I miss the good ole days

[Rm6969]

Good evening, what are the sites do people go to, to find decent workers. I have tried https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu and https://us.escortsaffair.com/wichita and have no luck. The lady I found on Escort Affair took over $400 and still wouldn't meet with me because I wouldn't send her another $200 for what she called a room fee for an hour of service. I have found another lady on Escort Alligator that I have sent $300 to in advance, and she is still asking for more before we meet. Should I send more money in hopes she is true to her word? I am just afraid of being taken advantage of. I have already lost $400 for nothing and just dont want to loose anymore.
Any advice? Before these instances I have always used cash, but these 2 ladies always want to be paid before meeting. I just haven't had the best of luck with the lady's new way of doing things. Guess I might have to try my luck at the strip clubs and see if I can find a lady wanting to make a little more money after hours. If I have to go the strip club route, which club would be the best option? Okay rant over. Thanks for any advice given and hearing me out.

Later.
Rm6969

[jan-w]

Those sites you list have scammers but they also have legit ladies too. Don't send money to anyone before you meet. Make sure they're local and real before you meet them. You're here on Eccie, so read reviews and find ladies you might like. Other sites to try include Private Delights, Tryst, and P411. They're all legit and prices tend to be higher but if you have money to throw away on scammers, you should be able to afford some good ones. The Wichita market may not be that big. Can you travel? Kansas City is only a couple of hours away and will have a much bigger selection. Keep trying.

[dandycandyjim]

My rule number one of hobby-club: never never never never never never never never pay anything in advance. Not even with someone trusted here. Never. Ever. It will always lead to problems. Just don’t do it. Ever.

Wichita sucks right now. Has since the BP/CL shutdown. And it’s getting even worse because the hot ones can make more money selling content without pressing flesh with strangers. They’re out there, but you have to be extremely patient and understand you might not hit a lick (figuratively and literally) for days or even weeks of making contacts. It just sucks.

Although I haven’t tried it myself, if you have those kinds of funds to drop I’d suggest Seeking. I’ve heard it can be a lot more expensive, but the choices are better. But the same issues and rules apply; NEVER SEND MONEY IN ADVANCE. EVER. No matter how hot the pictures are or how real she seems or how horny you are, just don’t do it. Ever.

[Cranjis McBasketball]

Skipthegames is decent. Certainly some fakes, but I have met a couple of good ladies. But overall it sucks here.

[Rm6969]

Yeah I actually live in SW Kansas and drive to Wichita in hopes of finding some good ladies but have struck out. Thanks for the advise. The one lady has been bugging me all day about sending her more money and I finally said no. Guess I might just stick to the strip clubs.