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Old 03-26-2022, 10:38 PM   #1
Tr3ndy
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Saw this in another thread. Figured it could help those new here:

The day of your appt.
Text her several hours before
your appointment to confirm
you are still scheduled
with the exact time of your
meet.

She should give you the cross
streets, area, zip code or
the name of the hotel in her
reply. So you know where
to go.

When you leave to meet her
I usually text then to let
the girl know I'm on my way.

Leave early, show up early.
Watch the traffic around the
hotel or apartment.
Keep an eye out for shady
characters lurking outside
(pimp or accomplice thief)
and undercover cops.

Park in a safe area away
from the hotel.
If it's a house/apartment
I usually park about a block
away.

About 5 min til appt time.
Text her that you're there.
She should give you the
hotel room number, apartment
number and instructions
on where to go and what to
do to get to her door.

If she asks to see your car
this is a red flag.
Some want to know for their
safety but be on high alert.
By parking far away, you will
be out of range for her to
hit your key fob while you are
otherwise distracted to give
an accomplice access to your
vehicle.

Take only what you need for
the appointment.
The exact amount of money
in an envelope or card
rate and duration of visit
should always be agreed upon
before you see her.
Always bring your own condoms.

When she greets you at the door
if she is not the girl pictured
in the ad, walk.
If she likes about who she is
she will lie about anything/
everything.
It also sends a message to her
to stop catfishing people.

She should hug/kiss you when
you meet her. It sets the mood
and is a step towards LE checks.

Excuse yourself to go to the
restroom to wash up.
If your gut feeling about the
appointment is good, leave the
open envelope with the money in
it in plain view.
DO NOT DISCUSS THE MONEY AT ALL.

Inspect the restroom for signs
of a 2nd person or an accomplice.
Look behind the shower curtain
and under cabinets.
Wash your hands.

When you come out, check the
door to make sure the latch/
deadbolt is closed so no one
can come in the room from
outside (even with a key card).
Make sure the door to the
adjoining room is locked.

She will tell you to
"Get comfortable" this is code
and the last LE check.
You need to get completely
naked at this time.
She should also be nudging up
as well.
A female cop will not show her
tits or kitty at all.
If she isnt wearing negligee
you need to ask to see her
breasts before you start
getting naked.
NEVER DISCUSS MONEY.
Just to be sure, do not touch
her until you are both nude.

At this point the girl will
usually take the lead and
ask you to lay on the bed
for a BJ or massage to start.

Once you get this far you are
good to go for fin activities
but if you shower before
you go, take your clothes into
the bathroom with you
and leave the shower curtain
open enough to see your clothes.

Just be polite and respectful,
shower before your appt.
Ask before you DFK, FIV
or CIM/COF/COT.

If she has an attitude,
poor service, or refuses
to do promised activities
dont try to get a refund.
This will only escalate the
situation.
It is better to take a 300 loss
than to be beat up, kidnapped
or robbed of everything by her
calling a pimp, body guard or
partner in crime.

Just trust your instincts.
If something feels off, its
better to cancel the appt or
walk than it is to get
beat up or arrested.

If Shes been a provider with
ads for awhile you should
be ok. If she were a RIP off
artist she would always be
changing her handle, phone
number and city.

Also cops doing stings will
want to see you TONIGHT.
They will not reschedule.
If the ad is new and the pics
seem TGTBT, it's usually a
sting/rip off artist.
NEVER DISCUSS MONEY.
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Old 03-27-2022, 11:29 AM   #2
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Excellent post, I’ve done many of these things and they serve me well
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Old 03-27-2022, 12:17 PM   #3
Diego Smith
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I don't agree with everything on that list, but it is a great post and several things on there will serve everyone well. It is also a great starting place to determine your own level of comfort.

The very best advice in a very good post is to ALWAYS follow your instincts. I have walked from a half dozen dates over the last ten years, and never regretted it. I have let the little head override the big head on occasion, and almost always end up regretting it.
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Old 03-27-2022, 12:49 PM   #4
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had to learn a lot of this the hard way. thanks for sharing
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Old 03-28-2022, 10:27 AM   #5
loboyibo
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one additional, never walk into just an open door into a dark room. If door opens and you cant see inside really well, get away quickly, either a robber or a bust about to come down. I had a situation overseas, where door opened, like an idiot I walk in, girl that led me in is there along with another lady that locked the door after I passed in and demanded I pay or she would call the police that I had broken in. I paid and ran.
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