Time Wasters

[MissK70116]

Originally Posted by Nikki Tylor

FMTY is a little different from going to A to B in town imho . However if it’s a ladies policy they should have it listed in their website where there is no misunderstanding as I do in mine .

The taxi and Uber thing doesn’t bug me because I drive my own vehicle which I would think most would have however if you have to pay for your own transportation I think that should be listed on your website so no haggling on the clients part . A website keeps things professional as well. I however never have asked anyone local when I do outcall. I drive or I pay my own way for a driver to take me for safety reasons if I am doing a overnight or dinner date in town . I have never asked for a Uber or taxi for someone to pay think it’s unprofessional unless it’s listed in your website because it does look as if your up selling on the clients behave . I have always been out of my pocket locally. I can only speak for me that’s how I run my business.

I do believe there has been a lot of BS lately in New Orleans however if you Screen well as I do then that typically takes care of those types and If they want to play games I block them from ever having the Nikki Tylor Experience their loss .

They are not wrong about you. You've got so much collagen and saline and botox in you that you actually do think your the shit!

All good darlin. You not aging well lead to, "I'm a barbie girl", enjoy your plastic life.

[Nikki Tylor]

Interesting I see you didn’t have that reaction to others who had responded with similar suggestions and life experiences as you have with me . I was only trying to help and be included in this thread thought it might be helpful that’s why you posted it .

[Kimberly Kisses]

Actually, you just said in another thread you no longer drive your own vehicle aka SUV, but have a driver, Nikki.The "Nola, is it that bad" one??? Not trying to be catty, but literally just saw that.


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What I find most obvious are narcissists who have delusions of grandeur.

When you truly are all that, the last thing you have to do is keep telling everyone how awesome you are.

Not everyone here is trying to earn the best whore award, and they're just as amazing of people. They just figured out how to stop being totally dependent on dick for cash.����

[Nikki Tylor]

Kimberly , what I said was I no longer drive downtown for I do not feel safe I hire a driver I never said I don’t own a vehicle nor do I not see clients for longer hours in New Orleans.

[Kimberly Kisses]

Originally Posted by Nikki Tylor

Kimberly , what I said was I no longer drive downtown for I do not feel safe I hire a driver I never said I don’t own a vehicle nor do I not see clients for longer hours in New Orleans.

My mistake, sorry. I wasn't suggesting you did not own one. Said you didn't want to drive your SUV as it was a target 🎯. Don't blame ya

[Shownuff85]

Where is the 🍿 popcorn !!!

I see this thread is slowly turning elsewhere !!

[Pooyie!]

Kimberly, it seems to me that you and Nikki approach the same goal, significant to the subject of this thread, just in different ways.

You work a traditional job, working hard I bet, to take care of a good portion of your income goals. That allows you to avoid many of the aspects of sex work that are averse to many. You can be more particular about who you see and not have to put up with at least some of the BS. Good for you.

Nikki looks to me to have the same goal. She obviously observes a very strict diet, spends countless hours in the gym, diligently maintains a good website and several ads, maintains an active presence on Twitter, and yes, invests in beauty treatments that many of her clients appreciate greatly given her Reviews. And yes, she promotes herself well. All so she can also be highly selective in who she sees so she can avoid at least some of the BS inherent in this line of work.

Both of you offer much to learn from.

[Kimberly Kisses]

Originally Posted by Pooyie!

Kimberly, it seems to me that you and Nikki approach the same goal, significant to the subject of this thread, just in different ways.

You work a traditional job, working hard I bet, to take care of a good portion of your income goals. That allows you to avoid many of the aspects of sex work that are averse to many. You can be more particular about who you see and not have to put up with at least some of the BS. Good for you.

Nikki looks to me to have the same goal. She obviously observes a very strict diet, spends countless hours in the gym, diligently maintains a good website and several ads, maintains an active presence on Twitter, and yes, invests in beauty treatments that many of her clients appreciate greatly given her Reviews. And yes, she promotes herself well. All so she can also be highly selective in who she sees so she can avoid at least some of the BS inherent in this line of work.

Both of you offer much to learn from.

All each person can do is run their own business the way they see fit and what their personal lives allow, Amen.

I'm also not single, don't see clients from home, and can't get away with nearly anything other providers can, but it is what it is.

Providing is barely 10 percent of my life, for others it's nearly 100 percent. Couldn't imagine the pressure of that, so I don't allow it. No way I could spend that much time catering to all the different aspects of this business, when I'm already giving that to one that will last forever. This certainly has an expiration date.

If I get one client a week or one a month, my real gigs will always be what pays the bills, so all gravy. It's also insurance, and retirement, as well as respect, none of which is a given here.

What most don't consider is there are women here who are taking care of sick, elderly parents, paying their way through school, have children with special needs, so it absolutely sucks when their time is taken for granted.

The reason they don't spend countless time on this business in the fluff area,is because they're drained from giving elsewhere.

I just think people need to be more compassionate towards those who are meek.

[Kimberly Kisses]

Originally Posted by gentlemanrogue

I find it laughable that the women are complaining about time wasters. I have had dates cancel and no show me EVERY DAY this week. I have had SCHEDULED dates and then they ghost. So I'm going to start to double book and whom ever shows up first gets the appointment. I also had an appointment, show up and her roommate or friend said she will be right out. Well then it took a second and I realized she was already in with someone else. He showed up and took my slot.

She got bent out of shape when I left and wanted me to pay for her time because I did not keep my appointment.

Guys should equally screen, agreed.

Also consider if a woman is seeing a ton of guys, you might not be a priority. Just another number. If she gets a regular who she knows is about to drop a grand, your 300 might not seem important.

High volume often equates to other issues. Schedule with women who obviously aren't seeing that many people, because odds are they'll take each encounter as important, because they can't simply throw another appointment in there if they flake.

I agree, very much unprofessionalism on both sides, but many people have literally never run a business or had to be responsible for anything other than this, and it shows.

Even in the RW, people are always late, it's the norm, but so inconsiderate and unprofessional.

Always some BS excuse like traffic, but had they given themselves more time to account for it, no problem. Obviously, other people have the same roads, same red lights, same slow idiots in front of them, yet they manage to be on time.

[MissK70116]

Originally Posted by Nikki Tylor

Interesting I see you didn’t have that reaction to others who had responded with similar suggestions and life experiences as you have with me . I was only trying to help and be included in this thread thought it might be helpful that’s why you posted it .

I'm sorry Nikki I didn't take your comment to sounding helpful, it came across, honestly like you were gloating and portraying yourself as superior. Which you're signature says that enough.
I'm sure I'll be reprimanded for saying that too.
Anyways, the purpose of my rant was declaring my disappointment in some on the men on this site. There behavior in my opinion doesn't warrant them being on here.
When is the client review section going to be working???
It seems that is becoming more and more necessary these days.

[myren1900]

Originally Posted by Nikki Tylor

FMTY is a little different from going to A to B in town imho …

The taxi and Uber thing doesn’t bug me because I drive my own vehicle which I would think most would have however if you have to pay for your own transportation I think that should be listed on your website so no haggling on the clients part .. .

I agree that paying for flights for a FMTY is a much different level of expense and time commitment than taking an Uber or taxi across town. Obviously a client will have to pay the travel expenses up front for that.
I also agree that if a provider request a payment for a taxi or an Uber it should be listed at her website or in her ad.
I have had providers take taxis or Ubers to hotels or restaurants, but never been asked to pay for it. Sometimes they prefer not to use their own cars for dinner dates or any other dates where alcohol is consumed. Also for longer dates for 2 hours or more, an Uber or taxi ride is a relative minor expense that a provider may be willing to include in her requested donation. That may not be the case for providers who offer shorter sessions.

Different providers have different ways to conduct their business. And it is all fine as long as all the rules and expectations are made clear.

[gimme_that]

Originally Posted by myren1900

Sometimes they prefer not to use their own cars for dinner dates or any other dates where alcohol is consumed.

I never understood this. Most times when I saw a provider (all multihours though) they sort of preferred to use their own cars for dinner dates because it’s another means of safety for her and discreetness for me and flight from situations she can control and get away from. Especially before the days of Uber. But some ladies prefer the option of having their car available to leave a situation.

I actually prefer a lady use her car for the dinner date portion. Gives us more options to eat. Gives her a bit more of a controlled environment. And places me in a more discreet situation where people I know won’t recognize my car. My only worry as a client when your on a date in a lady’s car is if she has things in her car or anything that might cause legal issues if it were found or discovered. Guilty by association situations I don’t like. And since ladies are using rentals sometimes and not their real car, has less chances of a random pullover.

As far as alcohol. I sorta like dates where I can get a little more tipsy in comfortability with a lady. Most ladies do drink but sometimes only enough to be on their guard. Given all the naughty things we are engaging in for 1 to 2 days at a time I sort of like ladies who show some semblance of vulnerability and actually drink in access at some point. Long as it doesn’t effect her performance of course. And maybe that why most don’t.

Dinner daye sure gets more expensive when a lady can actually drink and hold her liqour. But them types are really fun lol. I’m always more on the side of the lady that is less uninhibited.

[Nikki Tylor]

Originally Posted by MissK70116

I'm sorry Nikki I didn't take your comment to sounding helpful, it came across, honestly like you were gloating and portraying yourself as superior. Which you're signature says that enough.
I'm sure I'll be reprimanded for saying that too.
Anyways, the purpose of my rant was declaring my disappointment in some on the men on this site. There behavior in my opinion doesn't warrant them being on here.
When is the client review section going to be working???
It seems that is becoming more and more necessary these days.

I accept your apology MissK I didn’t mean to make you feel inferior . I am a strong independent confident women and that can be intimidating, I understand.

As for my signature line - my advertisement shouldn’t bother you . I don’t care how anyone advertisers or present’s theirselves that’s just silly . Think Taylor Moore claims to be the #1 VIP Provider- Do you see I care ? Let people be theirselves everyone has their own qualities and individual uniqueness.

However that wasn’t my intent to make you feel less of importance as you tried to verbal tear me down and tried to publicly shame me . i was only explaining my experiences what has always worked for me .

In this industry there are a lot of pain n the asses all of us ladies can agree and we all have had difficult clients . I learned to block those types and I am personally happier because i don’t allow them in my space anymore . It works !

[MissK70116]

Originally Posted by Nikki Tylor

I accept your apology MissK I didn’t mean to make you feel inferior . I am a strong independent confident women and that can be intimidating, I understand.

As for my signature line - my advertisement shouldn’t bother you . I don’t care how anyone advertisers or present’s theirselves that’s just silly . Think Taylor Moore claims to be the #1 VIP Provider- Do you see I care ? Let people be theirselves everyone has their own qualities and individual uniqueness.

However that wasn’t my intent to make you feel less of importance as you tried to verbal tear me down and tried to publicly shame me . i was only explaining my experiences what has always worked for me .

In this industry there are a lot of pain n the asses all of us ladies can agree and we all have had difficult clients . I learned to block those types and I am personally happier because i don’t allow them in my space anymore . It works !

Hahaha!!! Do you hear yourself? Ya that's exactly what I meant. I don't feel inferior to you in the slightest or intimidated. You're arrogance is unfounded and the narcissism is something I'm no stranger too. Humility, now that is something you could stand to gain.
Just remember as you pearch yourself up on that high horse of yours, that the concrete hit different from those heights.
And eventually everyone falls.

[MissK70116]

Originally Posted by gimme_that

I’ve done that recently for last minute items of need. I figure if I’m paying for the Uber anyways she can pick me up some of my favorite snacks and things.

Here’s two questions I have.

1. Since your ordering an uber and this is a luxury lifestyle do you spring for the Uber lux rate? Or get her the most basic car? Safety to me is still important so I’m pushing more toward ordering a lux for a lady who made an impression prior to ever meeting.

2. Let’s say the provider arrives and the session was only “so-so” average or less than stellar. After of course paying her for her time do you guys pay for the Uber back too? Are we obligated to as clients? Ladies is a free Uber ride to and fro considereda tip……or just something expected we will do as clients? The ride back I’m sure most ladies won’t mind paying cause they will be paid safely.

Should we still be a gentleman if the lady was a lazy lay? Maybe send her back in an Uber x. Maybe set the pick up point two blocks away from the outcall so she gotta walk.Lol.

New clients I ask they cover my uber to them. Because that to me shows they're legit and aren't going to send me on some deserted sketch neighborhood. And it should show you the client that I'm definitely going to show up.
Then I pay my uber back unless you are on the NS or farther then the client covers round trip. Also depending on what time the appt is. If Im coming to you in Laplace for example at 3am.then you're definitely covering round trip and they better schedule a pickup because getting a ride back to the city can sometimes be impossible.

I really don't understand why this gentleman had an issue. He never explained himself. So all I can do is assume he had no intentions of keeping the appt. And the time wasting on putting it together is what pisses me off.
At least with not doing incalls, when they decide to no show, I'm not left sitting waiting. Or having them tell me they're there so I go to the door and there's nobody there just to have them yell at me for not being there. Like WTF? I don't think yall realize the degree and amount of bullshit that we deal with.
Have you ever had a provider stalk you? Show up at your house uninvited, literally follow you and a casino telling you where you are and what you're wearing? Those are just small examples.