Am I an A-Hole?

[Austinborderline]

I scheduled with a new girl this weekend. My regular was out of town and I was hitting a dry well with ECCIE and P411 ladies, so she came from a sketchy site--which I never do.

We arranged to meet at her upscale location. When I got there, she was bombed out of her mind.

I almost called it off at the door but she pulled it together and I decided she was probably mentally competent to consent to anything that might happen.

There were signs of partying in the room. I'll be vague so as to not violate ECCIE's code of conduct.

Well, I follow standard procedure and drop three bills on the dresser and we engage.

Fifteen minutes in, she flat passes out cold.

Out. Cold.

Shaking wasn't waking her up beyond a mumbled whine of "leave me alone."

This is a new one to me so I propped her up on the bed and made sure she wasn't going to choke or anything. I also pulled a blanket up to her shoulders.

Then I dressed and got the hell out of there.

On the way out, I snagged two of the three bills I'd laid on the dresser. I thought about taking it all but thought I'd at least (over)pay her for the limited time and attention.

Three hours later, she texted me "what happened?"

I explained and then she claimed I'd stolen the $200 that I reclaimed. "Indian giving is stealing."

She offered to give me the remaining 45 minutes in exchange for the cash but I declined.

She blew up my Voice account for about six hours with increasingly desperate demands and threats. I didn't respond.

So, was I the asshole here?

[Hairytwatlover]

Nope. I think the 100 was a nice touch. Although I am sure it will contribute to her decline.

[offshoredrilling]

bitch owes ya $80 at least

and a deep discount if ya try again

[eastside70]

I would have turned around and left without even entering the room. Being under the influence has no business in this hobby.

[Austinborderline]

Yup. First encounter like that in ten years. Glad I have all the firewalls in place between real life and the hobby. Never felt like I've really needed them before but always maintained them.

[winn dixie]

I would have taken all the money back and blasted her here!
These chicks need to have accountability. She wasted your time! And she put you in a very compromising situation that could have turned BAD!

[Alyssa XOXO]

Originally Posted by eastside70

I would have turned around and left without even entering the room. Being under the influence has no business in this hobby.

^^^^^^THIS. This could've gone horrible in so many ways. You're not an asshole. You are better than this though. Remind yourself of that and if you're not familiar with Gratitude in your personal life yet; I'd be feeling it right about now. You dodged a bullet.

I'm glad that you are well and hope that you have better Experiences in your Future. Happy Hobbying!

[GypsyHeart]

Definitely not the asshole. I would definitely review it as to warn your other mongers.

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

bitch owes ya $80 at least

and a deep discount if ya try again

I would of grabbed it all back! I always say that bad habits and the hobby go hand and hand. It's full of successful guy's willing to spend huge bucks dealing with you know the deal

Maybe one day there can be a hooker association that purges out the wannabes looking to turn tricks for a quick buck, this could of gone bad for the OP

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by Hairytwatlover

Nope. I think the 100 was a nice touch. Although I am sure it will contribute to her decline.

$300/60 MIN (we assume this was an hours apt.) = $5.00/minute

15 minutes x $5 = $75

It seems like you left her a $25 tip. Why is she bitching?

PS. It looked like a party? Run, don't walk. You should have just given her a $20 tip at the door and left. Lesson learned.

Don't feel bad, you were more than fair. Move on and don't worry about it.

[carguy1989]

any/everybody is an a**hole at some point in time, this was not your time.

[Ed Highlight]

Your heavily intoxicated "date" was actually overdosing, or poisoned by alcohol, or unable to function and something serious happened to her and she died. Now, you're not just a trick, you're a material witness at best and perhaps a suspect in a rather dicey situation at the very least - stranger things have happened.

Why put yourself in that peril? If she's that wasted, I'm out!! So yeah, you might be a little bit of an A-hole...little bit...butt, not for the reason you think.

I prefer my ladies awake, coherent, attentive and maybe just a little near-sighted... Oh yeah, and big tits!!

[Levianon17]

Originally Posted by Austinborderline

I scheduled with a new girl this weekend. My regular was out of town and I was hitting a dry well with ECCIE and P411 ladies, so she came from a sketchy site--which I never do.

We arranged to meet at her upscale location. When I got there, she was bombed out of her mind.

I almost called it off at the door but she pulled it together and I decided she was probably mentally competent to consent to anything that might happen.

There were signs of partying in the room. I'll be vague so as to not violate ECCIE's code of conduct.

Well, I follow standard procedure and drop three bills on the dresser and we engage.

Fifteen minutes in, she flat passes out cold.

Out. Cold.

Shaking wasn't waking her up beyond a mumbled whine of "leave me alone."

This is a new one to me so I propped her up on the bed and made sure she wasn't going to choke or anything. I also pulled a blanket up to her shoulders.

Then I dressed and got the hell out of there.

On the way out, I snagged two of the three bills I'd laid on the dresser. I thought about taking it all but thought I'd at least (over)pay her for the limited time and attention.

Three hours later, she texted me "what happened?"

I explained and then she claimed I'd stolen the $200 that I reclaimed. "Indian giving is stealing."

She offered to give me the remaining 45 minutes in exchange for the cash but I declined.

She blew up my Voice account for about six hours with increasingly desperate demands and threats. I didn't respond.

So, was I the asshole here?

No, she deserved it.

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by Levianon17

No, she deserved it.

what???

[Grace Preston]

The only mistake made by you is not turning away at the door-- or, saving that.. at the notice of the "party favors".



If anything, you were generous.