Why is it so difficult? Ladies, chime in!

[ughiphopfan]

Idk there's a lot of inherent risk in an illicit market, whether it's LEO, violence, or being exposed. A lot of it is context dependent between individual interactions and maybe even just vibes. There can be consistent unreliability among clients and providers (just peruse stg listing our of boredom and you'll see that our areas are rife with no shows and that can lead to a jaded outlook, demeanor, and interaction from either side). Idk if I necessarily agree with not having the skills and resorting to sex work especially in a world where min wage can't cover living costs.

In the end, there's a lot of factors that can cause flakiness (I'm skittish af and hesitated on verifying w/ID to Summer) as a means of worrying about the inherent risks in the hobby, having a high number of appointments that do not pan out, or yes just being a bad provider. You can keep trying and put your best foot forward to not kill vibes and to get a booking. Maybe someone is booked or just spent all day getting ran through more than a yellow light and thats why they're not responding, who knows.

Yeah I ramble, I'm out of adderall

[Theatrical person]

Not for nothing, but if I was a hot chick, I'd probably give it a go at making money for sex. If for nothing else, the sheer thrill of sex with a stranger. The money would be a bonus. A have a friend who is a physician who drives Uber on his days off. Not because he needs the money, but for the entertainment value that it brings him

[DallasRain]

i wanna apologize to yall
This week has been hectic at home...busy w flea market and kids/grandkids and the roofers have been at my house off & on all week repairing it.... i am sorry i have been unavailble or wishy washy tjis week!!

I will be gone all week so see yall when i gt hime.... much love to springfield!!

[Nelson78]

I think I’m done boys. I contacted six women yesterday. Three didn’t respond which is not a big deal. Two sent me a greeting text like “Hello hansom “ and then when I asked if they are available got no reply. One finally set up an appointment and then was a no show. This should be a sure thing and it’s less productive than a bar or online dating. I’m a single full time dad with zero time for bars and dating and the one free evening I have was wasted chasing ghosts. There has got to be a better way!

[CatMan4u]

Nelson. I feel your pain
also I work a very demanding
job that requires lots of hours so my time is valuable to the way I see it the providers blame us guys for not making time for their availability and some of them don't respect our time
I am probably wrong but I have broken it down this way
1 there's the snobs that
Aren't worth the hasel
2. There's the good one
that's just difficult to
see
3. Then there's the scammers a
And the rest
I am very fortunate to have some that are very understanding that I see

Ladies I know you have a life also and have other things to do

[grinin22]

Not sure if this will work in your situation but ….

If your one free evening a week and it is the same day each week or you know ahead when it falls.
You could text the ladies a couple days out and say you are looking for a lady for that particular evening. Outcalls will always be trickier to set up then I calls.

Hope this helps
Goodluck