What is the longest time you have consistently seen a provider or client?

[PhantomofTheOpera]

Only one provider have I seen more than a couple of times. She was really good and brought her friends with her from time to time. I saw her for three years straight until she moved out of the area but that was a long time ago, in a galaxy far, far away.

[jlt293]

One in DFW area I met on BP in 2002; off and on. She has retired on occasion, but last 6 years, she contacts me when available. According to her, she doesn't see any newbies any more - just established clients, and I think white collar at that. I have one local that contacts me when she's in this area - going on 5 years now. With those I hit it off with, I tend to see them more than once and enjoy the benefits of being a "regular."

[Goose7093]

What benefits do you think you get being a regular??

[jlt293]

Originally Posted by Goose7093

What benefits do you think you get being a regular??

For me, it's been mostly little things with those over the past 25 years I've wound up seeing over a few years or so. Response and appointments are always a breeze - almost like VIP status with some. As a regular, they often reach out to me - if they are active a certain week or weekend, or are traveling near me, I get an email or text to let me know and we set something up if possible. Sometimes they make special offers - like :90min for the hour rate etc. One in particular that is non-GFE on here and P411 does GFE for me now; (verifiable reviews continue to show she isn't GFE for anyone; I have not written a review, as she doesn't want that known about her specifically). So - it's just little things like that. A first visit - figuring each other out. Half dozen or more visits in a year - things loosen up a good bit with that provider. Longer term - it's like hanging out with a friend almost (that would be a really sexy, hot friend that can leave you very satisfied)! I think too just the comfort of knowing that person well enough to know you're safe with them, knowing each other's likes & boundaries. I guess that's the best way to explain it.

[Karrine_Kream]

I'm not as seasoned as some of you vets but as long as I've been in the hobby I have a few I see from the very beginning

[earlyriserpaul]

Originally Posted by jlt293

Response and appointments are always a breeze - almost like VIP status with some. As a regular, they often reach out to me - if they are active a certain week or weekend, or are traveling near me, I get an email or text to let me know and we set something up if possible. Sometimes they make special offers - like :90min for the hour rate etc. One in particular that is non-GFE on here and P411 does GFE for me now; (verifiable reviews continue to show she isn't GFE for anyone; I have not written a review, as she doesn't want that known about her specifically). So - it's just little things like that. A first visit - figuring each other out. Half dozen or more visits in a year - things loosen up a good bit with that provider. Longer term - it's like hanging out with a friend almost (that would be a really sexy, hot friend that can leave you very satisfied)! I think too just the comfort of knowing that person well enough to know you're safe with them, knowing each other's likes & boundaries.

+1

[DallasRain]

Ditto..longer times mean connection and comfort.
Its like buds w benefits

[Old-T]

Originally Posted by jlt293

I think too just the comfort of knowing that person well enough to know you're safe with them, knowing each other's likes & boundaries. I guess that's the best way to explain it.

Explained very well.

[Goose7093]

I had wanted to start a thread about what benefits there are to seeing someone multiple times, but I think you hit it on the head with your response.

There’s safety, comfort, and knowing likes/dislikes. It can be like friends with paid benefits. For me, I can just be myself, at all times.

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

Ditto..longer times mean connection and comfort.
Its like buds w benefits

yup

[ClaireBarsett]

My longest escorting relationship was with a man, I saw him on and off again for three years. After the third appointment in the very being of our relationship, he started saying he loved me. I told him that I couldn't say those words back to him. And I never did. I couldn't, it felt wrong. And while I don't have many "morals", playing with someone's heart has never been my intention while escorting or in my personal dating life.

Things ended badly for us when he felt that I owed him my heart after seeing him for so long. It wasn't his age, it wasn't his looks, it wasn't even so much his personality that kept my heart at bay. It was his lack of being actually interested in me. He wanted me psychically, and that was it. Nothing wrong with that, sex is, in my personal opinion, important to a healthy relationship. But he knew NOTHING about me in the three years we met.

I do hope he is doing well, but I'm afraid to reach back out and ask.

[MOCHAakaMOCHA]

8yrs. It's nice to still be connected to some of my fave guys who have grown with me almost as long as the full length of my journey of 9 yrs (almost 9.5) and counting as a provider .

[soxfan]

3-4 years and I still miss that massage lady

[Ripmany]

Longest 3 times once in her basement then twice in her in call hotel room but I trust her she said she the money a room the 4 time and just ran.

[Old-T]

Rip, with your amazing personality I am truly surprised none of the ladies have kidnapped you, licked you in their basement, and made you their personal love toy. I am sure some of them have thought about it.