The right way to ask

[chloeblue83]

I accept clients on both but text apps r free and more than ever being abused by crazy people I just want to feel safe bringing someone to my house alot fo times I'll give the text app a chance no one shows up. But i do know providers in Denver that won't see anyone with a text app is what I'm saying who knows what someone put them thru everyone has there reasons I'm just a lil more cautious now sense I have bad luck here. U either grow from bad experiences and get stronger or u keep meeting crazy people it's limited the amount of issues I've had screening a lil bit more than I was because I use to be like sure come on over without question then there is big trouble for u that u didn't ask for! People that play games on text app would never be man enough to use there own phone is alot of the thought concept on that because it happens to me daily probably from more than one person with the weird texting. I have turned down text app when I don't feel comfortable they won't call me on the phone there being funny no refs no nothing and they don't feel they have to give me any comfort in meeting. Ya this is business but like I said can we be made to feel we r about to have fun not be hacked to peices lol


And I also get it's hard on both sides of this guy's don't want to give info and girls can be tough because of the unknowing and until it's legal there will be a divide that I've seen on every board

[Diego Smith]

Thanks, Chloe. And you are right -- both parties have to be comfortable.

To the OP -- every single post on this thread is good advice, or good education for you. Chloe's posts are not inconsistent with the other posts. She has a comfort spot that she needs to get to, and every provider is the same -- they have a comfort zone that allows them to communicate with you and then later to be naked with you. (Note that for some not-so-savory providers, that comfort spot is a friend hiding in the bathroom or a "cousin" in a car in the parking lot -- pay attention to your spidey sense).

[chloeblue83]

Thanks Diego!! Giving a gal comfort that u r about to meet means the absolute world to us and definitely makes the time better for both!!!
I love when I'm jumping all around excited to meet someone and hate that idk how he's gunna be feeling!
At the same time making your experience as best as possible too! In the end it's all about fun no guy wants to feel cheated N once he's actually there is were the fun begins everything else is just ughhhhhhh let's meet already!

[EOD]

1) always use a burner phone
2) always refill it with a card you pay cash for
3) never pay an electronic deposit
4) don’t be lazy and ask about options by text. Ask on the phone, be polite if it’s not in the ad.
5) if it’s in the ad, ask anyways. Half don’t check what the ad says anyways
6) good advice to start with a short visit, go from there
7) ....and most are not who is in the pictures, or recent anyways.

If their ad says “no police”, ignore them. If they ASK if your police....ignore them.
The questions are useless, and anyone saavy to the hobby, knows the touch test is all that matters.

I don’t write reviews nor share references, unless through messages on a board such as here.
There are a couple recently trending scams involving the receipt of pictures, don’t ask for them. Either side.
Nasty game these days, this hobby. For both sides.
Oh....and no ones “Brother, cousin, uncle” drives them to a date. Your getting robbed, or gonna get robbed, or your car or house are gonna get hit.
....and the cops are flipping STG girls quite often.

Other than that, how hard can it be? ...lol

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[joyote]

EOD, welcome back

[Desdinova]

Originally Posted by EOD

1) always use a burner phone
2) always refill it with a card you pay cash for
3) never pay an electronic deposit
4) don’t be lazy and ask about options by text. Ask on the phone, be polite if it’s not in the ad.
5) if it’s in the ad, ask anyways. Half don’t check what the ad says anyways
6) good advice to start with a short visit, go from there
7) ....and most are not who is in the pictures, or recent anyways.

If their ad says “no police”, ignore them. If they ASK if your police....ignore them.
The questions are useless, and anyone saavy to the hobby, knows the touch test is all that matters.

I don’t write reviews nor share references, unless through messages on a board such as here.
There are a couple recently trending scams involving the receipt of pictures, don’t ask for them. Either side.
Nasty game these days, this hobby. For both sides.
Oh....and no ones “Brother, cousin, uncle” drives them to a date. Your getting robbed, or gonna get robbed, or your car or house are gonna get hit.
....and the cops are flipping STG girls quite often.

Other than that, how hard can it be? ...lol

Good post. I am curious, though. What sort of scams have there been involving the receipt of pictures? And how do you know the cops have been flipping STG girls? It wouldn't surprise me, but I just assume most adds are bait and switch these days.

There have been a number of providers that I had contact with, would like to see, but ultimately didn't end up seeing because I couldn't verify them or at least be reasonably sure they were legit.

[EOD]

Joyote...thanks. Took a while. Lol.

Desdinova, the first I experienced it was a different site. SA.
Fine young things profile says she’s 19. She pursues you. Once she gets a cell, she sends some provocative pictures, engages you in some ego boosting convo, then,
Whether you have, or have not sent some in return, she admits she has a secret.
Her secret is that she is not quite 18 yet, but that’s ok, right?
Now at this point, your answer should be, “Don’t Contact me again, I’m calling the police”.
Whether you do or not is dependent on your intestinal fortitude.
Now, once you have made up your mind as to how your gonna handle it, retrieve your phone from wherever you threw it( most men generally sling the phone to a nether part of the domicile they are in when the mental picture of the FBI crashing down the door enters their head. Something about not being caught red handed....)

Once you have calmed down, if you have not blocked the number, you get a call from uncle/dad/ brother/ cousin....whoever.
Where the tale goes from there varies, but none of it is good. It all involves blackmail and embarrassment no matter which way you turn.
The circumstances where escorts are concerned vary slightly, but all end up in the same cesspool. She’s hot, your bothered, and then she introduces the underage aspect.
Same defining moment.
Both start with the receipt of pictures.

[EOD]

....further on the picture thing....don’t ask for any. Ask if she has any posted elsewhere that you might peruse. If she sends them anyways, you didn’t ask for them. and DONT send any porno pics in return. The only thing of yours exciting her is a fat wallet.
Ask her in the politest way that’s she’s 18+.
The best you can do beyond that is trade glances at each other’s real id, with the important stuff covered, trade an intimate touch, then get to business.
Nothing’s guaranteed, make it fun, hope for the best.
If your lucky you find one that your compatible with and form a regular thing.

Cops lie, it’s part of their job, those questions don’t save you from crap. The drug trade is so bad here, that they usually reverse sting a girl, then have her flip a bunch of dates. Usually in the interest of chasing the drugs and trafficking. It doesn’t hurt to peruse mugshots if your a regular hobbiest. A telling fact is that there are rarely prostitution charges. Usually possession or above...


My .02 cents worth.

[tonguebath]

Welcome back EOD and thanks for taking the time to write out what most of us old timers were thinking.