What do you most look for in a GFE?

[lebrouge]

GFE is a broad term - So this poll is to find out what the most popular menu items that make an encounter a GFE.

Newbies, www.urbandictionary.com is your friend for any unfamiliar codes...including GFE!

[Ripmany]

If pick me up like a good friend would from mental ward since can't leave there on own, would be good.

[DesWad]

A good GFE is rare and could have a variety of those combinations. It starts from texting about the date to the date to after the date. A lot of what is not included in the poll comes into a true GFE. I think a true GFE must be at least a 2 hour stay+ as well.

I chose other because BB69 illustrates a dual urge and yearning. To me of all the sex acts, this must be the top one especially if I can CIM and she swallows it while I'm still underneath. But DFK must be part of the experience as well.

[lebrouge]

I DID forget to add BB69 to the poll! I guess you could think of it as simultaneous BJ+DATY lol...

Your point is well taken that a good GFE is a whole package, starting with the friendliness of the initial texts and ending with a pleasant after-date (I often text with warm gratitude, after). I don't usually reach this level of comfort until after a few dates, just like with any civi date

[Fizley]

GFE is a broad term that can be applied many different ways. If a provider is GFE to me that includes Kissing, BBBJ, and maybe CIM. COF, DATY, DT, BBFS is not included.

Usually when I see a new provider If I want one of the higher services I go and see her for a half hour or quick visit. As I am tieing my shoes to leave I ask, "Can we consider xxx service next time?" If she says yes I schedule another appointment soon. If not, I take that into consideration.

[lebrouge]

Originally Posted by Fizley

...Usually when I see a new provider If I want one of the higher services I go and see her for a half hour or quick visit. As I am tieing my shoes to leave I ask, "Can we consider xxx service next time?" If she says yes I schedule another appointment soon. If not, I take that into consideration.

Good point, Mr Fizz! I don't ask for the more intimate services before or on the 1st date either. Better to establish a rapport/connection first.

[ICU 812]

For me, the whole idea of the GFE is what it is not; not standing dog behind a dumpster, not 15 min of "half-and-half", not a SW cart date quickie, not some fraction of an hour trying to feel up an AMP "girl" (well over 45 years old),

GFE is also not a list of acronyms that must include this or that. GFE costs more because there is a secure and comfortable in call or out call. More because your time together is scheduled exclusivly for you.

The session is GFE because the provider makes you feel that, for the moment anyway, there is no one else on her mind and all her attention is on you.

I know that many so called GFE sessions are not quite like that, but that is my idea of a good to great GHFE session. I have had a few that made that standard. They are memorable.

[phompee]

Attitude more than a list of acronyms. She acts like she wants to be there, has a sense of humor, acts kind of horny but not over the top. I don’t see that illusion happening without kissing and bbbj but those acronyms alone don’t define great in my mind.

[hammer50]

At this point in my life and hobbying career i consider what's between the provider's ears more important than what is below the neck. Hammer.

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by hammer50

At this point in my life and hobbying career i consider what's between the provider's ears more important than what is below the neck. Hammer.

and why only two reports ???? just askin

[Gotyour6]

I walked out on an Asian girl that was 22 and fucking hot because she didnt kiss.

[MrGiz]

Comfort, Reliability & Consistency, Ease of Communications, Zero Drama, and a genuine, above average sexual nature.

I'm sure I'll probably want to add to this list, but the above, pretty much covers it for me.

[ICU 812]

Ebrougue: We have all said it differently, but the responses do come together I think on the side of intangible attributes rather than a suite of specific sex acts.

Hope this helps you out.

I hope that this thread helps some providers too. It would be nice to hear some discussion from their perspective.

[hammer50]

Originally Posted by hammer50

At this point in my life and hobbying career i consider what's between the provider's ears more important than what is below the neck. Hammer.

Lost all my old ones when eccie went thru the purge.

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by hammer50

At this point in my life and hobbying career i consider what's between the provider's ears more important than what is below the neck. Hammer.

Just think about the comic line: You can't fix stupid.