Regulars

[RobZom]

Guys - How many of you consider yourself a regular? For example, when you find a provider that works for you, that person is your go to and you don't play the field by scheduling with other providers. Your time, effort, money is directed towards your girl. You enjoy the familiarity of your provider compared to wanting variety. I know that our Upset, NY area is limited at this time so that may skew things towards being a regular since there appears to be not a ton of girls to choose from.

Girls - How do you view regulars? Is one of the goals to have steady clients that you like seeing and you can trust more than someone off the street? Can regulars creep you out?

What are the pros and cons? I personally lean towards being a regular and enjoy a bit more depth in the client-provider relationship. I've been through enough to know that my situation at this time with a well regarded but elusive provider is probably as good as gets for both parties.

Feel free to discuss!

[Rainbird4668]

I once was a regular regular (1-2 times every week) with a provider. Benefits to that were a better rate and availability than new clients, sexy pics sent, involvment in content creation, baked goods and general nice things you do for friend. It was really great until it wasn't. Literally overnight, it all stopped.

After that situation detiorated, out of frustration I switched to sugaring. At first, it was super easy to have a massive variety, but I've whittled it down to 3 girls (with 1 I prefer the most and make sure to see twice a week, with the other 2 in backup rotation).

For me personally, I prefer sugaring so far. Not just because it's more economical, not just because there aren't revolving doors of cocks with these ladies, but also because it's a real stable connection.

[Withnail]

Originally Posted by Rainbird4668

I once was a regular regular (1-2 times every week) with a provider. Benefits to that were a better rate and availability than new clients, sexy pics sent, involvment in content creation, baked goods and general nice things you do for friend. It was really great until it wasn't. Literally overnight, it all stopped.

After that situation detiorated, out of frustration I switched to sugaring. At first, it was super easy to have a massive variety, but I've whittled it down to 3 girls (with 1 I prefer the most and make sure to see twice a week, with the other 2 in backup rotation).

For me personally, I prefer sugaring so far. Not just because it's more economical, not just because there aren't revolving doors of cocks with these ladies, but also because it's a real stable connection.

I think you just sold me on sugaring.

[valkyra]

Originally Posted by RobZom

Girls - How do you view regulars? Is one of the goals to have steady clients that you like seeing and you can trust more than someone off the street? Can regulars creep you out?

My regulars are friends. I prefer regulars over a revolving door, which is why I set a higher starting rate and then reduce (varies how much per individual, compatibility, and frequency) over time individually.

I've always said that open communication is the most important part of any relationship, especially a sexual one. So people that frequently see me are cherished. I look forward to seeing each one, and seeing what it is I can do to make their experience even better than last time. Over time, you learn the small details a person likes that truly defines their idea of a perfect EXPERIENCE, and once you perfect those, sessions become effortless, fun, and freeing. The release they were truly designed to be.

Regulars don't creep me out - in fact, quite the opposite. With time comes compatibility, trust increased leads to better sex and connections all around. I reach out to my regulars for advice on content, to send a little photo or video of myself or my dog, and to chat when they need someone to talk to. (Or when I need someone to talk to - I've been known to confide in a client or two, especially when my depression is kicking my ass)

I have a hard time making friends outside of the hobby because I have a hard time relating to people my age. So I really see the people I've met through this, even if they can't afford to see me as frequently as they'd like, as friends. I've met some of the best people through doing this, some really wonderful mentors and friends... ^_^ We check in on each other and they see me when they can. I appreciate them all the same.

I also offer last minute appointments to regulars, which is not something that I offer normally. I'll also bust out some herbs with regulars, if I know they like it. Otherwise I try to remain professional and keep it semi tucked away, lol.


Sugaring I would imagine is exhausting. I simply wouldn't have the energy to ask for money every time I need it. I'd rather work for it and know that I have it, instead of always asking Daddy. But to each his own, and I'm glad that there are some girls out there for everyone!

[woodywouldpekher]

Valkyra, that was very well stated! Valkyra gave a very good response. It could be a perfect mirror reflection if changed from her perspective as a provider to a clients perspective.

When there isn't a lot of options in your home area regulars are very much appreciated. Knowing likes and dislikes, moods, cravings makes for a more realistic GFE experience. It's nice to build trust in a regular. Usually NC overnights are mixed in.

But I also like variety (it is the "spice of life") because that's a big part of the "hobby" experience. It's important that your provider as your regular doesn't mean you're "exclusive" to only her.

[valkyra]

Originally Posted by woodywouldpekher

It's important that your provider as your regular doesn't mean you're "exclusive" to only her.

Thank you, Woody, for the compliment and for bringing this up. I think, personally, if you are exclusively seeing one provider, you're not taking advantage of the hobby for what it is.

I'm not saying it's wrong - obviously, stick with what you are comfortable with, and if you want one person to get comfortable with, that's great! But being a "regular" in my eyes does not mean you are seeing only me, nor would I ever hold it against a client for seeing another provider. I actually encourage my clients to experience other providers so that all of their needs and desires are satisfied by the best provider for them.

For example, if a client comes to me and wants greek - I don't offer greek because I don't enjoy it.

But I'll refer him to other providers who I know DO offer that, because I know that when he wants something I actually specialize in, he'll come back to me ^_^

I've said it before, I'll say it a hundred times - One provider cannot cover every demographic. Willingly or not, we all work together to cover the client base. People who like one thing will go to one girl frequently - people who like something else, will go to another one.
If he sees me multiple times (regardless if its in succession or over a span of time), I consider him a regular, and that doesn't change if he is seeing other providers as well.

[Nina the Dicknapper]

I love my regulars! They always get better rates and moved in front of the line

[Next Best Thing]

Nina you need to sit the rest of these whores down & straighten them out.

[valkyra]

Originally Posted by Next Best Thing

Nina you need to sit the rest of these whores down & straighten them out.

You're not anybody's regular. What could you possibly have to contribute on a board like this? If you can't stay on topic, perhaps you shouldn't post. It isn't wise to discuss things one knows nothing about.

People might think you are just... posting to hear yourself talk.

[Next Best Thing]

Hopefully not lashing out because you're still emotional about the dog baby.

[Dr-epg]

Let’s stay on the threads subject please

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by Dr-epg

Let’s stay on the threads subject please

yes I'm Regular. I dump every morning about 5 am.

not sure I'm understanding why a thread about this

mmmm or do I have it all wrong what the topic is ???? just askin

[valkyra]

Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

yes I'mRegular. I dump every morning about 5 am.

not sure I'm understanding why a thread about this

mmmm or do I have it all wrong what the topic is ???? just askin

There's a thread about this because you're on an internet forum about sex work, and part of sex work is a rotating - or not - client base.

Did you take your medication today? You know the doctor said you can set an alarm and stuff as a reminder


PLOT TWIST : OSD is actually Joe Biden

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by valkyra

There's a thread about this because you're on an internet forum about sex work, and part of sex work is a rotating - or not - client base.

Did you take your medication today? You know the doctor said you can set an alarm and stuff as a reminder

ops, ya Regular at that also, very few can put up with me
me think mmmm ahhh errrr... lets just stick to chat on icky, Sir Miz Harris
and my Abbott's in a cup please n thank you

[lilylivered]

Originally Posted by valkyra

PLOT TWIST : OSD is actually Joe Biden

They both do babble a bit.... lol