Fuck my life

[Handyandy1800]

I wish someone gave a fuck about me
All I want is a girlfriend and nobody will help me

[Hobby1750]

@BugleAndy

Okay, I'll offer my two-bit cents/sense:

I'm making the assumption you're young, barely in your 20's. (If, by chance, you're, let's say, age 50, and writing what you write, then yes, you should be institutionalized in a padded room. But I'm sure my age assumption is accurate.)

So you're a young guy in his early 20's, and you've already learned the basics of the hobby. You're ahead of the game. Many men never get the opportunity to enter this world, or enter it too late. I always consider my knowledge and experience navigating the Paid-Pussy-Realm to be akin to a super-power: mongers blend unknown into society, yet possess the uncanny ability to get pussy anywhere and anytime.

Don't underestimate the value of this ability. You're set for life. Look at guys like Harvey Weinstein, Chris D'Elia, or even Robert Kraft: if only they knew how to journey through the Paid-Pussy-Realm, their lives would be much better off. They could have had high-end escorts come to their private residence/hotel rooms (in Kraft's case), but instead they foolishly chased unpaid pussy (D'Elia and Weinstein). The only discreet pussy is Paid-Pussy.

So here you are, BugleAndy, at a young age, and you posess a super-power most accomplished successful men don't have: the power to have pussy whenever you want it.

You're winning already! You write as if you're an incel, but you're a Boss compared to any incel. You get what all guys want: Pussy!

Your notion that Relationships are a victory is wholly false. Relationships are what most men use to get Pussy, because most men don't know about the Paid-Pussy-Realm. Females are best for sex and giving birth. Beyond that, it gets murky real fast. No real man actually relates to women. The most fictional characters on television are the compassionionate, understanding, caring, unselfish, affectionate, drama-free, loyal, sexual, sweet, intelligent, beautiful females. They don't exist in the wild. Only on television and in our dreams. Yes, some cuck may claim to have the best significant-other - that's because she already owns his balls. Men don't relate to women and women don't relate to men. We tolerate each other. That's no victory.

My point: What you're looking for, you already have! You're already having sex with women and spending time with them. Victory achieved. There is no greater win.

Why buy the cow, when you can just buy the milk?

Relationships will lead men into making horrific financial decisions; bloodbath divorces; anguish; frustration; unbearable debt; and left alone and broke. Wash, rinse, repeat. Our whole lives. A Relationship doesn't solve any problems, and only creates more. Men enter Relationships to appease Polite Society.

Most men on here are in Relationahips. Yet they're dull, passionless partnerships out of convenience and time-invested/sunk-cost. These are not triumphant scenarios.

Now, there is no need to go all M.G.T.O.W., but rather, we can have the best of both worlds: we frolic in the Paid-Pussy-Realm (guaranteed lifetime of sex with younger women), which is better than 99.9999999% of Relationships. (Yes, some jackass out there may have found nirvana, the same way some jackass may have won the Power-Ball. Neither is realistic.) What you're seeking does not exist: there is no salvation from a Relationship.

But... spending time with Paid-Pussy, like what you're already doing, IS THE PINNACLE!! I've personally had the best dates of my life with Paid-Pussy. We meetup, we fuck immediately, then we go out, get dinner, go to a bar, have a great time together. Then I leave and go back to my life, zero strings attached. Maybe I'll see her again, or maybe I'll quit while ahead: leave that great date as a forever memory. Why date someone until it sours? Stop the record when it's great, so the music ends on a high-note. There is an ENDLESS supply of Paid-Pussy.

And all this being said, you already have the #1 thing ANY girl cares about. And from what you write, it seems pretty big. It's in your pants... the back of your pants. Your wallet!!

You seem to have lots of expendable cash. This is all you need to get women. Being generous with your money will forever keep women in your life. Afterall, the difference between a housewife and Paid-Pussy is a very thin line: your money is what's keeping her around. (The main difference is the Paid-Pussy gives regular enthusiastic sex; the housewife, not so much.)

Your former psychiatrist saying you'll never have a Relationship is 100% false, and yes, very unprofessional of him. He sucks as a doctor and as a person. You'll learn many people we put trust into tend to suck. But if he were correct, saying you'll never have a Relationship is like saying you'll never have cancer. This is good news. Unfortunately for you, you will soon enough experience the frustrations of Relationships. And only then will you understand: You had already achieved victory.

[Handyandy1800]

I’m 33
I think I mentioned my age before

And I would never go M.G.T.OW. Cuz I like women
In fact I have more female friends than males to begin with but it’s friend zone level. Like even in college I befriended many girls in my classes, but it never went past classmate level and I think some of the girls treated me disabled unfortunately. My problem with my aspergers is I can’t really develop deep friendships, so that’s why I would just be classmate level friends then never seen them after the semester ended.

And yes I have a lot of expendable income cuz I work for the state. This is how I was able to work through the virus unaffected, without losing any income. I get a lot of vacation time too, being a state worker. And it’s almost impossible to get fired from, which is why I have been able to work with my social difficulties as the private sector I would not last.

And regarding that therapist. Yes he was a big stresser. Also my mom was a big part of the problem as she was a helicopter mom and held me back, treating me like a child in my 20s (she got me into that therapist). Heck she would roll over in her grave if she knew what I was doing with all these whores. (She also may have been a contributing factor as to why I was friendzonrd in college. Like when I was 19, I was being bullied by a group of students from both genders at Schdy County Community College and my mom went down there and told the bullies off making matters worse, I began being called a mamas boy. Instead I should have been told to be a man and stand up to those bullies).
She died from cancer two and a half years ago and sad to say but it took her dying for me to finally grow up and have a life.

[Hobby1750]

You're 33? Eh, okay. You just need to grow the fuck up and stop your bitching. Life is hard. For everyone. Aspy or not. Just shut up and fuck pussy.

[Handyandy1800]

There was another website I used to belong to that fit my needs better
Cuddle Comfort
Anyone heard of that?
www.cuddlecomfort.com

It’s professional cuddles who offer platonic cuddling for money. It’s strictly platonic with stuff like caressing, snuggling even spooning allowed. But anything sexual (including kissing) forbidden. I mean a cuddler could try to offer sexual services but most followed an honor code cuz unlike prostitution, professional cuddling is legal it’s under therapy.
I used to be on that site and even did a few overnight cuddle sessions with these two different girls in Boston (not a threesome, on two separate occasions I saw each girl).
And this was the only time I ever spent all night with a girl.
The site is moderated and they ban users who try to solicit sex from cuddles. Unfortunately I got banned from a dispute with another member.
They recently unbanned me but thanks to the caronavirus nobody is cuddling now.
But ya I used to be on that site but after I got banned, I came over here and began seeing hookers for both sex and cuddling. You would be surprised that cuddling is more intimate than sex.

[Hobby1750]

Now that's retarded.

[Handyandy1800]

At least the girls on the cuddle comfort weren’t dangerous with bad habits or stuff.
Many of them were working professionals doing this on the site. Like the girls in Boston worked as teachers (who I spent the night with)and another girl I was seeing locally worked as a fellow state worker. And if you read my earlier posts, you will see how I complain I mostly want a girl to hold hands with etc.
Hence why I love cuddling. I mean at least with providers here I can do both, book an hour session and have sex for 10 minutes and cuddle the remaining 50 Minutes. But It’s great the providers here let you cuddle together naked and kiss, which was forbidden on the cuddle comfort site.

P.S. On a totally unrelated note, one of the overnight cuddlers from Boston (whom I keep in touch with) actually got the caronavirus but she said it was just a mild cold and no worse than the common cold and she recovered easy. Promising news that the caronavirus can effect many people without being as dangerous as everyone is panicking over.

[VagWhacker99]

@Hobby1750

You hit the nail on the head with women. The sweet, sexy, loving, blah blah blah is largely a fictional construct. I won't say good women don't exist but you're more likely to find a golden ticket in your chocolate bar than you are to find a woman like that. I used to be like Nazi Cartman up there. I wanted a relationship, intimacy, blah blah blah, but there came a point where I just stopped giving a rat's ass. Though every woman thinks she's a billion dollar baby, most legitimately aren't worth it. The paid pussy realm is really the way to go. The girls are just pussy and we mongers are just dollar signs. No games, no faking it, just an implicit understanding between two adults.

Nazi guy, really, don't bang your head against the wall over women. You might think they're worth it, but they're really not. If they were, you wouldn't be miserable, alone, and buying snatch.

[Scoot642]

Once again Wrong section!!! This is for ENCOUNTERS.

[Funtimes44]

I red that post wrong thought it said fuck my wife lol....but handy Andy aka retard does always liven a post up lol... cuddle comfort holy fuck I guess only way that would work is you bang an escort then go home and call up cuddle comfort lol.. tell the wife/gf she's only here to cuddle I had a hard day and I know you are busy

[hobbyist1]

Originally Posted by Scoot642

Once again Wrong section!!! This is for ENCOUNTERS.

Hopefully a moderator will educate this "character" on where to post things.

[hobbyist1]

Originally Posted by Handyandy1800

I wish someone gave a fuck about me
All I want is a girlfriend and nobody will help me

Hey, post in the right section ok? This is obviously not an encounter. What part of this don't you understand?

[Scoot642]

Originally Posted by hobbyist1

Hopefully a moderator will educate this "character" on where to post things.

Problem is everyone keeps egging him on and we respond.should just be removed entirely. Or a new section called "WTF"

[hobbyist1]

Originally Posted by Scoot642

Problem is everyone keeps egging him on and we respond.should just be removed entirely. Or a new section called "WTF"

Banning comes to mind.

[hobbyist1]

Originally Posted by Handyandy1800

There was another website I used to belong to that fit my needs better
Cuddle Comfort
Anyone heard of that?
www.cuddlecomfort.com

It’s professional cuddles who offer platonic cuddling for money. It’s strictly platonic with stuff like caressing, snuggling even spooning allowed. But anything sexual (including kissing) forbidden. I mean a cuddler could try to offer sexual services but most followed an honor code cuz unlike prostitution, professional cuddling is legal it’s under therapy.
I used to be on that site and even did a few overnight cuddle sessions with these two different girls in Boston (not a threesome, on two separate occasions I saw each girl).
And this was the only time I ever spent all night with a girl.
The site is moderated and they ban users who try to solicit sex from cuddles. Unfortunately I got banned from a dispute with another member.
They recently unbanned me but thanks to the caronavirus nobody is cuddling now.
But ya I used to be on that site but after I got banned, I came over here and began seeing hookers for both sex and cuddling. You would be surprised that cuddling is more intimate than sex.

If the other site fits you better then feel free to use that site instead of this one. I really don't think anyone would mind at all. In fact they might end up cheering your leaving this site.