Age Limits

[Abe Normal]

At my age, as long as she's breathing and doesn't remove her teeth before giving head, I'm game.

[amusemeant]

Well, as far as men reacting badly to being outside my/one's age range, I kind of think think they just tend to act badly whenever they get rejected for whatever reason. I definitely turn down some younger ones (the ones beautifulbailey is talking about - rude questions, insensitive, disrespectful, overbearing, expecting a robot instead of a human being), and turned down others for various reasons and almost always get some rude comments when they figure out that yes, I am really rejecting them.

I think there is a certain stigma there that since I do this for a living, I am obligated to do whatever is requested of me. No dear - this is not Burger King - you cannot always have it your way.

For me age is not the biggest factor, but rather attitude. A couple of other factors as well but usually don't have issues with those either.

[amusemeant]

Originally Posted by eb

On the hobbyist side, I have a theory. If a guy is 18-25 and isn't getting enough free civie sex, it may be a strong indicator that a provider may also want to avoid him.
I'm all for guys that age getting all the experience they can, whichever way they can,
so I'm happy for them that there are providers willing to go that low...just that @ that age it was so easy to get and money was so hard to get, that I wonder who has enough money when they are that age to spend on the hobby - really ugly trust fund babies?

The younger guys I have seen tend to be nervous and shy sometimes. They are attracted to older/bigger ladies, but they are too shy to approach someone who more than likely sees them as a kid. They think it's exciting to be with someone who is experienced and they want to learn things from me. They are eager to please and very excited .... which is pretty nice, as long as they are respectful...which is why I make sure they are respectful.

[Chellablaine]

Naomi I totally understand. And where you like companionship, Im more into the erotic porn. I dont kiss, I just want to get down and dirty. If I want the other then I save that for my personal life. Some of us ladies are cut for the gfe role, I am just not one of them.

And the older men also ask for discounts more than younger guys. Im not into the AARP thing, hehe. Its just not cool. I guess I click with the younger ones. But I have come across older guys that are sweet, I just cant give them what they are wanting, the whole gfe thing, and well younger men are more into the wham bam, which I totally love! Guess Im a total slut, or maybe because of a boring marriage for so many years I am able to live out more fantasies with my lil cubs.

[lil_michelle]

Originally Posted by Reasonable_man

This is certainly not a problem for me, and I appreciate your honest input!

wow... you sound so reasonable! lol

[lil_michelle]

Originally Posted by Abe Normal

At my age, as long as she's breathing and doesn't remove her teeth before giving head, I'm game.

ROFL

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by Chellablaine

Naomi I totally understand. And where you like companionship, Im more into the erotic porn. I dont kiss, I just want to get down and dirty. If I want the other then I save that for my personal life. Some of us ladies are cut for the gfe role, I am just not one of them.

And the older men also ask for discounts more than younger guys. Im not into the AARP thing, hehe. Its just not cool. I guess I click with the younger ones. But I have come across older guys that are sweet, I just cant give them what they are wanting, the whole gfe thing, and well younger men are more into the wham bam, which I totally love! Guess Im a total slut, or maybe because of a boring marriage for so many years I am able to live out more fantasies with my lil cubs.

Chella,

@ AARP. I have found most older guys to be very generous. Younger guys tend to ask for discounts a lot more. I so much prefer things this way. I totally understand about younger guys though. I wish I were more into guys my age for my family's sake but I'm not.. lol. My sister picks on me for dating older guys and it goes into one ear and out the other..

Wham bam would totally work for me depending on what mood I was in. Sometimes I like that but most times I'm like slow and steady. The boring marriage will do that to you.. lol! As long as you are happy and having fun.

xoxo,
Naomi

[heidilynnla]

I will see a youngster if he is mature and I will turn down an old fart if he is immature. I take it case by case.

[LAVixian]

Originally Posted by shorty

What's your age limit on seeing a Hobbyist or Provider?

30 and above

[jughead1171]

All I can say for the younger women who see older guys is thank you!!! thank you!!! thank you!!! And if you are my age or older than me all I can say is thank you!!! Thank you!!! thank you!!! LOL

[gigi_gypsy]

Originally Posted by beautifulbailey

1. The youngins have a high cancellation rate.
2. They are waayy too nervous for me which will make me uncomfortable.
3. They usually have waayy too many unsavory questions.
4. They do respect no for an answer. (exp. Dont put your finger there sweetie didn't I already tell you that!)
5. I am really not attracted to the under 30 crowd.

As with all things there are exceptions and as rare as it may be I do make them from time to time in the hobby.

As for my civie life? Nooo. I do not even like to date under 35. I prefer 40+.

I do not have an age requirement (except legal), but I agree with beautifulbailey EXCEPT for #5.

I would also add that most are not as respectful as older men. BUT there are always exceptions to every rule.

[pyramider]

I want to see what Whispers replies . . . now that could set this thread a fire.

[Cpalmson]

This is a tough question to crack. I enjoy being with older providers (35+) for several reasons. First, they tend to be more open minded in terms of activities, and they seem to have genuine interest during a date. Also, the don't get as uptight as some of the younger providers in terms of the entire appointment process beginning with initial contact, screening and eventually the activities to be experienced. On the other hand, from a general perspective, the older providers due to tend to show their age. This is not a knock more of a comment concerning reality.

On the other hand, the younger providers definitely have the youth factor going for them. I'll be honest, I enjoy the ego boost of being with a provider who could still be in college. There's just something about being with a young, hot, tight girl. Granted finding a good young provider that can actually perform without an agonizing screening process, without a limited menu, or outrageous donation rates is always a challenge.

Given that I'm in my 40s, I won't see a provider who is over her late 40s. I could always hook up with a civie girl around that age for some fun. If I'm going to see a provider between her mid 30s and mid 40s, she would have to be the complete package. Otherwise, I'm going to gravitate to the younger gals. My preferred age range is early 20s to mid/late 20s. However, I am open to seeing providers as young as 18 or 19.