Alternative expression of gratitude?

[Pangolier]

I realize there's a possibility that I might catch some flak from the female members of this board for posting this, but short of not starting the thread I don't really see a way of avoiding that.

I've been chatting back and forth with a provider that I've been seeing for awhile. It would be fair to say that she and I have engaged in some "extracurricular" activities on occasion.

Until now I had not seen her in more than a few weeks. Not long ago she contacts me and asks when she can see me again. I explained why I haven't been available recently. Then, the other day my eyes almost pop out of their sockets when I check my phone. She essentially tells me that she really wants to see me, and as a result she's offering to knock $150 off my hourly donation - indefinitely.

When I saw her most recently I experienced the exact same level of unsurpassed satisfaction that I've grown accustomed to. Here's what I find difficult: now I'm just trying to find a non monetary way of saying "thank you." Since "tipping" would just be nullifying her new terms, does anyone else have any suggestions they can think of?

[Fizley]

Bring her grocery store flowers or pick up a Hallmark card.

[Eric586]

If she has a wish list on her webpage give her something from her list. If not a gift card from a nice restaurant or her favorite store.

[NMEufdaST8]

Make a donation in her name to a cause she supports.

[Old-T]

Two points.

First, WHY would she do this? That is a serious discount. The most obvious answer is she likes time spent with you, and the way you treat her.
So the first and best way to show your appreciation is to keep treating her well. And I am not talking financially or sexually. My guess is you treat her as a real person--it is amazing how many clients don't.

As far as your actual question--what do you know about her and her likes? Things I have done at various times:

--cook her dinner
--a massage certificate
--better yet, get some candles, oil, towels, and read a How To book so you can give her a good massage
--a book by her favorite author, or genre. If she has kids, a book for her to read to them (any Shel Silverstein book will do)
--flowers--or a flowering plant.
The plant is often better because it lasts longer and reminds her of you.
--jewelry, if you know her preferences. It doesn't have to be expensive. And bonus points if you got it on a trip and picked it out with a story attached
--a favorite artist's album (or tickets to their show).

The cost of what you do is less important than making it something that shows you paid attention to her, and it is something tailored to HER.

Good luck.

[KalyEscort]

You can buy an Amazon Gift card and she can buy something that she likes. Everybody likes to receive attentions.

Kaly

[Ed Highlight]

Don't fall asleep right after you orgasm!!

[Unique_Carpenter]

I had a long write going, then I realized I was echoing old T's post.
So re-read that.
The two primary gals on my dance card, one at 10 yrs another at 8, both go for dinner off clock, both I take shopping.
I wouldn't do the gift card thing, that could be construed as a tip. But something specific from her gift list, yes.
Old T has a comment above "treat her as a real person". I agree and add: Treat the date as a real date (even if not going out).

[alaine]

Sometimes it's the simplest things that we appreciate the most. I have a regular client that knows I love tomatoes...he brings me tomatoes from his garden or the produce stand almost every visit.Another that brings me local honey for my allergies. I collect $2 bills... one guy brings those and silver dollars. I've gotten clothing, an I-Phone, lingerie, perfume, great wine, coffee, adult toys, sports memorabilia,plants and an arrowhead too. My regs never forget to bring my pooch a treat. Most of all, I just appreciate and enjoy their company.

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by Ed Highlight

Don't fall asleep right after you orgasm!!

wish I could, but her yelling...

[Joey_Gleet]

A package of hot dogs.

[Warptcuck]

I know a couple of chicks who love Dr. Pepper. I bring a couple to each date.

[Goose7093]

I agree with what others have said: treat her like a lady, and someone special. I would go a step farther. Why not talk to her about it? Tell her you appreciate it - and want to see her more as well - but just want to make sure that she never feels you are taking advantage of it. How do you do that?

I had a lady that didn’t want tips or more - she felt that it detracted from the connection we had, and didn’t want me to feel that she did it just for the money.

So everyone is different. I’d just talk to her, tell her what you’re thinking, and see what she wants.

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by Goose7093

I agree with what others have said: treat her like a lady, and someone special. I would go a step farther. Why not talk to her about it? Tell her you appreciate it - and want to see her more as well - but just want to make sure that she never feels you are taking advantage of it. How do you do that?

I had a lady that didn’t want tips or more - she felt that it detracted from the connection we had, and didn’t want me to feel that she did it just for the money.

So everyone is different. I’d just talk to her, tell her what you’re thinking, and see what she wants.

but but but some whores like to treated like a tramp slut as long as she feels not be treated as a whore

[SA Angel]

Old-T's suggestions are great.

Maybe buy her packages of massages. Or open up an account at a massage place for her and keep adding to it. This work can be really hard on a woman's neck, shoulders, and back. I've never met a girl that would turn down a massage from a licensed LMT at a reputable spa.