Ghosting has become ridiculous......

[tna_porter]

Originally Posted by blackbird_nevermore

Find a good girl. See her a few times, develop a good working relationship.

I agree with this 1000%. I understand wanting to have variety, but the truth is that when you venture into the unknown in this game, you can set yourself up for disappointment. And I'm not saying that's a bad thing -- I definitely try new girls all the time but when it turns out bad, I shrug it off because that's just the way things can be in this semi-professional industry.

But yeah, if you build a good working relationship with a girl or two, then you'll always have that available to you. There's this one particular girl I see who has pretty bad reviews because she's always ghosting clients. But the thing is, she never ghosts me and I assure you it's not because I'm uber wealthy and have a huge dick. We just have a good working relationship and she'd rather see me than take a chance on a new guy or even a not-new guy that she doesn't like as much.

But again, all of this sort of implies limiting your choices a bit and that might not be what you want. Just know that there will always be trade offs here.

[badhusband]

I totally understand where Speed is coming from. While it may be the nature of the beast. I can't tell you how many times I've made an hour or so drive, one way, to get to 'The Area" for the 'two-three-four-five' call system to only be ultimately ghosted. Heck, the last appointment I scheduled for a 12am visit ended up with me waiting for 30mins in the hotel parking lot because she wasn't ready, then texts me to go get some items at a store and return. Then I waited another 30-40mins again outside the hotel for a text for the room number and her to be ready. After waiting in the lot getting funny looks from other guests, I finally just left when the clock hit 3am. And as I made the 1hr drive back home, she texts if I still wanted to see her! REALLY?? Anyways, while most of us guys have no clue about all the wierdos who contact the gals, I can see that in all but one of Speed's scenrios, the gals did reply to him initially. Then ghosted. A simple "I'm busy" reply or whatver other kind of excuse it may be shouldn't be that hard to do. Yes I agree with someone's advice to start with a good intro for a first contact. I'll typically explain that I'm P411 registered, have references if needed, time of day and length of meeting that I'm looking for. Speed did say that he inquired about how much notice these gals needed. Do some gals take this as being pushy? I don't know, but I personally don't see why that question would be? Speed also has a good point about putting a location in the ad. I'm about 30-40min south on Atlanta and if a gal is on the north side of the city, I'd be looking at an hour and half in good traffic for eact direction in addition to the time of the encounter. In essence. at least 4hours of MY time. I need to consider location. So, yes, while it was a rant, he made some valid points. Some gals just may never know who the few Diamonds in the rough are when getting a new inquiry, and probably don't really care, another nature of the beast.

[tna_porter]

Originally Posted by badhusband

A simple "I'm busy" reply or whatver other kind of excuse it may be shouldn't be that hard to do.

I think that you're giving these women too much credit. So back home, I do a lot of volunteer work and some of that work is with the homeless. Sometimes the homeless people that I work with are streetwalkers (I'm talking super dirty ones that no one here would want to touch). One time, I was taking a pair of them to get new IDs and one of their phones rang. Oops! They had a date scheduled for this time -- a duo no less. I didn't want them to miss out on revenue so I offered to take them back to their hotel and we could do the IDs later. They replied "No, it's fine, he'll wait". And that started a discussion -- how did they know he'll wait etc.? The answer? Guys ALWAYS wait. Here's the thing -- not only did I take them to get their IDs, but I took them to lunch too. They were probably 2 hours late to their date and the guy still waited.

Now, I'm not saying that the escorts were talking about here are like the bottle of the barrel homeless streetwalkers, but I cannot deny that certain behaviors are really similar. I know I've probably chimed in too much already on this thread but I'm telling you guys -- it's not you, it's them.

[BulldogCountry]

Communication is a wonderful and considerate thing.

If a lady is going to be two hours late seeing me, I'd like to know. I don't want to sit in a sketchy hotel parking lot or in a neighborhood I'm unfamiliar with for two hours. I'd rather go find something else to do, then come back at the proper time.

When I go ANYPLACE, I'm always either on time or a little early. It's not difficult to do. It's called "planning".

If you have an appointment at 5pm, that doesn't mean jump in the shower and start getting ready at 4:55pm.

[Taylove0324]

Originally Posted by Dothan.beauty91

Alright so , it's Lindsey here...and so bc1969 definitely has a good point. I do get bombarded with messages a lot, and I lose track..
I apologise for my poor time management there. I am trying. And not to mention, Pensacola has become some kinda hub for weirdos and guys not wanting to pay...rude people in general. And that alone is almost too much to bear and risk vs reward...well, this isn't the place to be in my opinion. And why do people wanna come on here an just start dissing us without any idea on what's going on behind the scenes?? Fuck.

Yes this is so true . I set up call and then 3 no shows. It's like you don't know who is really coming and who is just wasting time. I get hundreds of text a day and I have a real job. It's impossible to respond much less see everyone that contacts me. Send a text that stands out. Not do you do bb? Or any discounts? Or do you swallow?. I'm most likely not gonna respond to that. That should not be the first text you send.

[IPAdrinker]

Love seeing old threads bumped.

[knightartorias]

Originally Posted by Taylove0324

Yes this is so true . I set up call and then 3 no shows. It's like you don't know who is really coming and who is just wasting time. I get hundreds of text a day and I have a real job. It's impossible to respond much less see everyone that contacts me. Send a text that stands out. Not do you do bb? Or any discounts? Or do you swallow?. I'm most likely not gonna respond to that. That should not be the first text you send.

What about inviting people to an incall with 8 other *SKETCHY* people inside it, saying you don't have any rubbers so you'll be right back, and never returning. Only to call back asking why the client left as if nothing happened?

Yes, Let's talk about wasting time, Tay.

[Speedteacher]

Hey Tay, sounds like the truth is finally coming out completely. Might be as good time as any to bail to kville