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SmkFetish · 12-07-2019, 11:39 PM

Had a outcall set up and sent deposit through app and she kept texting that she was close and finally nothing. Damn shame was really looking forward to meeting her. Buyer beware. Asked me to send entire donation so she would feel more comfortable. Glad I didn't. So tired of the flakes. I should say she contacted me through pm. I didn't reach out to her. Go figure. What's weird is why would she say she was driving here and keep texting me saying close just to say she was scared? No hard feelings. Guess I just got burned again. Fun times! Good luck to her and everyone else in the future. Stay safe out there!

foxnews69 · 12-08-2019, 01:06 AM

I wrote some time before.

If you want to never see a provider or sugar baby any more just give them some advance money. Best way for them to disappear from your life.

I learned that the hard way just as you did.

Sorry that happened to you. Live and learn.

SmkFetish · 12-08-2019, 02:08 AM

Yes it was my choice. She only asked for 20 but I sent 50 seeing as she was super nice and was doing out all. She said she just was scared. Can't blame her. Its crazy times right now. I was so looking forward to seeing her. Damn.......

Guest042522 · 12-08-2019, 03:41 AM

I can understand why she'd feel better about not being ghosted if you send a deposit, but how is that supposed to make her feel less scared or safer?

Did you speak to her on the phone? Good chance that it was not even her you were communicating with, based on her reaching out to you, asking for full deposit, etc. And if she was "scared" why did she reach out to you in the first place??

Opossum · 12-08-2019, 10:32 AM

https://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p...44&postcount=6

I said it last Monday and I'll say it again.

Regardless of the business, never EVER prepay or give a security deposit to an African-American.

SmkFetish · 12-08-2019, 12:19 PM

It was her. Her number.
Her eccie account. Her cash app account. She reached out to me by pm. I had posted a topic in coed. Super nice person just got cold feet I suppose???

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Originally Posted by Michelle ma Belle

I can understand why she'd feel better about not being ghosted if you send a deposit, but how is that supposed to make her feel less scared or safer?

Did you speak to her on the phone? Good chance that it was not even her you were communicating with, based on her reaching out to you, asking for full deposit, etc. And if she was "scared" why did she reach out to you in the first place??

SmkFetish · 12-08-2019, 12:22 PM

That's ridiculous. Had more white women screw me over by far. Stupid comment. No wonder these women hate us. Can't tell the assholes from good people.

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Originally Posted by Opossum

https://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p...44&postcount=6

I said it last Monday and I'll say it again.

Regardless of the business, never EVER prepay or give a security deposit to an African-American.

winn dixie · 12-08-2019, 12:28 PM

History does seem to repeat itself.

In case it doesnt sink in-- Never pre-pay

Never

Since you state this has happened before.. Maybe try more reputable women

SmkFetish · 12-08-2019, 02:42 PM

First deposit ever paid. Just many no shows. Would never prepay. Was a small deposit for drive there. Regardless not upset about it just won't happen again.

Champagne Brown · 12-08-2019, 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted by SmkFetish

That's ridiculous. Had more white women screw me over by far. Stupid comment. No wonder these women hate us. Can't tell the assholes from good people.

Sorry that happened to you,OP..

Sirgenerous · 12-08-2019, 05:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Champagne Brown

Sorry that happened to you,OP..

Nothing happened to him. He did it to himself.

SmkFetish · 12-08-2019, 08:00 PM

True story. I did do it to myself.
But so many great reviews. Go figure.

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Originally Posted by Sirgenerous

Nothing happened to him. He did it to himself.

Sirgenerous · 12-09-2019, 03:43 PM

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Originally Posted by SmkFetish

True story. I did do it to myself.
But so many great reviews. Go figure.

No doubt it's a true story and fortunately a very inexpensive lesson.
I am surprised that you wished someone who ripped you off well but then again that does beat letting it eat away at you.

Buck Nekkid · 12-09-2019, 06:25 PM

OP, you have a terrific outlook! Don't know who you are.....but you appear to be a fantastic dude! More power to you and hobby on brother!

GastonGlock · 12-09-2019, 07:15 PM

I've only ever pre-paid once, and she was an out-of-towner on a tour, whom by all accounts seemed pretty damn professional, so I felt pretty safe about the gamble. It was a good investment.