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Originally Posted by arealone
For as much experience as you claim you have 5 reviews in 5 years. 2 of them of Ginger. Not what I'd call a lot of providers.....
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That's just on this board. I had quite a few on TER under my old handle before it took a sabbatical and then a large number now-defunct STLASP in St. Louis. There are several reasons as to why I don't write many these days. First, I always ask the provider if she wants one. A lot of ladies would rather not have any since they fear the drama that some reviews can cause. This area of the ECCIE Board is a perfect example. A guy posts a review (probably his first ever) and right away he takes heat for his reporting. Using Ginger as an example, she is strong enough and has a good enough reputation that she can handle this kind of "stuff". Other ladies just don't want to be harassed like that. Second, Most of the ladies I see are repeat visits. Sometimes they do things for me that they don't normally do with other clients. I would hate to put something in a review and then have her come back on me for putting her in a position she doesn't like. Third, I really only care about what a lady does when she's with me. Any other time is her personal life. When some "difficulty" begins between two providers, there is so much that goes on behind the scenes that we, as clients, will never know, I've found that it's better to be sitting on the sidelines because both sides have a story and most of the time, the truth lies somewhere in the middle. If you want to get involved with drama, my advice to you would be to get married. And, that, dear sir, is a brief synopsis of my 35 years in the hobby.
Encounter: Night with Ginger
