Weird foot fetish question.

[Zena]

Ok. Im still a newbie I guess when it comes to foot fetishes... This guy texts me and texts me...gets me thinking we are going to do a session ... Im excited wanting my toes and feet sucked and worshipped then he hits me with this right before we set up time... ~ "I do a 20 dollar donation for the lady while she can play on her phone.. Fold laundry...or chat with her husband or whatever ".
Stunned and shocked when i came back to reality- I laughed my fu####g head off told him a few things about WHEN that is gonna happen !!! F###g never! And then I thought. Wowwwwwwwwww...
Really ???? Your thoughts ??
Im torn between stunned and the comedy of it & the complete insult ! But I'm choosing to laugh my butt off over this !

[James1588]

Originally Posted by Zena

Ok. Im still a newbie I guess when it comes to foot fetishes... This guy texts me and texts me...gets me thinking we are going to do a session ... Im excited wanting my toes and feet sucked and worshipped then he hits me with this right before we set up time... ~ "I do a 20 dollar donation for the lady while she can play on her phone.. Fold laundry...or chat with her husband or whatever ".
Stunned and shocked when i came back to reality- I laughed my fu####g head off told him a few things about WHEN that is gonna happen !!! F###g never! And then I thought. Wowwwwwwwwww...
Really ???? Your thoughts ??
Im torn between stunned and the comedy of it & the complete insult ! But I'm choosing to laugh my butt off over this !

I didn't think I was going to be responding to your post, as it says it's a foot fetish question, and I'd be crippled by a near-complete ignorance about foot fetishes. All I really know is that more than a few guys seem to have a lively interest in women's feet, which is fine, but isn't "me" ... my interests tend to be located a few feet north.

But I see it's really a question about general escort - client relations. And I think you're wise to take the laugh-my-butt-off approach. This looks like a natural consequence of the "I'm paying for one or more specific sex acts" mentality, which is very common. Those of us who take the usual disclaimer literally (I really AM paying for your time and companionship, and anything else that might happen really IS a matter of choice between two consenting adults) would never make you such an offer; if I'm with you for an hour, that's an hour that another prospective client can't book, and also an hour in which you can't be doing the vacuuming or the grocery shopping or dropping off your dry cleaning, etc. Thus I pay your standard published rate for that hour, whether I'm nursing at your toes (which I won't be) or doing something else that won't leave you with the extra hand needed to use your phone.

So, this was just another guy who needs to embrace the concept of buying a bit of your time, and not particular actions.

[HoustonRiley]

Lol WTH..... How rude. I love foot fetish. And see gents that do too but they usually give the normal rate. Should have kicked him in the mouth for the 20. Lol

[Truckerman86]

Sounds like dude that has mother issues, he prolly used to beat off watching her fold his socks while beat off in one.

[Truckerman86]

I've never understood the foot fetish thing.. they're feet.. I love a good foot massage but getting off on feet, weird..

[pmdelites]

zena,
so was it the kind of activities he was requesting?? ...
”... for the lady while she can play on her phone.. Fold laundry...or chat with her husband or whatever ". ...

the amount of compensation he was offering??

the fact that he hadnt actually scheduled an appt w/ you?? (you completed your screening of him? none of his refs said anything about that kind of session?)

or something else??


IF i were a provider and IF it were me being asked (yeah, i know .., i’m not a provider nor did i play one at a holiday inn last nite for a tv episode :^} ) ....
i wouldnt be too upset at that kind of request. in the past, providers have told me that clients have hired them to read books to them, go with them on an upscale shopping experience, and even have sex with them while they talk to the BF or SO. sessions are all about companionship or escorting or providing an experience, correct?perhaps it’s some some sort of role playing he’s into and he thought that might be something he could do w/ you. which could lead to other more intimate or creative role playing sessions (and more consulting fees for you).

however, I would tell the client what my rates are for that and let him decide if he wants to hire me for that. i decide upon rates, not the client.


again, i’m not a provider.
but, those are my thoughts which you asked for in your post.

[pmdelites]

Originally Posted by Truckerman86

I've never understood the foot fetish thing.. they're feet.. I love a good foot massage but getting off on feet, weird

i get that there are a lot of intimate and erotic activities that some people are into and NOT into (for example, i dont completely understand wanting to do Russian or Italian or even Greek.)

but weird ???
not necessarily, just different.
different strokes for different folks.
as long as it’s between consenting adukts.

[SlowHand50]

I'm not into footjobs or excessive toe-sucking, but I do find a woman's legs extremely enticing, especially when adorned by some classy thigh-high stockings. And the stockings can stay on for the duration of activities, or perhaps one can be removed and used to enhance that sense of touch, used by both of us, if you get my drift. I'm a highly visual guy, and heightening the sense of touch is always fun.

[TOTHorns]

I've never understood the foot fetish thing.. they're feet.. I love a good foot massage but getting off on feet, weird..

Feet don't do much for me but I'm sure many of the things I'm into are not for most people either. When I read about activities I'm not into, I usually just keep my thoughts about them to myself because it adds nothing to the discussion to say other people's kinks are "weird". We know they're not the usual activities and that's why they're referred to as kinks. If you want to talk about not-kinky, straight-laced vanilla activities, there are plenty of other forums in eccie.

[Saml77]

I’m a foot fetish guy and that is a comical approach.

[Zena]

Well my standard 30 min donation or 1 hour donation is the LEAST he could offer .... I dont understand how 20 is an offer.
I mean, I do, but Lol.
Reeeallllyyyyy??!?!!
I like the comment- you should have kicked him in the mouth for 20!