Not Fair!

[ReinaSTL]

I cannot believe that a person off of here is basically blackmailing me wanting me to do things that I don't normally do sexual wise and if I don't they tell me they're going to discuss me and the gentleman section that's not fair that specific things that I do and I'm very well at but there are things that I have boundaries for but I feel should be respected and it's not but if I don't go through with it he is going to give me a bad review for not going through with it and discuss bad things about me granted I have not had a reviews since what a year ago it's not fair to approach me in that manner. Does anyone have any suggestions on what I can do about it?

[Kat VonDee]

Just ignore it. If you have a pretty solid reputation, it’ll speak for itself. Most of the time when guys like that threaten ladies with bad reviews or claims of posting something bad about them in the ML because they didn’t get their way, they don’t do it. It’s just a tactic to see if you will fold & do what they want. I would also post about him in the Powder Room to inform other ladies about him so we can avoid him.

[DallasRain]

Ditto

Just stand firm and you will be fine

[Savannah Moon]

Originally Posted by Kat VonDee

Just ignore it. If you have a pretty solid reputation, it’ll speak for itself. Most of the time when guys like that threaten ladies with bad reviews or claims of posting something bad about them in the ML because they didn’t get their way, they don’t do it. It’s just a tactic to see if you will fold & do what they want. I would also post about him in the Powder Room to inform other ladies about him so we can avoid him.

+1000 Well stated

If he is a member you can post his user name. You may be surprised to find he has done it to other Providers & ones he has not yet bantered with can be informed.
It is one of those issues we as providers come across. Not often but when it occurs it is revolting.
They will threaten you, your reputation, some have even included family, safety & LE.
I handle those situations way better than when I began...

[ReinaSTL]

mroral69npt is his handle. He says he's seen Dallas Rain and Angelas

[DallasRain]

I have seen him. Several times..the only issue I had was my fault.In our first playtime I had severe severe allergies and didn't provide as enjoyable a time as I normally would...but the 2nd visit I MORE than made up for it..lol!
Never had any issues with him since that first appt(and that was my fault like i said)
I actually have an appt with him coming up soon..but that's MY experience.... I can tell you that he is an alpha type male so may seem a little dominant in his ways...but like I said,my experiences with him all been good.
I have seen several gents from this board that other gals have had not-so great encounters with....but then again I am kinda dominant and don't wanna deal with the drama some guys offer,so I immediately set my ground and let them know I can handle my self without their help or drama...I have met you Miss R...you are a sweet lady and seem a little dominant but just a little shy too..nothing bad about that or you at all.....we women are all wired different and that's what makes us each special and unique! ..so maybe that is why some guys try to take advantage of you and of your good nature......sorry that has happened.....dont know what else to say except keep your chin up,keep on smiling and be confident that you can rock any man's world in the way you do best.

[ReinaSTL]

I think the problem also lies is that I am not submissive I am dominant as well and although I want a positive review and whatnot I don't want to lower my standards for things that I don't do when it comes to doing things uncovered I don't do that I'm kind of a safety nut when it comes to that when it comes to that because of the bad experience I had years ago anyway I feel like I am lowering my standards just for a review and I shouldn't have to feel like that although today I did scheduled to see him even though it wasn't as in-depth as he's talking about now but my daughter has shown up at the last minute and a half hour before my session just popped up at my door there was nothing I could do except message him right away to let him know what the circumstances was in the moment she left I message him back to let him know that the coast was clear that's when he started talking about going to the men's chat room and expecting me to worship his c... And bear bag and c i m and it kept going on and on and I just kept getting more uncomfortable as it was unfolding until finally I didn't know what to say.
I have amazing skills and talents that doesn't require me to do anything better back so I don't think it's fair maybe I'm wrong

[ReinaSTL]

Although I have been a member for years I really have not conversed bursae in these rooms these chat rooms you're talking about I don't even know how to get into them I don't know my way around this site like I should.

[DallasRain]

I was never asked for bare...but that was just my experience.
So sorry that your experience was different.....like I said before move on and keep rockin in your confidence and your talents! Lots of guys out there to enjoy what all you have to offer and will be your best hobby experiences!!

[Unique_Carpenter]

Reina,
You now have three of the well known KC ladies on your side.
Good for you for mentioning his handle.
I doubt if he posts anything, even if in the men's locker, anyone will pay attention to him now.
Use PM to ask either of the gals above, or one of the mods, how to get into the ladies area. Btw, there's a couple woman mods in the Texas forums that could also help if you'd prefer to discuss that with a gal mod.

[BigDeal]

Reina if this is the case its unacceptable...and you have handled this with class.
I hope he comes forward to explain himself.

[Guest030219]

And here I am. Ok my side of the story. First off. I saw your ad on listcrawler. You had a video bbbj on a black man, which you said was your ex bf and your ad on another site says you do this service. So I asked about it and you agreed for a review you will. Today 10 minutes before our appt. You texted to cancel with some lame story about your daughter there however I was at the location and see you jump into a ragged vehicle with a black guy...probably your ex. Then 2 hours later you are apologizing asking me to return and offering discounts or more time. I knew it was a scam. And with your very weak reviews over years ago, I said if I mention this in the Men's lounge, just as the ladies do in their lounge. It would not help you. Look I think my reputation here is alot better than yours and from what I have just seen with possible management and "I'm bringing up girl's from Joplin" not sure this thread is real.

[ReinaSTL]

you are so wrong because I had the messages to prove it it was 12:05 when my daughter shows up and there is nothing on any of my ads that says that I do bareback because I'm very strict about that you can can catch sexually transmitted diseases through oral sex. I had an emergency I came to Kansas City to be with my daughter and to help her this is not everybody's business about what has happened but you were assuming whatever it is that you want to assume when I see my client is very respectful and you had been messaging me off and on the entire time for basically two days and it was getting to the point to where it was actually annoying so I'm glad I had the emergency and it wasn't the last minute and it wasn't 10 minutes beforehand like I said I have a message just to prove it so say what you will there are always two sides to every story I'm just glad that I didn't waste my time. And I am not the only person that has complained about you I am reading a lot of things about you so don't judge me when you should be looking in the mirror like I said have a good evening. Conversation over good night ladies and thank you for your input have a great evening and be safe.

[Guest030219]

You need to review all your ads. And you are referring to bb as bbfs and that is not correct. I only asked you about bbbj and you said yes. Now start pimpimg your girls from Joplin and where else you are talking about.
And if you are jumping on her bandwagon and not see both sides. I have texts too and I am sure she doesn't want to go b down that road.

[ReinaSTL]

How could you be so racist because my preference is a black man are you kidding me I'm going to have you reported I do not have a pimp just because a person is black does that mean that they are a pimp I have dated black men for years I have black friends it doesn't mean anything how dare you say that to me in front of all these people you are a very rude and disrespectful and narrow-minded man I am so glad that I did not go through with meeting you you are the type of people that I put on the do not see list I do not have to tolerate this and I do not have to see people better your caliber I'm not desperate and not all money is good money you are rude disrespectful and need to be removed off this site how dare you!