFE and deep french kissing.

[m0d3rn.pr0m3th3u5]

Originally Posted by Redleg19

Agree with overseas escorts being more professional, younger and all around 200 euro for an hour. I see girls regularly in Italy, good 50-75% are from eastern europe, the rest western europe. The russian/ukraine girls are almost 99% true GFE and deep french kissing.

The majority I messed around with were Romanian, Russian and Polish. The only girls I haven't had the luck to bed are the Vikings (Iceland, Norway, Sweden and Denmark).

There are so many Ukrainian girls displaced that it would be really easy to snag a really hot one.

The first time I went to Europe, it was mind-blowing. Girls over there aren't so puritanical in nature. They don't make a big deal about sex (like a lot of American girls).

They put out, and it's not a big deal. And they haven't been affected by feminism.

Been all through Europe.

Other good destinations are Brazil, Columbia, Dominican Republic (from what I've heard), Philippines and Thailand.

[swamptech]

the moral of the story is I am so freaking demoralized at the state of the hobby it doesnt pay to play. All tolled, I contacted 10 providers actively advertising. I had $1000 cash in hand willing to blow it all on just one decent performer for maybe 90 minutes of attention....
Even going as far as to not only host an outcall, but to provide a room for 2 nights to a local struggling girl because she just got kicked out of her place ("yeah, I know....incredibly stupid" but i was willing to risk any adventure) because she wasnt smart enough to just say she wasnt available. Communicating with her from 10 am until 9pm until just pulling the plug on the entire shitshow.

[Russel204]

I agree the hobby has become a shit show. VI was one of the best! STG was always a crap shot, but now fake ads, deposit, wanting linkin or photo IDs. No thanks
Not to mention GPS syndrome

[ChLimeade]

It's hard out here for a trick.

[Gonewithwind]

I guess I choose a bad year to start up

[swamptech]

Originally Posted by m0d3rn.pr0m3th3u5

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the difference is profound. Without being vulgar, the price is a lot cheaper and the talent is a lot higher (in most cases).

what blows my mind is how SIMPLE good business is. The ELITE girls I've seen in the states blow your mind with their attention to you as the client. Its just a warm greeting or just a follow-up text, just playing a role. It takes the same amount of effort to just smile during a visit or answering a first text.. but the girls out there are losing and hating the business because they refuse to not take this shit personal. They expect you to pull the service out of them lke a Hebrew slave. Not hating on the ladies....pointing out the simple difference in attitude would change the clients you see an the treatment you get

This is what Ive seen with the South American girls Ive seen....its not physical inasmuch as its just appreciating a man in his role as a man.

[ChLimeade]

There is a recurring issue I've noticed here where texts fall into nothingness, or are delayed by several minutes, which can cause problems in critical moments. TextNow and texting/burner apps may be the culprit... or, it could be that most of these girls just don't have a real gameplan or organization, and given that you are limited to playing phone tag with them, and having to differentiate yourself from dozens or hundreds of other potentials, making an actual connection is more akin to a roll of the dice.

The scene here is exemplified by the struggle. It's work and it's luck and there's a lot of dead ends.

It's hard out here for a trick. Tricking ain't easy. Trick hard, trick harder.


You can always get on a plane. Passport bros strongest there is.

[swamptech]

i figured out some satisfaction to end last weekend, but lets say it was way more squeeze than the juice.
THIS week....i have providers booked everyday this week except Thursday.

Tonight kicks it off with a suite to host an outcall. Should be a slam freaking dunk. Cash n Dash Lacey that almost met me last Saturday but i backed out and gave her a venmo deposit for cancelling (my offer). We agree to meet tonight... no response when I text the room number. Dont hear from her until an hour after our agreed time.
msg tryst girls
- one is available! only does in-call...but lives close to my outcall. great lets do this. cant shes hanging with friends until 10
- another tryst girl I've been texting, she texts back, but never agrees to meet. waste an hr texting with her 2nite offering 2x her rate.
- new tryst girl Destiny touring offering $$ hr, i offer 4x that and Im hosting. Nope she insists on a $50 deposit. F that.
- another stg girl I message at 7 but she probably wont be awake until 2am and wonders why she's always broke.
- msg another tryst girl that now adverts on stg because they want the business. no reply


beware the next provider that I actually seee face 2 face because i'm probably gonna propose to you

[ChLimeade]

Brother, you are a true degenerate. You have my respect and applause, godspeed to you.

[swamptech]

thank you
2nd to last stg girl texted at midnight while i was home sleeping. yeah we hooked up.

She ended up getting the special Thanksgiving week rate plus a gift bag


Do they deserve it? no. Do i want special treatment? no.
You get what you put into this hobby. No reason it can't be fun for each participant.
Im illustrating that lurking out there could be John the Simper just looking to ravage you with unearned rewards, throwing money at you. And you call yourselves whores? PROVE IT


I have high hopes for tonights treat. Friday & Saturday are known commodities to me in NOLA, so I'm not fretting

[Charlie86]

Yea I agree. Just show alittle effort. Plenty of us have cash to blow.

[swamptech]

clearly all this talk of recession and failing economy must be disinfo, because NO ONE is hurting for cash right now.